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Do you think everyone has a soulmate?

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I do
 
no not really.
i think there are people you have connections with during your life span both same sex and opposite sex.
and that "connection" doesn't have to crossover into something sexual.
 
Another myth perpetuated by the conservative party. You have several so called soulmates.
 
I do but I believe you can have more than one. I sincerely believe I've known two in my life. I absolutely believe in them; not sure if everybody has one. My first soulmate didn't turn into a sexual relationship until 10 years later.
 
I believe in women fucking with your mind until you lose it. :D

If there is such thing as a chi, is it possible that somebody compliments your chi and strengthens it?

When you feel connected with somebody? What are you feeling? What happens? What makes somebody your soulmate exactly?
 
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I think we have a few soulmates some come at the same time in your life and you are forced to choose and some come later on.
 
giantdouche said:
A soul mate? That's fucking stupid.

LOL. I have to agree.
 
hmm...out of 6 billion people, each one has one. What if mine is somewhere in an obscure village in China, and she never leaves and I never go there, we both die and miss each other? How would we ever have found each other?

What if we did somehow meet and say she died in an accident a few days after we discovered we were soulmates?

Do people end up marrying people who aren't their soulmates and stay married to their non-soulmate until they grow old and die?

Who the fuck knows. I think my parents are soulmates.
 
I believe in kindred spirits. Soulmate to me sounds too specific to a significant other. You can connect with someone on a deeper level without having a serious relationship with them. All of my closest friends are people I consider kindred spirits... male and female.
 
If I did have and meet my soulmate, we'd instantly hate each other.
 
IMHO, soulmate is just a word we use to describe someone we love completely and unconditionally, someone you feel connected too in every way imaginable, someone you can share the rest of your life with and that makes you happier than anyone else in the world.

So yes I believe people have soulmates, in fact many soulmates. It's just a way to describe a feeling for someone special. Kinda like the word love, or friend, just on a different level.

The concept that everyone has just ONE perfect soulmate waiting in the world for them somewhere is just a romantic notion used to make the lonely feel better, or to make someone's relationship seem more special.
 
Yes i do. But i don't think we are always destined to be with our soul mates. sometimes.. circumstances.. make being together impossible..

Someone you conenct with on all levels.. to me thats a soul mate.. I'm pretty sure i meet mine and we weren't meant to be.. but i know that he had a profound effect on my life and the way i see things
 
Forge said:
IMHO, soulmate is just a word we use to describe someone we love completely and unconditionally, someone you feel connected too in every way imaginable, someone you can share the rest of your life with and that makes you happier than anyone else in the world.

So yes I believe people have soulmates, in fact many soulmates. It's just a way to describe a feeling for someone special. Kinda like the word love, or friend, just on a different level.

The concept that everyone has just ONE perfect soulmate waiting in the world for them somewhere is just a romantic notion used to make the lonely feel better, or to make someone's relationship seem more special.

Explained perfectly. You get an A+. If I weren't so lazy, I would have thought all of that up myself.
 
Yes I believe we do, but I often wish I didnt

I think there is a master architiect to life. I believe in a Creator. And I dont believe anything happens by chance. Things happen as they were intended to occur.

So do I think the Creator created and brings together two souls specifically to be with one another. Yes I do. I dont know that this is the plan for everyone. Some people are perhaps never intended to be with another person in that way at all.

But I don't think His goal is eternal bliss on earth. I think the match is to produce a love that helps draw each closer to their Maker.
 
I never thought so, then I found mine!

...she ended up going back to her ex.
 
PERFECTWORLD said:
nope...but there are types that can stand each other long enough not to kill each other.

yupp I think there is one person I will be able to stand long enough to spend my life with,and if I dont find that person Im happy being alone, Id probably adopt a kid if I ended up alone by 35
 
TheOak01 said:
yupp I think there is one person I will be able to stand long enough to spend my life with,and if I dont find that person Im happy being alone, Id probably adopt a kid if I ended up alone by 35

Not a bad idea. Having a child has changed my life in so many ways. I would feel very empty without her. But, I may be too selfish to love one enough that wasn't my own.
 
biteme said:
Not a bad idea. Having a child has changed my life in so many ways. I would feel very empty without her. But, I may be too selfish to love one enough that wasn't my own.


Ive thought that also,but I think it would be all that would keep me sane if I was alone,I need someone in my life to care deeply about,but it doesnt need to be a women,and lately Ive learned 99% of friends are shit also
 
yes, i absolutely do. and i know that i will never meet her. she may live across the street. perhaps i've actually seen her face.

but our love for one another is perfect, even though it goes unrealized. and we shall live forever under the shadow of that love. not understanding. not knowing. perfect and alone.
 
I agree with ceo. What if your "soulmate" lived in China or somewhere you`ll never visit? Do people really believe that their "soulmate hapened to be in Rick`s Bar and Grill the same exact night in Secaucus New Jersey as them on that fateful night in December? Come on people, EVERYONER or a lot of people say "I found my soulmate" but where did they meet? They just coincidently lived in the same town as them or state/area.. or when on vacation??? Wow, they got really lucky for going that exact time or they would have never met their "soulmate". lol

Having said that, I`m very fortunate to have my wife and often say I would`nt change my past if I could because that would mean we would`nt have met, but I don`t call it soulmate. It`s too convenient of a word.
 
TheOak01 said:
Ive thought that also,but I think it would be all that would keep me sane if I was alone,I need someone in my life to care deeply about,but it doesnt need to be a women,and lately Ive learned 99% of friends are shit also

We've talked much and you remind me of myself at that age. Just don't let it make you too bitter. You're a good man. People will let you down, just the way it is. Disheartening at times, just makes you want to give up sometimes. I've let people down and they've let me down. I never intended to hurt anyone, and they probably didn't intend to hurt me. It's just selfishness. Anyway, the unconditional love that you have for a child, there is nothing else like it. THe love runs so deep. Damn, my eyes are watering just thinking about it. Hang in there!
 
Gonelifting.

Apparently Im conflicted on this issue. So I'll try to offer myself a different point of view.

The idea of a soulmate is completely dependnet on the existence of a Creator. Absent that, love is nothing more than a combination of chemical reactions designed to keep people together for the proper rearing of children.

So if we can accept the idea of a Creator (not a given certainly) can we also accept that He's bright enough not to place those two souls thousands of miles apart and destined to never meet?

All Im saying is, not believing in a soul mate is fine. But denying it based on some colossal miscalculation by God is sort of silly
 
I think there are some folks that you have a lot in common with.....then there are those with which there is an undeniable connection that binds you together....


How can I keep my soul in me, so that
it doesn't touch your soul? How can I raise
it high enough, past you, to other things?
I would like to shelter it, among remote
lost objects, in some dark and silent place
that doesn't resonate when your depths resound.
Yet everything that touches us, me and you,
takes us together like a violin's bow,
which draws one voice out of two seperate strings.
Upon what instrument are we two spanned?
And what musician holds us in his hand?
Oh sweetest song.



Rainer Maria Rilke
 
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