Do you ever

[SoKlueles]

not have a sex drive? I havent for a while really......and this is the first time ever ever ever in my life.and its making me......worry
i should be in my prime.......probably cuz i dont feel so sexy.....i dont know
any ideas?

 

[Kroliczek]

Do you have a lot on your mind right now? Are you busy with other things?

I always have a sex drive, but I noticed that there can be potentially only a few reasons why I wouldn't:

1. Tired or overtrained.
2. I'm not working out.
3. I'm not eating clean
4. I am stressed about something else.


I would say that you hit the nail on the head with your statement "I don't feel so sexy" That is exactly it. And taking care of oneself (ie eating clean, working out) can help to make you feel sexier.

Some other ideas: how about going to a cosmetologist and getting a makeover? I know that this always brightens me up. Maybe wearing something revealing or risque (ex: those hot as hell boots that velvett posted about)

Good luck!

 

[SoKlueles]

Do you have a lot on your mind right now? Are you busy with other things?

I always have a sex drive, but I noticed that there can be potentially only a few reasons why I wouldn't:

1. Tired or overtrained.
2. I'm not working out.
3. I'm not eating clean
4. I am stressed about something else.


I would say that you hit the nail on the head with your statement "I don't feel so sexy" That is exactly it. And taking care of oneself (ie eating clean, working out) can help to make you feel sexier.

Some other ideas: how about going to a cosmetologist and getting a makeover? I know that this always brightens me up. Maybe wearing something revealing or risque (ex: those hot as hell boots that velvett posted about)

Good luck!

I think ur right, i need something
ive got quite a bit on my brain right now...and my health isnt helping at this moment(i have crohns disease) but i hope it gets better

 

[jenscats5]

not have a sex drive? I havent for a while really......and this is the first time ever ever ever in my life.and its making me......worry
i should be in my prime.......probably cuz i dont feel so sexy.....i dont know
any ideas?

Yep..... My husband can be a real Ass a lot of the time -- attitude, the way he talks, etc...... and thus, I have NO desire to have sex with him....

 

[Puddles]

You may want to get your hormone levels checked. Sometimes women's natural test levels drop to below normal levels and the dr. can prescribe test cream to help bring them back up.

It could also just be your frame of mind. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Very few women have fantastic bodies in reality, but they're still sexy.

 

[Daisy_]

I was on the Birthcontrol pill Ortho Tricyclen and it took away all of my sex drive I went off it and I am back to normal a*WINK* But my sisters friend also had the same problem and she switched pills and is now back to normal too. Just a thought

 

[dirty~d~]

I've been there Klueles. It was while I was living in Chicago with the now ex. He was spending more time at work and less time with me, I couldn't find a job and I missed my family and friends horribly. Depression and stress are huge factors in our sex drive. Take care of yourself (emotionally and mentally) as often as you can get away with it. Sooner or later you'll find yourself 'recovering.' I hope you feel better soon chica.

 

[Hazel]

A lot of things seem to affect sex drive.. health, stress, daily diet & workout regime.. Ive found that a lot of meds affect it, if youre taking something for the chron's could that be it?

 

[lucidblue]

Sometimes I wish I'd lose some of my sex drive... but then when I hear others say they don't have any, I'm grateful for it .

If you have a lot on your mind, you're stressed or even a little depressed your sex drive will probably descrease. Find a new way to release stress and tension, then maybe it will come back.

 

[*MissFit*]

Sometimes I wish I'd lose some of my sex drive... but then when I hear others say they don't have any, I'm grateful for it .

If you have a lot on your mind, you're stressed or even a little depressed your sex drive will probably descrease. Find a new way to release stress and tension, then maybe it will come back.

I agree with whut u said.

 

[randk]

It could also just be your frame of mind. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Very few women have fantastic bodies in reality, but they're still sexy.

 

[Gymgurl]

I thinkit has to do with way to much onyour mind....could it be from any meds your taking right now?

 

[jm2mr2bv]

I know that anytime my bf and i aren't doing well I definatley don't have a sex drive. For awhile i thought that there was no hope for me, but lateley we have been doing awesome and i am wanting sex and play time a little too much sometimes.So, for me, a lack of sex drive has to do with how my relationship is going, or if i am just too tired from working out or something. It also can be caused by birth control as well.

 

[Dakotah]

i dont really have the sex drive i used to before i started taking my anti depressants now i am on two and it is a struggle to have any sex drive at all

are you on any meds?
are there any destressing methods you can do? that you actually would like to do

sorry to hear you are sick hon, my prayers are with you and that you get better. take care and keep your head up.

Hugs to you

 

[SoKlueles]

Im taking meds for my Crohns disease and yeah i got alot of stuff on my mind. Sometimes I think i need a shrink

 

[*MissFit*]

Meds are an instant mood killer

 

[Carmen]

i wish i had less of one.
seriously, i want it once a day pretty much and get it... i can't remember the last time.

 

[Pamela]

Im taking meds for my Crohns disease and yeah i got alot of stuff on my mind. Sometimes I think i need a shrink

I think you hit the nail on the head.

You've got a lot going on.. plus taking the meds.

That can do it everytime.

You probably have your kids all the time to.
Never anytime by yourself.


Stress is a Sex killer!!!!