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Do you get along with your ex?

GenetiKing

GenetiKing

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Goddamn, my ex-girlfriend is such a FUCKING BITCH!!

I really cannot recall why I ever dated the whore in the first place. I can't believe I ever stuck my dick in her.

And the fucked up part is that I must be really stupid because I did for several years. I don't see how I ever fell in love with her. The emotions of love are truly a mystery to me.

I guess love really is blind.

Well, I have other ex-girlfriends that I still get along with but this one in particular is a bitch. I'm so glad she isn't part of my life anymore. I hadn't talked to her in a long time until a few weeks ago so I tried to be mature about the whole situation and make conversation with her. It worked out okay for a while but then she pissed me off telling me that I'm still too committed to my family and that's the reason we couldn't have gone on together. Like that's a character flaw or something!!

Fuck that stupid, dirty cunt.

I hope she marries her 24 year old, lawn-mowing boyfriend. Isn't that one of those jobs you quit after a certain age anyway? At least I have a college degree. Good job Amy...hey, don't forget to trim around the boxwoods you smelly CUNT.
 
nope, because once it's all over then all communications are cut off. i don't do the let's be friends. when it's over, it's over like after the USA dropping the A-bomb on Japan.
 
GenetiKing said:
Goddamn, my ex-girlfriend is such a FUCKING BITCH!!

I guess love really is blind.


Fuck that stupid, dirty cunt.

I hope she marries her 24 year old, lawn-mowing boyfriend.
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Hey...mine is a bitch too. Love is blind as a bat.

As for me - look - no lawn boy involved. But my ex, for whom I cared deeply, is 28, wants to get married (apparently not to me), and has made so many no-common-sense decisions.

She has absoluetly zero decent dating prospects, no money saved, and a lot of debt. Despite having a decent degree, she has been unable to leverage it into anything, and is over $40,000 in debt. She couldn't even afford cable Internet at her apartment. She has NetZero now.

A certain EF mioderator who visited her a while ago felt so badly for the way she was barely getting by, that he bought her a kitchen set and some patio furniture.

Your ex being with the Lawn Boy (and mine being destined for an unfulfilling life) reinforces something I have known for a while, but soemtimes forget:

water rises to its own level.

Chill out and find another one.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
nope, because once it's all over then all communications are cut off. i don't do the let's be friends. when it's over, it's over like after the USA dropping the A-bomb on Japan.
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I gotta respectfully disagree, steel
I have many old girlfriends that I could
call right now and have a 50/50 change
of spending the night with. Most of them
are hot and the sex is great.
Burn no bridges
Poison no wells
 
bwood8168 said:


I gotta respectfully disagree, steel
I have many old girlfriends that I could
call right now and have a 50/50 change
of spending the night with. Most of them
are hot and the sex is great.
Burn no bridges
Poison no wells
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whatever works for you.
 
I have an ex that I would still do anything for.:)


I also have an ex that I would just as soon never see again.:mad:
 
GKing, I think I matters who ended for the most part for a lot of Guys as to how you feel about them afterwards.


I broke it off with my last GF before I got married and hurt her.
We get along OK. Woman are more forgiving in General than Men.

I was Screwed over by another long relationship GF and I never wanted to see her again.
Funny thing is, she came crawling back after 6 mos and I had the pleasure of telling her to go Piss up a rope..

If it helps, picture her miserable, living in a Run down shack with 6 kids and a lazy lawn mowin puttz for a Man..
 
Lot of woman bashing here:( So for what it is worth, I dont get along with my ex. And for all the crap he burned me with is coming back around and biting him in the a$$! Now I have the pleasure of watching what goes around comes around!;)
 
takniteasy said:
Lot of woman bashing here:(
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I re-Read all the responses and I disagree that there was ANY WOMAN bashing in general at all.

There is some specific individual Woman bashing, but given the circumstances that we don't know about, it appears KGing is venting at her, not all women...
 
Y_Lifter said:


I re-Read all the responses and I disagree that there was ANY WOMAN bashing in general at all.

