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B0ARDIN087
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And if so, is someone seems to have a little is that so bad? are all women so fucked up it doesnt matter
Do most girls have baggage
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redshirt27se
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i remember my first girlfriend.
I would defend my fellow females, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. Most of my friends are guys because I just can’t put up with that passive aggressive crap some chicks pull. My female friends are few and all str8 up. If you are a headcase that is trippin cause you last best friend boinked ur boyfriend, wow that’s sad. We can be friends, but keep the stink eye to the ground. I aint interested and even if I was he already put his toothbrush in your toilet bowl and I just wont go there.
stosstruppe
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One look at the recent divorce thread would tell you virtually all women have baggage!!1
calveless wonder
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Women might as well be called Samnsonite
B0ARDIN087
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lol thats whyi made this thread
B0ARDIN087
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lol. you all remember my first GF 6 years ago. i still get comments from CW and others calling her indian even though she was a jo0
I have been in the dating scene for about 6 years and I must say there are alot of games. Most women that are in their 30's have been financially destroyed by bad divorces and have issues with there x husbands reference there children or whatever it may be. Its extremely difficult to find someone that is a quality individual.
I would go with this - doesn't matter who the person is, but we all have something that another person just quite isn't going to get. Depends on how judgemental and or intolerant you are; One person may see something as baggage and another person may not give a fuck.
And then - what if you're single and have not been married and don't have kids but have focused on your education and career, etc., and then you get labeled as the single spinster that must have something wrong with her because again, she's still singe - and she's very independent, and that can be a huge turnoff for some people?
lol
I think we have a tendency to want to be chased. So we pick a fight with you over something ridiculous, manipulate the situation so you feel like shit just so you can chase us down and say you’re sorry. It’s all about attention, boys. Women just don’t get how miserable it makes you in the process. Mind games are nothing to us because we play them on other women all the time. That stupid thing you said the other day was just that, a stupid thing. But ladies read all kinds of stuff into it because we speak to other ladies in subtleties. In my opinion, men are more direct in general that is why I prefer them. I have yet to run into the situation where some dude has fooled me with his fake, I think we are cool only to find out that we aren’t.
I think it comes down to this: Very few women have a true understanding of how worthy they are.
When you feel unworthy, you act accordingly. Stop looking for a man to make you feel valuable. A man will not change that, only you can. Men don’t want your crazy, stick it in a shoe box and shove it under the bed. The dude you are with now is not the dude that screwed you. Jealousy is a wasted emotion. Completely unproductive and you look like a fidiot when you are crying and blubbering over it. If he has a wondering eye just remind him of the reason his eyes wandered to you in the first place. It is in a woman’s power to be her man’s every fantasy, be opening minded and adventurous. Trust me, he will go nowhere. Behave yourself around his boys. It is not cool to neuter him in front of his friends. Let me see, is that everything…oh and don’t bitch to him about that chick at work that is pissin you off. That is why God gave you girlfriends. Call her on the way home; get it out of your system and stfu.
Did I cover it all? Oh wait. Do not withhold sex for stupid reasons. To a man that is an act of cruelty. (stupid reasons: the kids will hear us, I have a headache [his head between your thighs will clear that up real quick], I feel fat, work sucked, I’m too tired, you looked at another girl in the restaurant, I caught you watching porn, you didn’t pay attention to my while you favorite team was playing, you wanted a night out with the boys, I went with you to have a night out with the boys and you didn’t pay attention to me….ok… does that cover it?)
[I am stepping off my soap box]
I think it comes down to this: Very few women have a true understanding of how worthy they are.
When you feel unworthy, you act accordingly. Stop looking for a man to make you feel valuable. A man will not change that, only you can. Men don’t want your crazy, stick it in a shoe box and shove it under the bed. The dude you are with now is not the dude that screwed you. Jealousy is a wasted emotion. Completely unproductive and you look like a fidiot when you are crying and blubbering over it. If he has a wondering eye just remind him of the reason his eyes wandered to you in the first place. It is in a woman’s power to be her man’s every fantasy, be opening minded and adventurous. Trust me, he will go nowhere. Behave yourself around his boys. It is not cool to neuter him in front of his friends. Let me see, is that everything…oh and don’t bitch to him about that chick at work that is pissin you off. That is why God gave you girlfriends. Call her on the way home; get it out of your system and stfu.
