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Do other meatheads in the gym hit on your gf when your not around?

FreakMonster

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I walk into the gym the other day and my GF was already there. She proceeds to tell me some guy was hitting on her and wouldn't go away. My GF was doing dead lifts and this guy came up to her and asked her "I'm not from around here and I'm not sure what muscles to work out, does that exercise work out your hamstrings". My GF said "yes." He kept asking her these dumb questions and finally a trainer walked by and she said "why don't you ask him, he knows alot about training". I guess he got the hint and walked away. She pointed him out to me and I just laughed becuase this guy walked around like he had suitcases under his arms. So I walked by him and said "Hey there bro, you got some nice suitcases under those arms." He looked at me funny and I just laughed a walked away.

Why are there so many idiots in the gym?

And the trainers are the worst. My GF had about 6 trainers already go up to her trying to hit on her and get her to train with her. What are these idiot trainers thinking? They need to try and get their business with out of shape members not one's who are in top shape.
 
FreakMonster said:
And the trainers are the worst. My GF had about 6 trainers already go up to her trying to hit on her and get her to train with her. What are these idiot trainers thinking? They need to try and get their business with out of shape members not one's who are in top shape.

most of the ones i've seen need to get in shape themselves.

my girlfriend gets hit on alot too when shes alone. even the guys that are 2-3 decades older than her hit on her, in and out of the gym. just makes me appreciate her more :)
 
This is chat board material.

My comment: It amazes me that dudes get upset when other gusy hit on or look at their GF. Wake up. ITS A COMPLIMENT!

First, some guys are SO insecure that even if another man LOOKS or TALKS to his GF, the guy thinks he is "hitting on her". Wake up guys - I talk to women all day long and only the very rare, lucky ones, and the ones that show ME that have a lot to offer, get hit on.

Second, if another guy has no clue that she is with you - then how can you be pissed that he is hitting on her? I mean, if she is out by herself and another guy startes talking - who cares. He doesnt know! Its an honest mistake! (Now if she is alone and she lets this go on for too too long, beynd firned flirting, then you have other problems bro, and its NOT the guy ....)

Third, Hey if I am with a woman and other guys look at her - I LET THEM LOOK! As long as they are not gawking, or sporting a hard-on, or being disrespectful - I dont care. "Yup, that right pal, she is hot, and she is going home with ME".

Anyway, I think you are taking this all WAY too hard man. Maybe that trainer dude has no idea she is with you. Maybe he is JUST TALKING to her (you know, men DO actually TALK with women withgout wanting to bang them!).
 
Riker29 said:
This is chat board material.

My comment: It amazes me that dudes get upset when other gusy hit on or look at their GF. Wake up. ITS A COMPLIMENT!

First, some guys are SO insecure that even if another man LOOKS or TALKS to his GF, the guy thinks he is "hitting on her". Wake up guys - I talk to women all day long and only the very rare, lucky ones, and the ones that show ME that have a lot to offer, get hit on.

Second, if another guy has no clue that she is with you - then how can you be pissed that he is hitting on her? I mean, if she is out by herself and another guy startes talking - who cares. He doesnt know! Its an honest mistake! (Now if she is alone and she lets this go on for too too long, beynd firned flirting, then you have other problems bro, and its NOT the guy ....)

Third, Hey if I am with a woman and other guys look at her - I LET THEM LOOK! As long as they are not gawking, or sporting a hard-on, or being disrespectful - I dont care. "Yup, that right pal, she is hot, and she is going home with ME".

Anyway, I think you are taking this all WAY too hard man. Maybe that trainer dude has no idea she is with you. Maybe he is JUST TALKING to her (you know, men DO actually TALK with women withgout wanting to bang them!).

Man, Did you even read my post? I wasn't pissed this dude was hitting on her. I took it as a compliment like I always do unless the guy is disrespectful. I was amused and thought it was hilairous that he would ask such a stupid question.

Did someone piss in your wheaties this morning?
 
Riker29 said:


Third, Hey if I am with a woman and other guys look at her - I LET THEM LOOK! As long as they are not gawking, or sporting a hard-on, or being disrespectful - I dont care. "Yup, that right pal, she is hot, and she is going home with ME".

some good points, but sometimes if you let them look too much then they think it's ok and they just keep getting worse.
 
