do you hold a grudge?

[*ebony*]

i don't hold grudges, i forgive, but i don't forget....

 

[Dial_tone]

lol...i would expect you to be alover not a fighter.

all is forgiven if I get buttsecks.......not so easily if it's a guy.

 

[scooter22]

all is forgiven if I get buttsecks.......not so easily if it's a guy.

True, cause buttsecks with a guy isn't nearly as fun.

 

[EnderJE]

I think I have a grudge against one group of people from a LONG time ago. Normally, I'm fine with them. However, when I'm being melodramatic, I laugh when I hear about how cancer has decimated some of their siblings. Personally, I'm troubled by this laughing when I'm fine.

It's very Jekyll and Hyde-ish.

 

[EnderJE]

True, cause buttsecks with a guy isn't nearly as fun.

So, you're saying that it's somewhat fun?

 

[scooter22]

so, you're saying that it's somewhat fun?

lolol

 

[nefertiti]

Never...the only person harmed by a grudge held is the person holding it. If someone is bad enough that they deserve a grudge, I'm not going to let said person have that much power in my life. Forgive and cut them loose. As my father used to say, (and I know this will rub the non religious folk the wrong way) Unlock the shackle and hand the weight to god.

 

[pin]

By nature, I hold grudges. But I make a conscious effort to not hold em.

 

[walliwalibus]

When I can honestly figure myself out I will let ya know. Until then I hold some strange sheot in my head right now..... Its a great question and good thread though......

 

[canadianhitman]

I hold a grudge with the best of them; the grudge doesn't pass until I feel that I've gotten even (or better). After that tho, I'm willing to bury the hatchet more often than not.