There is some specific individual Woman bashing, but given the circumstances that we don't know about, it appears KGing is venting at her, not all women...
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i guess she has never read frackal and my threads when we get fired up.
 
depends on the relationship you had and how it ended. If you had a good, loving relationship based on more than sex that ended for reasons other than cheating or betrayal, then you would probably still talk to you ex. That's how it is with me. Her and I still talk all the time, and I still think she's an awesome girl and know she's going many many places in life. Would i go out with her again? Probably not, because she's no longer my type and i'm happy with someone else, but I still talk to her all the time.
 
I cant say the same about my ex(s), even if I never remained friend with them. We broke up in a civilized manner. If they call me, then I'll talk to them. No problem.
 
GenetiKing, you have some pretty strong feelings for her... if she can still piss yah off. If you don't care, don't waste your energy. Save it for yourself, and a new relationship if you so choose.

Funny how things work out- My ex- called me 2 months after we broke up, telling me how much he still cared, how I was the 'one' he wanted to spend the rest of his life with... yadda yadda... Funny thing- I caught him the next day at the mall with another woman. I confronted him then and there.. grabbed his arm and excused him from his 'date'. I really gave him a piece of my mind, told him what a P.O.S he was... he whined it was not the time nor place... I disagreed... The mall onlookers (and his date) got quite an earful, and I even had a few people clap and woohoo for me ;) I never spoke to him again... and am very happy that I never looked back! I still get a 'blocked call' every now and then... LMAO
 
HighGrade said:
GenetiKing, you have some pretty strong feelings for her... if she can still piss yah off. If you don't care, don't waste your energy. Save it for yourself, and a new relationship if you so choose.
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Well, that's just it. I was rather indifferent to her and her situation for the longest time. So when I was presented with the opportunity to make conversation with her, I felt the best thing to do was be cordial, polite, and act like I'm actually interested in her life with the *snicker* lawn-mower. BTW, I have been in several relationships since her and I'm currently in another (if a fuck buddy counts as a "relationship").

I wasn't an ass at all. I fact, I was very nice and told her that I was happy she found a job using her degree, blah, blah, blah...

Up until that point I had let go of any hard feelings I had for her. I just didn't care anymore.

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.

But I have to admit that it pissed me off when she thought I still gave a rat's ass about her opinion of my relationship with my family. In fact, what really pissed her off was when she asked me about any girls I've had sex with since she and I broke up. So I told her truth. Yeah, I've fucked several ho's since her...why should I lie? I didn't ask the question...she did. So, in order to come back at me with something she has to offer me her opinion about my family.

Is she so arrogant as to think I care what she thinks at this point? That's what pisses me off.
 
HighGrade said:
Funny how things work out- My ex- called me 2 months after we broke up, telling me how much he still cared, how I was the 'one' he wanted to spend the rest of his life with... yadda yadda... Funny thing- I caught him the next day at the mall with another woman. I confronted him then and there.. grabbed his arm and excused him from his 'date'. I really gave him a piece of my mind, told him what a P.O.S he was... he whined it was not the time nor place... I disagreed... The mall onlookers (and his date) got quite an earful, and I even had a few people clap and woohoo for me ;) I never spoke to him again... and am very happy that I never looked back! I still get a 'blocked call' every now and then... LMAO
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wow, talk about a scumbag. i mean your ex.
 
These are all very good reasons why you don't need a girlfriend. The only thing you need is some pocket change for a hooker.

A girlfriend is only good for sex nothing else.

If you get yourself a fvck friend or a hoe you don't have to worry about these problems and questions.

-"is that girl prettier then me"
-"am I fat"
-"does this make me look fat"
-your girl's best friend is fat and ugly and because your dating you have to set her up with one of your friends
-don't have to call her the next day
-no more cuddling
-your Sundays are free for more important things like football and not those stupid boring ass walks
-your Fri/Sat nights are free for whatever you want to do
-no more explaining who that brunette was sitting on your lap
-no more explaining why you smell like another girls perfume
-you don't have to say those 3 words that ever guy says just to get laid, with a hoe she knows why your there
-you don't have to keep explaining why hummers, hand jobs, and oral sex is not cheating
 
I get along well with my exwife. I still consider her to be my best friend. We usually talk a few times a week and go out at least once every couple weeks.
 
I do not stay friends w/my ex girlfriends. I feel it is disrespectful to my next girlfriend to still remain friends w/an ex. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend was still talking to her ex so why should I. I had a girl who was in touch w/her ex's and did not like it at all. Just didn't feel right. Thats me.
 
