My point is...if you are serious..as I am and as my friend is...then it will take a special (very special in my friend's case) person to love you. They must understand you. They must understand why you don't take them out on Friday nights because you must train. They will understand why you must eat 7x a day. They will understand why lifting always seems more important than they are. You will be able to discuss the problems that you are currently having with your squat...and they will listen. That is when you have found a real woman.