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does anyone regret having kids?

tuc biscuit

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ok, so obviously kids have their good points, but does anyone actually regret it, they drain your money, your time, your freedom, your emotions and most other things, who here will actually say overall they regret having them?
 
I don't think a lot (if any) people would ever admit to it...... it's still barely acceptable to not even want kids...

I wonder sometimes when I see how people interact with their kids why they even bothered to have them....
 
never regret my babies....... they are my life, my love :rose:
 
there's been a few bad days when i regret my PARENTS having kids........but it passes.
 
jenscats is right on the money...nobody will ever admit that they regret having kids, but actions do speak louder than words at times...and you can just tell.
 
bran987 said:
ask the hiltons

OH FUCK!!!!!!!

BRAN CAME WITH THE FIRE, NUGGAAAAAAA! :lmao: :chomp:

"better laugh now, then cry when I come to get you.
I'll hit you with 2 Brans and leave with scar tissue!"




DIV
 
tuc biscuit said:
i think they have regretted having me many times..many, many times, along with 3 sisters..........i bet they have had regrets

Tuc, with all due respect, have you even moved out of your parent's house yet?

I remember you bitching awhile back about your sisters touching your stuff.




DIV
 
tuc biscuit said:
i think they have regretted having me many times..many, many times, along with 3 sisters..........i bet they have had regrets

Then they aren't very good parents, no offense. Anyone that regrets having children might as well regret being alive at all.
 
some days you would sell them for a nickel, others, you wouldnt take all the money in the world for them
 
bluepeter said:
Then they aren't very good parents, no offense. Anyone that regrets having children might as well regret being alive at all.


i don't mean overall, when you have 4 young kids running around screaming i am sure most people wish to make them disappear
 
Tink! said:
not for one second of her life. She has given me purpose and meaning. She has taught me more things than i could ever have imagined. She is truly a blessing!!


so when you were cleaning shit off her ass and she was waking you in the middle of the night that was still gravy?
 
tuc biscuit said:
i don't mean overall, when you have 4 young kids running around screaming i am sure most people wish to make them disappear

There are always moments like that but don't mistake that for them regretting they had you. If they are compassionate and loving and parents in any way, they wouldn't trade you for anything.

My kids drive me crazy sometimes but that doesn't mean I regret having them. Not for one millisecond ever.
 
Some days I wonder where I would be if I hadn't had a child. My daughter was born when I was pretty young, but I was also on a very bad path at the time and she brought be back onto the right path. So all in all, no regrets. I have a feeling that if she didn't come along when she did, I would have been 6 feet under years ago. So in a way, she saved my ass, so I owe her big time.
 
No regrets. Ever.











Except this weekend, when my daughter came home from the mall with perfume called "Fetish".

I'm tellin' you.....I ain't gonna make it.
 
I don't think I want kids, but good luck finding a woman who thinks the same.

Hell I can't even stand having my nephews around for more than an hour.
 
Not Really, its just that sometimes.......

.....I want to hit him over the fuckin head with a pickaxe,

but other than that , no.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I don't think I want kids, but good luck finding a woman who thinks the same.

.

You'd be surprised......there are women out there who don't want kids.

I've never wanted kids. And the people who feel the need to argue with me about it is hilarious!! :lmao:
 
jenscats5 said:
You'd be surprised......there are women out there who don't want kids.

I've never wanted kids. And the people who feel the need to argue with me about it is hilarious!! :lmao:

That is awesome! We should hook up, make beautiful babies, and live happily ever after.

Oh wait! :worried:




and lol @ Bran987, you make a valid point there bro.
 
alien amp pharm said:
That is awesome! We should hook up, make beautiful babies, and live happily ever after.

Oh wait! :worried:




and lol @ Bran987, you make a valid point there bro.

lmao...

aren't you the boy who was supposed to be the cum stain on the blue dress? :qt:


I :heart: U
 
For those that don't have kids, it is impossible for those that have kids to express their feelings and what it means to be a parent. I can't imagine having any regrets for having kids.

My family is my life. It will be with great satisfaction in my life to know whether they turn out good or bad that my wife and I raised them with love and affection and guidance to be responsible people.
 
Frisky said:
lmao...

aren't you the boy who was supposed to be the cum stain on the blue dress? :qt:


I :heart: U

but luckily for you people I wasn't. :supercool
 
alien amp pharm said:
but luckily for you people I wasn't. :supercool

LOL

yea.. have to admit .. having a NICE guy around is pretty cool :verygood:
 
It's different when it's your kid. Cleaning the worst diaper blowout isn't all that bad, cute actually. I've never regretted a moment, even during the colic no-sleep nights during the first 3 months. It does take its toll on the parents relationship with sleep deprivation and not having time for each other.
 
awittyusername said:
Hell I can't even stand having my friends wives around for more than an hour

:lmao:

In the mornings at the gym when I'm doing cardio, I can hear them in the back row on the stairmaster gabbing about all kinds of shit, talking just to talk. They spend the most time at the gym and get the least accomplished.

Housewives.




DIV
 
jenscats5 said:
I don't think a lot (if any) people would ever admit to it...... it's still barely acceptable to not even want kids...