HighGrade said:
GenetiKing, you have some pretty strong feelings for her... if she can still piss yah off. If you don't care, don't waste your energy. Save it for yourself, and a new relationship if you so choose.

Funny how things work out- My ex- called me 2 months after we broke up, telling me how much he still cared, how I was the 'one' he wanted to spend the rest of his life with... yadda yadda... Funny thing- I caught him the next day at the mall with another woman. I confronted him then and there.. grabbed his arm and excused him from his 'date'. I really gave him a piece of my mind, told him what a P.O.S he was... he whined it was not the time nor place... I disagreed... The mall onlookers (and his date) got quite an earful, and I even had a few people clap and woohoo for me ;) I never spoke to him again... and am very happy that I never looked back! I still get a 'blocked call' every now and then... LMAO
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damn, what a fucking asshole!!!!
 
I think it can depend on the relationship. If the person was a friend before you started dating, sometimes, it's possible to go back to being friends with them. Things are just never the same, I've found this out all too well lately. :( I think it is good to stay friends with an ex. THey know you better than a lot of people ever will. I can't say I have always stayed friends with exes though. I think you have to tread a fine line sometimes with them. But oh well, GK, you're better off without her.
 
Phatchik, You feel it's respectful for an ex to call when your relaxing at home w/a current girlfriend or in your case boyfriend. I think it's wrong.
 
Do you think it's wrong for someone to call period while you are lounging at home with a current significant other? If a friend needs me, I am going to be there for them. If they are simply calling to shoot the shit, then I will tell them it is a bad time as I would tell anyone. I don't like losing friends. So I'm one of those people that tries to work things out if possible.
 
Phatchik, a friend can call anytime with any need and I will be there. An ex calling out of the blue just to shoot the shit while i'am with my girlfriend is disrectful. If they are in a severe emergency and have no one else on this earth to call sure i'll be there for them, they will always have a piece of my heart and I would never turn my back on any of them. But the ex needs to back off otherwise. Its only a unique situation where ex's remain friends. Otherwise its just questionable.
 
My ex and I get along well.

B True
 
My ex was bi!!! so we'd hang out at lesbo clubs and pick up other girl's to bring home. It was fucking awesome ,, thank god i still have video footage to watch....... hee-hee-hee
 
kris639 said:
My ex was bi!!! so we'd hang out at lesbo clubs and pick up other girl's to bring home. It was fucking awesome ,, thank god i still have video footage to watch....... hee-hee-hee
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I won't date a bisexual girl. I don't see how there's any glamor in it if you really care about the girl.
 
I don't really have any ex-girlfriends per se....but I'm on good terms with most of my former "somethingorothers" :)

There's one or two though.....damn....makes me wonder what the hell I was thinking. lol
 
I have 3 ex-girlfriends that I still talk with. Only 1 was serious (3 years), the other 2 were something else, (6-7) months. For the most part I think that we get along OK, except recently. I can now say that all 3 of them are mad at me, in one case my fault, in the others not.


The 2 short term relationships were obviously most recent and they just sort of fizzled out. Well I ran into one of the girls at a restaurant that my friend manages. We ended up sitting and talking for 4 hours. During the conversation she tells me that she wants to go out the next night, and I was cool with that. Well a little while later I accidentally call her the wrong name (the other short term girl). Man what a mistake, totally my fault. Needless to say we haven't talked in 2 weeks. Ooops.

The other short term girl is a complete basketcase. She has some real issues to deal with, and I'm always the person that she calls to talk about them. Well it's gotten a bit tedious since the phone calls always come at 2 AM. I could deal with it for a little while, but I finally just stopped answering the phone. I then went on vacation and came home to a message from her ranting how she hated me for never being there, etc, etc, etc. Haven't talked with her either.

Now the long term gal I hadn't talked to in quite a while. Few weeks ago she sent me an e-card that I never got around to responding to. After my vacation I ended up seeing her and she wouldn't even speak to me. That I didn't get. I mean she dating a guy that used to be one of my best friends. I drank my first beer with this guy. Why would she think that we're still that close? This is the one that confuses me the most,

So I guess I used to get along with my ex-girls, but now I can't say that I do, though I'm not too concerned either. Life goes on.

