Do you typically choose your friends, or do they choose you?

[i-Supplements]

ball busting ain't supposed to be the truth, dog.

That was boring. We need a new game.

 

[Sub-Zero]

My friends choose me.

wanna be friends

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i make the initial effort, then they hound me after that. so i pick them, not the other way round

lately ive been a massive social engineer, kicking a lot of friends out and actively recruiting replacements who enrich my world

my social circle = my responsibility.

idiots allow fate to determine the quality of the people around them. that shit aint happening

(i have so many hot chicks as frineds now, its brilliant. you tell them "cos i like you so much, i cant shag you...find me someone for thursday night!!!" and they give you a selection of 5 of their friends including history, personality cliffnotes, personality flaws and the angle you need to use to bag them. its fuckin GREAT lol)

 

[Bikini Mod]

I am very warm and charismatic so many people gravitate towards me. However, I keep EVERYONE at arm's length and have a hard time letting anyone into my world.

I have always been this way.

I have many, many acquaintances but only one friend and she is my gurl. We are very close even though we may go days/weeks without REALLY talking since I moved half-way across the US.

Everyone who has ended up being my friend had to extend themselves many many times before I would open up and allow them in.

I have MAJOR trust issues as I have been hurt very badly by many who were supposed to be my friend. I have a hard time calling/IMing/etc extending my REAL self to people as there is so much sadness in my world. I dont want to burden others and honestly, many of the difficulties in my life are so consuming that I just don't have the wherewithall to extend myself to others. In other words, I dont feel the need to be fake and deny my real thoughts just to entertain others neither do I want to bring them down.

So I just keep to myself for the most part.

 

[Smurfy]

I avoid people to the fullest. I usually look at people and judge them as rapist or baby rapers. Most people have to prove themselves before I give them the time of day. I have major trust issues. I honestly trust 2, maybe 3 people in my life.

What's up Dandy?

 

[i-Supplements]

What's up Dandy?

Hi Smurfy.