I don't know dogg. If she's truly hot she gets hit on all the time and can handle herself. No need for you to step in.
 
FreakMonster said:


Man, Did you even read my post? I wasn't pissed this dude was hitting on her. I took it as a compliment like I always do unless the guy is disrespectful. I was amused and thought it was hilairous that he would ask such a stupid question.

Did someone piss in your wheaties this morning?

Bro - my comments were more in general, not really meant to address use specifically.
 
psychedout said:


True, but it's human nature to be protective.

True. Very. And especially if she is with you. Thats a bit different from being jealous, being protective is about being cool and watching out for her in many ways.

One thing that men dont realize is HOW FREEGIN OFTEN hot chicks get hit on. ALL DAMNED DAY. And they can TELL its happening too.

Thats just one reason why it would help a lot of guys to meet women and actually NOT hit on them. Their "shielkds" dont go up, and you learn more., POlus, if you HIT on every one, they KNOW it, and you look desperate.

My frame: Sure honey, you look great. BUT there are hot women EVERYWHERE. Show ME why and how YOU are different.

I am not a dick about it, it just "is" that way.
 
Riker29 said:


My frame: Sure honey, you look great. BUT there are hot women EVERYWHERE. Show ME why and how YOU are different.

heh. youre kidding right? you mean, you say something along those lines without sounding so corny correct?
 
DepressiveJuice said:


heh. youre kidding right? you mean, you say something along those lines without sounding so corny correct?

NO, I dont SAY it. That is my FRAME of mind.

I am not being a dick, but its just my attitude. And its TRUE.

90% of what makes a woman look good is an ACCIDENT OF GENETICS. Its not about HER. Sure, if she works out and eats right and bathes, fine. LOL Of course. But MOST of it is an ACCIDENT. So my attiutude - "lucky you honey".

The fact is that there are hot hot great wonderful smart funny charming women out there that DO look good. And far far far too many guys, out of deperation, put up with absolute bullshit fronm far too many chicks "because she's hot".

Ironically, you get MORE women with my attuitude, because you do NOT come off as desperate. You show, and know, and demonstrate, that YOU have standards.
 
FreakMonster said:
I walk into the gym the other day and my GF was already there. She proceeds to tell me some guy was hitting on her and wouldn't go away. My GF was doing dead lifts and this guy came up to her and asked her "I'm not from around here and I'm not sure what muscles to work out, does that exercise work out your hamstrings". My GF said "yes." He kept asking her these dumb questions and finally a trainer walked by and she said "why don't you ask him, he knows alot about training". I guess he got the hint and walked away. She pointed him out to me and I just laughed becuase this guy walked around like he had suitcases under his arms. So I walked by him and said "Hey there bro, you got some nice suitcases under those arms." He looked at me funny and I just laughed a walked away.

Why are there so many idiots in the gym?

And the trainers are the worst. My GF had about 6 trainers already go up to her trying to hit on her and get her to train with her. What are these idiot trainers thinking? They need to try and get their business with out of shape members not one's who are in top shape.

Posted on the "Anabolic Discussion Board", huh? :rolleyes:
 
all men are hunters.
is is our nature and thats that.

the huntee, if she has self-respect, will turn em down.

have confidence or dont even get into a relationship.
 
MarthaStewart said:
It sounds like your GF is probably pretty hot.

Can you post some pics of her?

I had no idea Martha was a lezzie. But since you are going to prison soon, I guess you better get used to it!
 
Riker29 said:
This is chat board material.

My comment: It amazes me that dudes get upset when other gusy hit on or look at their GF. Wake up. ITS A COMPLIMENT!

First, some guys are SO insecure that even if another man LOOKS or TALKS to his GF, the guy thinks he is "hitting on her". Wake up guys - I talk to women all day long and only the very rare, lucky ones, and the ones that show ME that have a lot to offer, get hit on.

Second, if another guy has no clue that she is with you - then how can you be pissed that he is hitting on her? I mean, if she is out by herself and another guy startes talking - who cares. He doesnt know! Its an honest mistake! (Now if she is alone and she lets this go on for too too long, beynd firned flirting, then you have other problems bro, and its NOT the guy ....)