I wonder sometimes when I see how people interact with their kids why they even bothered to have them....
OOoohhh agreed. Some people need their parental rights revoked.

As for this post...i'm a single mommy of the coolest soon to be 4yro alive. Things have been tough from time to time but like the guy above said...the payback on the drain, finances, emotions...everything is 300%+.

Never a regret. Being a parent is the most rewarding thing I'll ever do in life.
 
tuc biscuit said:
ok, so obviously kids have their good points, but does anyone actually regret it, they drain your money, your time, your freedom, your emotions and most other things, who here will actually say overall they regret having them?

The only regret I have about the children I have is who I chose to father them.
 
I hate kids.

I yearn for a world without any children. It would be a world of quiet
airplanes, restaurants, and movie theatres: a world without
playgrounds, circuses, and child proof caps. Drug dealers could ply their trade
wherever they wanted, without having to worry about wandering into a school zone.
Adult book stores would just be called book stores.

Nobody wants kids for the sake of having kids. Women want kids to
prove that they have working vaginas. Having babies is the one thing us
women can do, besides field hockey, which no man can do at all, let alone do
better.

Ladies, if you want to impress people with your gash then shoot ping
pong balls out of it; or use it to pick up a stack of quarters. Do you want
to dazzle them? Then combine these two tricks as you sail through the
exact change lane on the turnpike.

Men want to have kids because they were picked last in gym class. Or
worse, they were captain of the high school football team and led their team
to the State Title. But then a freak masturbation accident cut their college
career short. Either way, they are determined to create little champions.
So, they put creatine in their kid's Captain Crunch, and dose their juice
boxes with anabolic steroids.

I don't care if your kid can jump over your house: it doesn't change
the fact that you're still a loser. Now finish pumping my gas, and lick
those bugs off my windshield if you want a tip. Your kid needs a pair of
Adidas 1s doesn't he?

People have kids in the hopes that they will take care of them when
they get old. Fat fucking chance. Take the money you would have spent on
orthodontia, college, and rehab; and put it into a nice no-load mutual
fund. You'll be able to retire to a tropical island in your early fifties.
Then let someone else's teenager bring you fruity drinks and give you a
poolside happy ending massage.

If you have kids now, it's not too late to get rid of them. If you're
still living at home, it's never too early to leave and give your parents a
chance at happiness. Sweatshops and street gangs are both excellent options.
Both offer a child the opportunity to learn a trade, and room for
advancement. Both offer lifetime job security. How many people have that?
If you're afraid you'll miss your kid buy a PSP I hear they're awesome. They
play games, movies, and music. Your kid can't play music and they had 5
years of piano lessons.

Do you know what would happen if everyone stopped having kids? Nothing.
Nothing would happen. The last generation would enjoy seventy years of
peace and quiet. Human civilization would end? So what? Why do you
care? You'll be dead either way. I hear that ferrets are pretty smart let's
give them have a chance to run the planet.

If you're the last person on earth just remember to turn out the lights.
 
habitualhealth said:
well aren't we profound :rolleyes:
lol I can't wait to have kids when I'm like 32 or 33 I just got that email forwarded to me by someone and I thought it fit well with this topic!
 
habitualhealth said:
well aren't we profound :rolleyes:

Eh DoubleH, don't diss my main man Bran.....

He knows all and he paid the cost to be the boss.

If he says the world would be better without kids, who are we to argue with him? :confused:

Bran is :king:




DIV
 
habitualhealth said:
man i was sitting here thinking of something savvy yet sardonic to verbally rip you a new butthole....with a big smile on my face of course. ;)

:rose:
your evil and i :heart: it

bran u and ur gf broke up?? why didnt u tell brom?
 
habitualhealth said:
No worries, he redeemed himself. I'll go easy on him.

"DoubleH"

"In today’s society it's as rare to find a woman who is capable of appreciating a good man, as it is to find a man who still knows how to be one."

That's a great quote.

It's very true.




DIV
 
habitualhealth said:
Oh soklu....you have no idea. Perhaps we should rendezvous and share ideas sometime.

BTW: 04.22.05=my birfday...send one of those cakes my way. ;) (thought you'd want to plug that on the ol calendar)
kewl:) i stil have leftover strawberry shortcake that is not going to get eaten.:( ill send u some of that ok?
aries is an awsome sign huh? wait your aries right? i think barely.......
 
habitualhealth said:
BTW: 04.22.05=my birfday...send one of those cakes my way. ;) (thought you'd want to plug that on the ol calendar)

Damn, you're a Taurus on the cusp of Aries.....

Amazing.



DIV
 
habitualhealth said:
I'm a bull headed taurus homeslice. And italian...don't fork with me. :rolleyes:

You're a Taurus on the cusp of Aries......you have traits of both signs.

How do I know? Because that's my birthday, too. 4/22

Italian women are fiery, but can be tamed.

My last GF was from Italy, (Bolzano)........



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
You're a Taurus on the cusp of Aries......you have traits of both signs.

How do I know? Because that's my birthday, too. 4/22

Italian women are fiery, but can be tamed.

