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Does your S/O annoy you?

hardrock

hardrock

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After living with my girlfriend for a while I noticed that I am easily annoyed by her. It bothers me and I wish it weren't that way. I care for her alot and want this relationship to last, but this shits gotta stop. Usually just little shit too. She is a lot younger than me and that probably plays a big part. Some things that are common sense to me she has no clue about. Everything from driving to ordering food seems to get to me. She also has this tendency to play the victim or sad puppy dog role that really get to me.


How do you guys deal with your anger or frustration with your S/O? I'm tired of getting angry with her and I'm sure she is too.
 
No not at all.
It's amazing actually.

The only possible peeve I can squeeze out is that I aways hang the bath/shower matt after I'm dry and done in the bathroom. He'll leave it soaking wet on the floor and then go back and walk on it with his work boots. It seems so petty (I've mentioned it a few times) so I always run and hang it up before he can make it dirty with his boots - maybe one day he'll catch on (or I'll just keep bleaching the crap out of it).
 
Smurfy said:
tell her what youre telling us.
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sounds like good advice, but I was having similar problems, as HardRock, with my ex GF and I told her alot about what was bugging and all it did was alienate us more. The thing is, that it's petty shit that was bugging me (like Hardrock), so I jsut came off like a total asshole when I brought up all these petty little things up to her. Looking back, althoug h Istill loved/cared for her, I think I was just tired of being in the relationship, so I probably took it out on her.
 
hardrock said:
After living with my girlfriend for a while I noticed that I am easily annoyed by her. It bothers me and I wish it weren't that way. I care for her alot and want this relationship to last, but this shits gotta stop. Usually just little shit too. She is a lot younger than me and that probably plays a big part. Some things that are common sense to me she has no clue about. Everything from driving to ordering food seems to get to me. She also has this tendency to play the victim or sad puppy dog role that really get to me..
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It really could just be a temporary age thing and it will all depend on when she catches up top you.

When I was 25 ish I dated a 31 year old that used to in my mind father me but in looking back everything he was true and was for my own good - wished I'd listened to some of his suggestion then.
 
Every minor injury or illness is a big deal with her.
She whines and pouts over them.

I have little patience for it, and she knows it. So she keeps it to a minimum around me. :)
 
These problems will not just "Go away" You MUST tackle them head on or they will grow larger and become more annoying. These things have happened to me, I know what you`re talking about. You sort of wait for them to happen, and when they do, it pisses you off so much more because "You knew it" was coming. Don`t keep it inside!

Do it before you marry her or have kids.
 
not anymore; I kicked her to the curb.
 
communicate, and on your part let the small stuff go and in a while you will stop noticing it too. There is no magic formula to solve this, just relax and go with the flow a relationship takes a lifetime to build. You're currently being tested, make sure you last and it will be smooth sailing after that.
 
Thankfully no... he does lil' things that can be annoying but I laugh about it! It doesn't bother me one bit! We're a lot alike in the way we do things so it's a good thing. & he's a CLEAN-FREAK (like me, if not worse), so that's never an issue either!! :)
 
17 years of marriage and she never seems to annoy me. I know I probably annoy her at times but it is all good with us anyway. I can't imagine being with anybody else.:)
 
HumorMe said:
17 years of marriage and she never seems to annoy me. I know I probably annoy her at times but it is all good with us anyway. I can't imagine being with anybody else.:)
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You must spread some Karma around before giving it to HumorMe again.
Awwwwwwwwwww so sweet!! :rose: :qt:
 
Sh4dowF4lcon said:
c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n is the key, good luck it aint easy.
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No doubt, without it your relationship is destined to fail. My wife and I have an open door policy when it comes to problems with one another. Her main gripe is I spend too much time at work, and not enough time with her and Riley......now it will be her Riley, and Alexis..... :)

I try my best to be home most every night for dinner, this means I have to be up by 7 ( I know not early for most of you, but I am a 9'er by habit) to make it to the gym, and then to the lot by 10 at the latest.

I could stay at work all night, or spend many more nights a week gone at various auctions, and make a lot more money. But what good is money if you don't have the time to spend with the ones that matter.
 
She has her "And this one time.... at band camp...." moments

not that often though.
I don't pretend to care. I hold honesty as the highest.
 
Yeah, my hubby annoys me at times -- certain things he does -- like make sarcastic comments just loud enuf for me to hear him but not all the words in a sing-song voice -- drives me up a wall!!!!!!
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but he also won't acknowledge he even does that.....
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I think there are stages in a relationship. At first all is exciting and new...you look over the things that would normally bother you because the other person makes you feel good. Then after a couple of years they start to drive you insane and at that point, you weigh whether or not the happiness is worth the irritation. After you decide to stick with it, you just kind of get over it. At least that's how it's always been for me.

Now some of those things are even a bit endearing. I can't expect him to be perfect all the time when I'm far from it myself. And 99% of the time I'm not up for expending energy on stupid/petty bickering.
 
Sadly he does. In small ways. In some ways, he can't help. But then in ways he can help.

He snores at times. Not often, only about 20% of the time. (If he has had a stressful day). I can't stand that. At first (like the first half hour) it was cute because he sounds like a purring kitty cat.... but sometimes his "purrs" vibrate his whole body.

Then in some ways, he can help it. He is shy and very much an introvert at times. He is too forgiving and trustworthy. He has no idea who he is and what power he wields over people. Sometimes I want to shake him and scream "EXERT YOURSELF!!" Of course, with my bad luck, I would end up no longer possessing the alpha male status if I did.
 
Raina said:
I think there are stages in a relationship. At first all is exciting and new...you look over the things that would normally bother you because the other person makes you feel good. Then after a couple of years they start to drive you insane and at that point, you weigh whether or not the happiness is worth the irritation. After you decide to stick with it, you just kind of get over it. At least that's how it's always been for me.

Now some of those things are even a bit endearing. I can't expect him to be perfect all the time when I'm far from it myself. And 99% of the time I'm not up for expending energy on stupid/petty bickering.
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I think my parents, aged 64 and 54, after 23 years of marriage, are still stuck in the second phase. :chomp:
 
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