it is always a good idea to keep your true identity known. Just make sure that if the product is coming to a mailbox etc. ups store , whatever, that the box has that person listed as being able to recieve mail.I personally think the best way is to send it to a friends addy in a different name and you are clean and so is he if something should go down, another good place to have it sent is an empty apt in your or a friends building. Tell them they can leave it at the door and when it is time for it to arrive, watch the empty apt close and grab it one minute after its dropped.That way, you are 100% clean. The only other thing to consider is that you dont have to sign for it. If you have to show id to get package(which surely isnt the case) you would be screwed for sure.
Karma needed badly!