Do I have a right to be pissed off in this scenario?

[CoBra666]

i know, thats a pictoral clarification of number 6

 

[ceo]

I believe I do, but I like to hear outside opinions to make sure I don't have tunnel vision. (LONG POST WARNING, Cliff notes at bottom)

I did a favor for my most recent Ex GF by picking her up at the airport because she was flying back from Brazil to come back here, and pack the rest of her stuff (she's moving back). I felt bad because her dad passed away, and her cat is sick so I volunteered to pick her up. Note, it was 2 and a half hours away. so 5 hours round trip. The weather was also extremely shitty

so anyways, I get there and park and head over to baggage claim. I see her and walk towards her. As soon as I get to her she squints her eyes with a wtf face and extends her hand in my direction and says in a very condescending tone "what did you do to yourself?. Are you serious? You look weird". Referring to the fact I shaved my head.And it wasn't oh it's weird to see you like that. it was implied that *I* looked weird.

No hi, no hello, no hug. That was the first thing she said. I haven't seen her in 4 months. I took her sick cat to the vet a few weeks ago, and got stuck with teh bill. she was supposed to pay me back, but i wasn't going to hound her knowing all the shit she's dealing with right now because of her dad's death. I didn't mind, but I did expect a little courtesy if i'm doing her favors.

Needless to say, i was fuckin pissed. But i kept my mouth shut because i didn't want to cause a scene. So i was very quiet the way home and just gave her very brief responses when she would talk to me. She brought up the hair thing AGAIN, and then started criticizing me saying i looked so much better with hair and that i don't have the shape for it etc. I got defensive and a bit nasty with her and said nothing the whole way back. she tried to be nice to me again when we got there and asked me to come inside etc but i was very emphatic about leaving. Got a little loud with each other and I left



CLIFF NOTES:
-Did a favor for my recent ex by picking her up from the airport 2.5 hours away
-I get there and she insults me in a bitchy tone and my new haircut before even saying hello
-I bite my tongue and stay quiet almost the whole ride even though i'm fuming she'd be so rude
-she brings it up again in the car, and we argue.
-i drop her off, she acts like she did nothing wrong and we yell at each other before i leave

YAY! Another cw SWV thread!!!!!!!!

It's been a long time bro!

she's cheating on you.

Oh, and she totally pwns you in this relationship series.

 

[PICK3]

i know, thats a pictoral clarification of number 6

it should have be annotated with a different nomenclature

 

[ceo]

he's had cancer for over a year and a half. her dad was also an asshole to her. Wouldn't pay for her last semester at school so she could graduate.

guess who did though? yeah, me

pwnt!

Don't you mean your dad paid for her last semester?

Since he's the one paying for your schooling and all.

 

[CoBra666]

it should have be annotated with a different nomenclature

i dont even know wtf that means

 

[ceo]

no, she didn't at all. I broke up with her like 3 or 4 times and a couple of those times she practically came back begging.

Of course she kept coming back...she needed you to make sure her school bills got paid, ngr!

pwnt!

Think your dad will pay my mortgage brah?

 

[PICK3]

i dont even know wtf that means

the defense rests

 

[CoBra666]

6b) right?

 

[calveless wonder]

Of course she kept coming back...she needed you to make sure her school bills got paid, ngr!

pwnt!

Think your dad will pay my mortgage brah?

my parents don't pay for anything dipshit

 

[ceo]

none, but i almost never ask for favors from anybody. and to be fair, she was in brazil and i was here. not much she could do from there.

except walk all over you...

which is pretty impressive from that far away!