Third, Hey if I am with a woman and other guys look at her - I LET THEM LOOK! As long as they are not gawking, or sporting a hard-on, or being disrespectful - I dont care. "Yup, that right pal, she is hot, and she is going home with ME".

Anyway, I think you are taking this all WAY too hard man. Maybe that trainer dude has no idea she is with you. Maybe he is JUST TALKING to her (you know, men DO actually TALK with women withgout wanting to bang them!).

My thoughts exactly, as long as they don't totally disrespect you or your girl, or they don't do something un-called for like grab their little dicks, or they don't make rediculous comments out loud, I let them look at my women. I take it as a compliment. People who don't want that kind of attention should go date ugly bitches. Bam
 
Riker29 said:
This is chat board material.

My comment: It amazes me that dudes get upset when other gusy hit on or look at their GF. Wake up. ITS A COMPLIMENT!

First, some guys are SO insecure that even if another man LOOKS or TALKS to his GF, the guy thinks he is "hitting on her". Wake up guys - I talk to women all day long and only the very rare, lucky ones, and the ones that show ME that have a lot to offer, get hit on.

Second, if another guy has no clue that she is with you - then how can you be pissed that he is hitting on her? I mean, if she is out by herself and another guy startes talking - who cares. He doesnt know! Its an honest mistake! (Now if she is alone and she lets this go on for too too long, beynd firned flirting, then you have other problems bro, and its NOT the guy ....)

Third, Hey if I am with a woman and other guys look at her - I LET THEM LOOK! As long as they are not gawking, or sporting a hard-on, or being disrespectful - I dont care. "Yup, that right pal, she is hot, and she is going home with ME".

Anyway, I think you are taking this all WAY too hard man. Maybe that trainer dude has no idea she is with you. Maybe he is JUST TALKING to her (you know, men DO actually TALK with women withgout wanting to bang them!).
...my sentiments exactly Riker
 
I don't have a girlfriiend right now, but if I did and a guy was blantantly hitting on her and he knew me, he would be asking to get hurt.
 
I already felt like hurting a trainer in my girls gym.
The dork would hit my girl every time I wasnt around. When I was there he barely said hello to her. Otherwise, he´d say things like "so he didnt come today? does he even care for you?"

Then one day I was placing the db in my girls lap for her to do a butt exercise, and I asked if she wanted it placed horizontally or vertically. The dork heard and tried to be funny saying to me "you can just drop it over her". Duh. I didnt even look at him, but felt like dropping the dbs over HIS FEET!

A dork in the same gym once made a comment about my girls lingerie. She just walked away and told me later, cause I wasnt there. Next day I went to her gym, DL day, and it was fun as hell to broke my PR while staring at him. Old pathetic skinny fuck, disrespecting a girl half his age. Never spoke to her again, the noise of the plates must have scared him.
 
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Vicious cycle said:


Posted on the "Anabolic Discussion Board", huh? :rolleyes:

Hey asshole, a three year member has a bit more leeway than some johnny come lately newbie prick. So lose the attitude before you lose some chicklets.
 
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anabolicmd said:


Hey asshole, a three year member has a bit more leeway than some johnny come lately newbie prick. So lose the attitude before you lose some chicklets.

LOL :mix:
 
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anabolicmd said:


Hey asshole, a three year member has a bit more leeway than some johnny come lately newbie prick. So lose the attitude before you lose some chicklets.

Of course this is coming from someone who hasbeen here a whole 2 months.
 
Yeah they try, but she's a mean bitch.....he he...she wears her mp3 player all the time, and when they talk to her, it appears that she could not be more bothered, by having to take her headphones off....I love her...:D she's so damn mean....and hot:p
 
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primetime21 said:


Of course this is coming from someone who hasbeen here a whole 2 months.

Thats exactly why I said it snapperhead.
 
Agreed.

Riker29 said:
This is chat board material.



My comment: It amazes me that dudes get upset when other gusy hit on or look at their GF. Wake up. ITS A COMPLIMENT!




at last!!! another guy who thinks like i do.


i get seriously worried if other guys DONT hit on my gf. i wonder, whats up with her?

if other guys dont CONSTANTLY hit my gf, then she shouldnt be my girlfriend, and i LOVE IT when other guys hit my gf's... would hate it any other way.

and no, i have never lost a gf to another guy who looks at my gf, because i treat my gf WELL... and always get treated well in return.
 
