Dude- Don't get ahead of yourself... I think it just says something about you...
first I want to make it clear, I did not say I never saw anyone's gear, it is almost unaviodable for you to never have seen anyone else's unit... the point is you are not going in there looking to check em out..... (which is what you said you did)... and that is the difference....
I have plenty of gay friends, even 1 that I played ball with.... The fact is you are not there to be checking each other out, basically you breached their confidence in you, hell why not just take some pics of em and post em up....
It is like say if I am going some where with my buddy's girlfriend and she has to change or something in front of me.... (well almost cause this is not a gay example-in this example let's say that they are pretty serious) I wouldn't check her out cause I have respect for her and for my friend...
Basically you did not respect that you and the rest of the team are forced into that situation.... you disrespected your teammates with your gaya$$ tendencies...
period...
the difference is you were making a conscious effort to check out your team mates...