Did I cover it all? Oh wait. Do not withhold sex for stupid reasons. To a man that is an act of cruelty. (stupid reasons: the kids will hear us, I have a headache [his head between your thighs will clear that up real quick], I feel fat, work sucked, I’m too tired, you looked at another girl in the restaurant, I caught you watching porn, you didn’t pay attention to my while you favorite team was playing, you wanted a night out with the boys, I went with you to have a night out with the boys and you didn’t pay attention to me….ok… does that cover it?)
[I am stepping off my soap box]
kx250rider
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All women (and men too), have baggage. The key is whether or not they are healthy enough to see it themselves, and work on it with you.
Charles
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I sooo agree. we have to stop trying to thro the blame on others (ie, he is making me so mad! actually you allow so&so to make you mad. just choose not to have that emotion or keep it in check, if you cant then get the eff away from that person).
IrightI
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well, lets just say that if I was single again, one of the first things that I would look for is, are they taking anti-D's. and if so, why? If they were and it wasn't an organic issue, I'd keep looking. If they were raised by shitty parents, alcoholic/drug addicts, I prolly stay at a safe distance. If they said that they were from a sexualy abusive family, I'd prolly have to take a long hard look at the person. Previous marriages, more than one and the age, usually some factors other than what the one side says. Kids, unless they were in college and/or out of the house, never in a million years.
yes, women have baggage in most cases.... and so do men.
yes, women have baggage in most cases.... and so do men.
ah...wow. some of those probs wouldn't even be thier fault. (shitty parents, sexually abusive family, who the hell asks to be born into that) I know a dude who had alcoholic parents, real bad scene. He went into the Navy and rose quickly in the ranks, now he is a cop. He has a good head on his shoulders and advises me when my know-it-all-ass doesnt kno what to do. Those expierences gave him strength and he is one of the few people who knows what he wants to do with his life.
IrightI
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absolutely, agreed. that's why I used the words I did to try and give the idea that someone may want to take a long hard look, take some more time than they normally would, etc when entering a relationship, especially marriage. That's the way I meant it to sound. Everyone needs to be judged on their own merrits. That being said, the problems I listed, their fault or not, cause mental baggage just the same.
About the kids, that's just MY personal feelings. I would'nt want to raise kid/s other than my own. That's just MY deal, I don't want to. Whether it be selfish, monetary, or what, I didn't want to. I got married for the first time at age 47. I had plenty of really good girlfriends that had kid/s. I just never let the relationship get past a certain point. If they asked, i told them why. Some got pissed, others understood. I was just me.
I understand the kids thing. I get that.
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lartinos
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I agree with Bound. Find them young..
I gotcha. You are right about it causing baggage that capt-save-a-hoe stuff does not work. If you pull that you are headed for disaster. Cant fault someone for wanting to take some time. I agree with you there buddy.
The dating with kids stuff…that’s hard. I have a half-brother and half-sister (older from my daddy’s 1st marriage) boy did they make our lives hell. Still making life difficult, even after my dad died. I can’t say that I blame you. I would say if a person is going to date another with kids, they better really be committed because there is a whole lotta drama ahead.
jnevin
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Slippy??? Slappy???
I would say No one is Messed up (unless truly medically diagnosed as 'missing something integral')
rather people have different ways of handling their feelings...........
Im pretty sympathetic towards women . I know they feel alot, and how this world can be for them.
I also respect them... they can do with Children what a man cannot, when they lead in a organized structure they tend to excel
rather people have different ways of handling their feelings...........
Im pretty sympathetic towards women . I know they feel alot, and how this world can be for them.
I also respect them... they can do with Children what a man cannot, when they lead in a organized structure they tend to excel
And then - what if you're single and have not been married and don't have kids but have focused on your education and career, etc., and then you get labeled as the single spinster that must have something wrong with her because again, she's still singe - and she's very independent, and that can be a huge turnoff for some people?
The Achiles heal for women like you, is your EGO.
Your Ego protects you but at the same time puts an Iron wall up.
You dont get the guys that care if they feel your unable to hear them and care.
He has to be willing to do the same for you.
For me If i feel a women is pig headed on moral issues and is too closed minded to hear myunique point of you, and have a give and take..... then shes not very open minded at all
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