i agree with mr muscle if you do the sport only to get
some girls you're really on the wrong way.
i think most of women are attracted by the
"fitness-type"; nice abs and some muscles, but i don't
care about it.
if one is called a monster is relativ, for some women a 6"1 @ 200 pds guy is already a monster, for others he's just athletic.
so just go on, train hard, eat clean and do it four urself