TRUE!

nuh_mizer said:




some good points, but sometimes if you let them look too much then they think it's ok and they just keep getting worse.


...this is also a very valid and true observation, but when this happens,. is when i turn on my mad, crazy, who-the-fuck-are-you-youre-gonna-die look, and the problem usually goes away.

very rarely, when i clock a guy is eyeing my bird, do i have to go to the point of stating, from my facial expression, that im gonna fucking kill the c*nt if he doesnt stop what hes doing.

when a guy think ur a wimp, show him ur not... problem solved.

and then look very fucking smug, cos ur shagging the hot chick he has just been lusting over the last hour!!! ;)


revenge can be subtle ;)
 
Youre 100% right

Riker29 said:




NO, I dont SAY it. That is my FRAME of mind.



I am not being a dick, but its just my attitude. And its TRUE.



90% of what makes a woman look good is an ACCIDENT OF GENETICS. Its not about HER. Sure, if she works out and eats right and bathes, fine. LOL Of course. But MOST of it is an ACCIDENT. So my attiutude - "lucky you honey".



The fact is that there are hot hot great wonderful smart funny charming women out there that DO look good. And far far far too many guys, out of deperation, put up with absolute bullshit fronm far too many chicks "because she's hot".



Ironically, you get MORE women with my attuitude, because you do NOT come off as desperate. You show, and know, and demonstrate, that YOU have standards.




...at last, someone talking sense.

we follow the same school of thinking dude (and probably shagged similar numbers of hot chicks because of what we know)....

respect.
 
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Worry not, your girl is with YOU for a reason. If she wanted to be with someone else, she would be.

If she's hot, she will be used to giving even persistent guys the brush off.

If a guy is being a bit too persistent despite being turned down, encourage her to complain to the gym management about it.
 
circusgirl said:
Worry not, your girl is with YOU for a reason. If she wanted to be with someone else, she would be.

If she's hot, she will be used to giving even persistent guys the brush off.

If a guy is being a bit too persistent despite being turned down, encourage her to complain to the gym management about it.

Oh yeah, the girl will be so impressed with a guy who, when she gets harassed, encourages her to complain about it...And as far as the girl being with him for a reason, he is well aware that most girls are on the lookout for the BBD (bigger, better deal) so the fact that she is witrh him at the moment is little comfort as well. And there are plenty of hot girls who dont give even very pushy guys ther brush-off, because they "dont want to be mean to anyone".
 
anabolicmd said:


Oh yeah, the girl will be so impressed with a guy who, when she gets harassed, encourages her to complain about it...And as far as the girl being with him for a reason, he is well aware that most girls are on the lookout for the BBD (bigger, better deal) so the fact that she is witrh him at the moment is little comfort as well. And there are plenty of hot girls who dont give even very pushy guys ther brush-off, because they "dont want to be mean to anyone".

you have women pegged to a T dont you :rolleyes:
 
My girlfriend gets hit on constantly. In the gym, at the grocery store, in the mall, at work, at school, and so on.

I let her handle it initially. She's not some child. However, if she tosses me a look (I'm usually a ways off when this happens- no one has ever had the "balls" to try this while I was near her) to let me know he's not getting the hint, I'll walk over and ask him if he needs some help, or something to that effect. Then I laugh, and he leaves. Same ol' same ol'.

Her responses tend to have a range:

"No, but thanks. I'm with someone."

"I'm really not interested."

"Fuck off, asshole!"

*the look*

Nothing wrong with people asking others out. However, if done while a person is working out, that's kind of small of them, and rude.

Nobody bothers if they know she's dating me. To know and persist would be...unwise.
 
Riker29 said:



My frame: Sure honey, you look great. BUT there are hot women EVERYWHERE. Show ME why and how YOU are different.



Riker knows the secret. It`s a game bros. Don`t be salivating untill you`re in bed with her.
 
gonelifting said:



Riker knows the secret. It`s a game bros. Don`t be salivating untill you`re in bed with her.

Or better yet, save the salivating for when shes not around.
 
when you're the biggest guy in your gym it's not as much of a problem
 
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