curling said:
But anyway was it hard to quit? I am especially going to miss the after dinner smoke that one is always the best.
The after dinner smoke... lol... no shit brother!!! Damn, packing in a mean dinner and havin' a smoke afterwards.... aahhhhh!!!! Even better than a smoke after sex, I don't care what anyone says. It's nice not having to get up and go outside after sex anymore though. It's been about 5 weeks. Whew!!!
I didn't know you smoked bro. And, I hear you about your kids giving you shit. Damn, my daughter just turned 5 and she would tear me a new one everytime I had one. I know you said he quit things cold turkey, that's 'how you do things' and everything, but you don't have to be He-Man on this one. It's possible to pass those real hard times without having to feel so shitty.
The first few times I quit, I did it cold turkey too. This time, as you probably read, I used nicorette. And wow brother, no bullshit... it helped. I probably used about 20 pieces of gum to quit. I only had one when I felt like I was going to explode, or had a bad headache. Other than that, I'd let myself suffer and just deal with it. Now, I only carry a piece when I head to the bar to get trashed. It usually get's chewed by the end of the night.
I'm saving money, I smell better, and I breathe better. It's 3 days of hell. After that, it get's easier. I hope you can quit soon curling... try not to put it off 3 years, you know that won't make it any easier man. I can understand the whole smoking while boating thing though.

For ONE summer anyway! Don't be to proud to use something to help you out... the nicotine in the gum really did fix the fits I had. I didn't think it would, but once I started using it, as soon as I bit into the gum... the first bite, I would get that rush of nicotine feeling through my body. Instantly. Just like a smoke.
Enough preachin'

. Good luck to you when you decide to quit.
Better to be a pussy that used a crutch like gum, than to hear you're gonna die painfully and young from smoking. At the point those words come out of the doc's mouth, 3 days of nic fits would seem like a fucking field day, and the only thing you'd be left with is regret, constant coughing, air tank deliveries, and slowly but definately, death. Okay... now enough preaching.
Set your mind to it. You can do it my friend. If you don't have pictures of your kid's in your wallet... put 'em in when you choose to quit. They are an excellent reminder of how important you are, not only to yourself, but to others, and it's easier to look at the picture and envision what it would be like for them if dad had to leave them 30 years early.
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