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Does marriage suck??

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I mean, really. Everyone seems to complain about it. Should I avoid it at all cost? Why do people get married if it sucks so bad??
 
Based on the fact that pretty much everyone I know who has ever been married, is or is considering getting divorced, I'd say yes it sucks.
 
I`m married and I would`nt want to be NOT married. lol Love has a big play in there.

Sometimes it sucks because you have arguments. No difference with anything else.

I do like the fact that I am with "the" person to concentrate on making happy for the rest of our lives. It takes ALOT of stress away from the single life, going out, on the prowl type life.

Of course you have to be compatible. We also have a small child and hopefully another one coming in a couple of years.

Just another stage in life for me I guess.
 
There's always gonna be bumps in the road. You will always have things that need to be resolved and compromised on. It's not a fairy tale. I think some people go into a marriage thinking that when it gets hard, it's time to get a divorce. That's not the case.
 
I love being married. Being single had its perks, but the older I get, the more I'm glad that I'm not single.
 
onerepmaximum said:
There's always gonna be bumps in the road. You will always have things that need to be resolved and compromised on. It's not a fairy tale. I think some people go into a marriage thinking that when it gets hard, it's time to get a divorce. That's not the case.
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True, You must also learn to "roll with the punches",. If you think you`re not going to change as a person in the next 10-20-30+ years. You`re kidding yourself. What then? Will you tell your wife, "You`ve changed".

It`s a constant evolving, living, breathing relationship. You MUST make sacrifices sometimes. Don`t just remember your wedding day and say "That`s how I want it forever". If so, You`re headed for disaster.
 
Good posts so far... It is all good from my point of view...

Try to find someone considerate, and give the same consideration back.... that helps
 
Marriage is the single best thing to happen to me......

Well, my daughter actually..........

But then there's that whole chicken before the egg analogy.....


See my posts in the Elite Between The Sheet's forum......:confused:


Why the hell they got moved there....??? I have no idea....


We have some move happy mods lately.........
 
gonelifting said:


True, You must also learn to "roll with the punches",. If you think you`re not going to change as a person in the next 10-20-30+ years. You`re kidding yourself. What then? Will you tell your wife, "You`ve changed".

It`s a constant evolving, living, breathing relationship. You MUST make sacrifices sometimes. Don`t just remember your wedding day and say "That`s how I want it forever". If so, You`re headed for disaster.
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I've heard both sides of the "changed" argument...you know, he changed after we got married,then on the other hand I've heard "they will never change"..its a toss up if you ask me
 
do not marry anyone thing they will change-or you can change them..it won't work...My first tried that on me,no thanks so after 2yrs married,she starts running aroung & sleeping with a 16yr old!!!!I was 22 then ,she was 20.


RADAR
 
based on prior loves, I have to anticipate marriage as the ultimate union b/w 2 people in love. I think it will be the best thing ever (when ready) I also think divorce is going to be the worst thing ever.
 
Buffy Beffy said:
I mean, really. Everyone seems to complain about it. Should I avoid it at all cost? Why do people get married if it sucks so bad??
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bro you seem to be questioning marriage alot. sounds like youre not too sure about your current partner
 
ZKaudio said:
based on prior loves, I have to anticipate marriage as the ultimate union b/w 2 people in love. I think it will be the best thing ever (when ready) I also think divorce is going to be the worst thing ever.
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If you think divorce would be the worst thing ever, and marriage would be the best thing ever, you are headed for a fall.
 
ZKaudio said:
hopefully the letdown of marriage will make the pain of devorce less intense.
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optimistic i see....

I have a huge fear of divorce. I've been through it twice with my parents and it's huge heartache. Pretty sure I would rather never marry than divorce....and i'm in a mmmm...serious? relationship right now. That's what is with all of the threads like this lately.
 
the pasture isn't always greener on the other side..go with your gut/heart instinct..that is if you have enough experience..I had my "beta" marriage,and I'm ready to do it again..course I'm growing grey hair:)
 
Devastation said:
dump him now
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Same advice on both threads, eh?

I honestly don't think that I could live without him. I have always been a cautious person when it comes to getting hurt, but there comes a time when you have to take a chance. I think he (juicedmullet :)) is worth it.....:worried:
 
Buffy Beffy said:


Same advice on both threads, eh?

I honestly don't think that I could live without him. I have always been a cautious person when it comes to getting hurt, but there comes a time when you have to take a chance. I think he (juicedmullet :)) is worth it.....:worried:
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you've answered all your questions right there and anything we tell you will not change your mind. follow your heart
 
my brother was like you BB he had a marriage breaker he was dating-we -me -his friends tried to pound it into him!!! after all was said and done he was to marry this gal in less than a week-she then had second thoughts! went back to her old BF...my brother said "Why didn't yall tell me" DUUHHH!!! we tried!!!!
love is blind!!!!!
theres plenty of fish in the sea!!!!!!!
That reminds me of a suitation....2 guys sitting in a bar
1st guy " my wife divorced me"
2nd guy" don't worry there's plenty of fish in the sea"
1st guy" yeah! but she took all my bait!"



RADAR
 
supernav said:
Trust me dude. Once you go past 30, the single life sucks big time. Even before 30, being single is such a pain in the ass, and the art of "wooing" takes up so freakin' much time out of your week.

-= nav =-
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I know plenty of men past 30 who get women left and right. Most of them are married though.
 
Women marry men hoping they change... Men marry women hoping they never change...
Women change and men always stay the way they are...
 
I love being married!!!!!

I can honestly say, if anything ever happened to my hubby I would not re-marry. I do not think I could ever find another man like him in this world! He's the "bestest"!
 
I was married once. For 4 years. It was kinda cool. Now I've been divorced for 6 years and it's been fun too. I'd probably do it again but if I don't well... that's cool too.

It's all good.
 
Marriage to me would be fan-fuckin-tastic.
 
Russian KGB said:
Women marry men hoping they change... Men marry women hoping they never change...
Women change and men always stay the way they are...
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time to change the sheets baby
 
Buffy Beffy said:
I mean, really. Everyone seems to complain about it. Should I avoid it at all cost? Why do people get married if it sucks so bad??
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Every man knows that things stop sucking once you get married.......
 
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