Pebcak
 
Lifter4Life said:
Phatchik, a friend can call anytime with any need and I will be there. An ex calling out of the blue just to shoot the shit while i'am with my girlfriend is disrectful. If they are in a severe emergency and have no one else on this earth to call sure i'll be there for them, they will always have a piece of my heart and I would never turn my back on any of them. But the ex needs to back off otherwise. Its only a unique situation where ex's remain friends. Otherwise its just questionable.
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Now see, I will be there for an ex if they need me period. And if I can stay friends with them, then I want to. Especially if we were friends before we started dating. That's why I am trying so hard to deal with my issues that I have concerning my most recent relationship disaster. He and I can get along great. Until he starts bringing in his new love interests. I'm just not ready for that. Otherwise, he is what I still consider a friend.
 
my current ex-gf can't do it

She's being honest though. She just can't handle the fact of me being with another woman. She says that she can't be just friends with me.
However when I went through a major ordeal this last week she let me spend time whith her and her daughter who I adore. So she was able to set her feelings aside and help me when I needed it most. So eventhough she says that she can't be friends with me I know that she will be there for me in times of crisis.
 
Phatchik, The last sentence of your post is exactly why I do not remain friends with an ex. It's just a matter of time before one of you gets involved with another and for me i'd prefer not to know about it. It sux but so does life sometimes. It's hard to move on after loving someone, but everything happens for a reason. There is someone more suited for you out there and your lucky that you didn't end up w/that person because it obviously wasn't meant to be. I know its hard but staying tied to that situation is only going to hurt later. I respect a woman who doesn't have ex's calling and hanging on. I would feel disrespected if an ex called my girl, just doesn't sit well w/me. Good Luck.
 
GENETIKING
Is she so arrogant as to think I care what she thinks at this point? That's what pisses me off.
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READ THIS THIS AGAIN, GENETIKING. KEEP RE-READING IT UNTIL YOU SEE THE IRONY.
 
about a 50/50 chance

that I get along with my ex's
#1 Ex thinks I'm a drug dealer, and for some reason joined a gang:confused: plus that I slept with her mom:(

#2 Ex gets along with me but when she saw that I have a gf now she bugged out and yelled at me. About a month later she tryed to sleep with me. She calls every once and a while, but shit hit the fan when she left a message saying she wante me to have sex with her for her birthday. I asked my gf to see if any messages were left and low and behold this shit came up, needless to say she wasn't to happy.

3# Ex and I talk a lot on IM and a few emails, but not may phone calls. But we are still friends...

About 50/50
 
Re: about a 50/50 chance

Lord_Suston said:
that I get along with my ex's
#1 Ex thinks I'm a drug dealer, and for some reason joined a gang:confused: plus that I slept with her mom:(

About 50/50
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Wait....she thinks you slept with her mother, or you really did sleep with her mother? Either way funny stuff.

Pebcak
 
Lifter4Life said:
Phatchik, The last sentence of your post is exactly why I do not remain friends with an ex. It's just a matter of time before one of you gets involved with another and for me i'd prefer not to know about it. It sux but so does life sometimes. It's hard to move on after loving someone, but everything happens for a reason. There is someone more suited for you out there and your lucky that you didn't end up w/that person because it obviously wasn't meant to be. I know its hard but staying tied to that situation is only going to hurt later. I respect a woman who doesn't have ex's calling and hanging on. I would feel disrespected if an ex called my girl, just doesn't sit well w/me. Good Luck.
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I think sometimes you can get involved with someone, and then you know it was a mistake. There is no romantic chemistry. I have an ex like that. We never should have tried anything romantic. Now, I want him to be happy. That means with someone else. I still consider him a friend and will be his support. I guess it's just me. Although, I can totally understand what you mean about the exes. Personally, it can totally piss me off when an ex just can't let go. I can still get jealous wondering if there is still a chance that he wants her back. I just found out that this one guy has decided that his ex is really his soulmate and is going to try to win her back.

Yes, I know it's a contradiction what I just typed. It's a no win situation unfortunately. I suppose you just have to decide what is best in each particular situation.
 