My last GF was from Italy, (Bolzano)........



DIV
you have the same birthday as my girlfriend what does that mean div
 
habitualhealth said:
Tamed my ass....this is my world, be happy to be in it. ;)

....we also talk a lot of sheyot.

Talk your shit......you end up getting tamed the same.

Can you hold your own, can you hold eye contact or do you look away?



DIV
 
I knid of regret that I don't start a family a few years ago actually. Relationship later started to dwindle as we both wanted different things from life as time went by, and I often wonder why I dodn't give family life a go when I had a real chance to do so.....
 
bran987 said:
you have the same birthday as my girlfriend what does that mean div

It means your GF and I are mirror images.......though she's probably not an asshole like I am.

Perhaps that's why you and I have a decent working relationship.

"Main man Bran.......2 strikes.......slipped, arrested, flipped......thuglife....emptied the clip.....etc etc etc...."



DIV
 
alien amp pharm said:
I don't think I want kids, but good luck finding a woman who thinks the same.

Hell I can't even stand having my nephews around for more than an hour.

I don't think I want kids.

I have a Godson - I will be estatic when he's 10 and I'l have an idea as to what to do with him.
 
habitualhealth said:
div...yes, eye contact is critical in all walks of life. and yes, i can def hold my own. care to try me?

I'll burn through you......

I'm not talking about eye contact in all walks of life, honey...

I'm talking about you up against a wall.



DIV
 
tuc biscuit said:
so when you were cleaning shit off her ass and she was waking you in the middle of the night that was still gravy?


First off, she didn't wake me up in the middle of the night. Ever since the night i brought her home, she slept through the entire night. So i was lucky!! And, cleanen her dirty butt did not bother me at all. I worked in an infant room, where i cleaned 18 dirty butts for 8 hours a day, and it didn't bother me. I loved my job!!! So, yes, everything was gravy!! :)
 
No. My life is much more difficult, but I consider my daughter a gift from God. Such a miracle, a child of my flesh who has many of my own characteristics (physically and mentally). I see so much of myself in her. God help her.
 
biteme said:
I see so much of myself in her. God help her.

Dangit. It's not as fun when you bust on yourself. Let us do that next time.
:)
 
jenscats5 said:
You'd be surprised......there are women out there who don't want kids.

I've never wanted kids. And the people who feel the need to argue with me about it is hilarious!! :lmao:


Same here. No kids is one of the reasons that I married my wife. I play baseball, lift, play my blues...she is a marathon runner. We have season tickets to the Sox, we travel, and generally enjoy life. We are each others' kids - we take care of each other. That's all I need.

Kids. You are better off with pigs. At least you can eat the pig. (That is an old Italian saying...)


bluesman
 
tuc biscuit said:
ok, so obviously kids have their good points, but does anyone actually regret it, they drain your money, your time, your freedom, your emotions and most other things, who here will actually say overall they regret having them?

I definately don't regret having them but they sure are going to make my divorce painful!!
 
lilred said:
I have a stepdaughter too. I really love her! I wonder if anyone regrets not having kids, I do! :)

I love her...........but I'm glad when she goes home sometimes.....

Plus listening to her mother complain....I'm glad I don't have to deal with her 24/7 or even 22/6.... :rolleyes:

Plus, babies are gross.... :worried:
 
jenscats5 said:
I love her...........but I'm glad when she goes home sometimes.....

Plus listening to her mother complain....I'm glad I don't have to deal with her 24/7 or even 22/6.... :rolleyes:

Plus, babies are gross.... :worried:

Well I am not married and was never able to have children, because of car accident when I was young. My stepdaughter is 13yrs. old. She never want's to go home. She sobs when she has to leave me.I guess I kind of spoil her. I wish she could stay 4ever too. :heart: :heart:
 
lilred said:
Is it to late 4u? :worried:
something like that.
I raised a niece for 10 years, so I got a taste.
I always got along with kids. Adults I wanna fucking strangle till their eyes pop out...
 
I've said this before.... First, I'm not perfect. lol Bet you did'nt know that. Marrying my wife was the best thing in the world to me. I love her so much, her face, her smile, her body, her way of talking and conversating with other people, her feet... lol I love her so much that I wanted to make more of her. More of her and me combined. What could be better than taking the woman you love and replicating them in some ways and have a bond together with them. As my 3 year old grows, we see little details of each of us in her. Sometimes she looks more like me, sometimes more like her, she walks like me, dances like her... etc... It's AWESOME!

Do I have less time for other stuff? Hell yes! Does the waking up at night suck? Hell yes! Does it make you a walking Zomby unable to think straight? Hell yes! The diaper changing actually did'nt bother me. But anyway, we're having our second and I can't wait. There must be something indescribable to want a second child if you already have one. People have tried to explain the love a child gives, but it does'nt do it justice IMO. It's not like we had kids to get "love", but it IS great to have from the little monsters.


As people give me props for planning our second child, I also give props to those who choose not to have children. If you know that's what you want, then why bring them into this world and later on have their AND your lives messed up.

blah blah blah...
 
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