Lord_Suston said:
I did not sleep with her mom!!! She weighed over 300lbs, uhh I'm goinna fuckin puke now.... uhhhhhhh uhhhhhhhh :sick:
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OK, thanks for clearing that up. Oh, and sorry for creating that imagery for you. Think happy thoughts. :D

Pebcak
 
Phatchik, I hope it all works out for you. You sound like a caring woman and you deserve someone to be good to you. It takes time, but in the end it will be worth it. Best of luck. Lifter
 
GenetiKing said:


Sure thing, champ.

Care to elaborate?
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BRO, WHAT YOU SAID WAS THIS:

Is she so arrogant as to think I care what she thinks at this point? That's what pisses me off.

THE FIRST SENTENCE IMPLIES THAT YOU THINK SHE IS ARROGANT FOR THINKING YOU CARE WHAT SHE THINKS.

THE SECOND SENTENCE BELIES YOUR FIRST SENTENCE AND SHOWS THAT YOU DO CARE WHAT SHE THINKS - YOU CARE WHAT SHE THINKS ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK SHE THINKS.

DO YOU GET IT YET? SORRY I DO NOT MEAN TO SOUND SUPERCILIOUS BUT THAT WAS PRETTY FUNNY - TO PUT IT MORE EXAGGERATEDLY, HERE IS MY VERSION OF WHAT YOU WROTE:

THAT BITCH! HOW COULD SHE BE SO ARROGANT AS TO THINK I CARE WHAT SHE THINKS! GRRRRR THAT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!!!!!

SORRY BRO. JUST SAY TO HELL WITH THE BITCH, IF SHE BADMOUTHS YOU THAT IS ONE THING IF SHE IS JUST AN ARROGANT BITCH JUST PRETEND SHE DOESN'T EEN EXIST THAT IS MY ADVICE.

2 TON HOSS
 
Lifter4Life said:
Phatchik, I hope it all works out for you. You sound like a caring woman and you deserve someone to be good to you. It takes time, but in the end it will be worth it. Best of luck. Lifter
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Thanks Lifter. It's been a bumpy road, I have to admit. I won't look for it. Whatever is meant for me will have to find me. I hope all goes well for you too. :)
 
Yeah, my ex is a bitch. Funny thing is, she called me right after she saw me in my first bodybuilding competition recently. Whore.
 
PHATchik said:


Thanks Lifter. It's been a bumpy road, I have to admit. I won't look for it. Whatever is meant for me will have to find me. I hope all goes well for you too. :)
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Um, hello?!? :wavey: Jealous finace here! :mad:


:D
 
Austin316 said:
don't have an ex, wellll nope none
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Austin, do you want one of mine (even the ones I haven't described)?

Don't know you personally, but have read a little about you (the whole virgin deal), but I can say be glad that these are the types of relationships that you don't want to deal with on an everyday basis.

Obviously once you find "that girl" you might have to, but I hope you don't.

Innocence lost is the loss of humanity.

Pebcak
 
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2 ton hoss said:
SORRY BRO. JUST SAY TO HELL WITH THE BITCH, IF SHE BADMOUTHS YOU THAT IS ONE THING IF SHE IS JUST AN ARROGANT BITCH JUST PRETEND SHE DOESN'T EEN EXIST THAT IS MY ADVICE.
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Yeah, I can see how that might make it seem as though I still care. But...

Hypothetically imagine this:
A complete stranger comes up to you on the street and tells you that shouldn't be wearing the shirt you have on and that you should really buy another shirt and that you should really change shirts.

Even though you have no attachment whatsoever to that stranger, it's probably gonna piss you off that they think you even care what their opinion of your shirt is.

Your attitude would probably be..."Who the fuck are you to offer me an opinion about my shirt!?"

See what I mean? Same deal with my ex. She has no right to even voice her opinion to me.
 
I get along with most of my ex's, but don't go out of my way to talk to them or hang out with them.

Good luck dealing with yours...that really sucks sometimes.
 
Lifter4Life and PHATchik


I soo understand where the both of you are coming from, i have had to let my ex go and he happy with another, as mush as it saddens me, i feel it is d right thing to do. who knows what d future holds, but one thing i know is now and things can't go on the way they are.

Someone once said we need to put more emphasis on being a loving person which is something we can control and less emphasis on receiving love, which is something you can't control you'll find that you have plenty of love in your life, And Soon you'll discover one of the life's greatest secrets that , Love is it's on reward.
 
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