Divorce finally final.

[BradG]

Yep. For those that did know or even didn't, my divorce became final this past Monday. What I'm wondering now is for those of you who have been through something like this what did you do to get back into the swing of things? I've never been much of a social animal. I do enjoy the bar, of course that could all just be the alcohol... Anyway, do you have any recommendations or words of wisdom?

 

[i-Supplements]

Congrats! I was divorced this past June. I still have'nt dated. Not that I have'nt passed up some ass, but that is different. I have no intentions of dating or settling down. I'm having a blast just doing things that I was'nt able to do, and doing things when I want to. I like being on my schedule. Have fun, and enjoy having your life back.

 

[velvett]

I've never been divorced but what does come to mind is not to fear living.

It's like you get so comfortable living a life that really isn't for you and while you might already know this and if you're lucky enough to escape this you real don't know how to leave your old ways behind.

Stray from what is easy and comfortable.

 

[BradG]

Congrats! I was divorced this past June. I still have'nt dated. Not that I have'nt passed up some ass, but that is different. I have no intentions of dating or settling down. I'm having a blast just doing things that I was'nt able to do, and doing things when I want to. I like being on my schedule. Have fun, and enjoy having your life back.

Thank you. I already enjoy doing whatever I please whenever I am pleased to do it. I do intend to get back into dating at some point. Right now I still need some time before I get into a relationship but i have nothing against dating for fun either.

 

[i-Supplements]

I've never been divorced but what does come to mind is not to fear living.

It's like you get so comfortable living a life that really isn't for you and while you might already know this and if you're lucky enough to escape this you real don't know how to leave your old ways behind.

Stray from what is easy and comfortable.

AMEN!

 

[BradG]

Stray from what is easy and comfortable.

Thanks Velvett. That's something that usually isnt' easy for me to do but is also usually rewarding.

 

[javaguru]

Get yourself back in the game and learn from your previous relationship.

 

[i-Supplements]

i'm doing things again that I have'nt done in years, I started playing in a band again. I'm doing alot of recording. I'm drinking beer again. I'm just having fun. Don't get me wrong, it is lonely at times, and I miss my ex very much. That will take along time to get over, but you learn to deal.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I don't think I'll ever get a divorce


... I can't even get past a 4th date.

 

[slickdadd]

i'm doing things again that I have'nt done in years, I started playing in a band again. I'm doing alot of recording. I'm drinking beer again. I'm just having fun. Don't get me wrong, it is lonely at times, and I miss my ex very much. That will take along time to get over, but you learn to deal.

You gettin any?

 

[velvett]

Thanks Velvett. That's something that usually isnt' easy for me to do but is also usually rewarding.

Yah me either...
Maybe one day I'll take my own advice.

GOOD LUCK!

 

[i-Supplements]

You gettin any?

Yes I am. I was in Vegas in July, and it was like a movie. The first night there was these two bi chic's I hooked up with. The next night, I was walking down the strip and met some chic from texas and ended up going to the Monte Carlo for the night. It was the most unusual two night of my life. I'm going back in Nov.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Brad smart move on taking a little time for yourself and then when your ready come out swingeing. Your such a sweety it will be hard to keep that ladies at bay for to long. Best wishes doll.

 

[BradG]

Brad smart move on taking a little time for yourself and then when your ready come out swingeing. Your such a sweety it will be hard to keep that ladies at bay for to long. Best wishes doll.

LOL! Thanks QT. I don't know how much I believe that. I have always kind of looked at my "nice guy" thing as a detrement as far a women are concerned and I don't know about "swinging" kinda always given me the creeps. ha ha However, if I do need a stick to beat them off of me I won't complain. Well, maybe I will but it will only be half-hearted.

 

[slickdadd]

Yes I am. I was in Vegas in July, and it was like a movie. The first night there was these two bi chic's I hooked up with. The next night, I was walking down the strip and met some chic from texas and ended up going to the Monte Carlo for the night. It was the most unusual two night of my life. I'm going back in Nov.

Two bi chicks? Like...at the same time?

 

[BradG]

Yes I am. I was in Vegas in July, and it was like a movie. The first night there was these two bi chic's I hooked up with. The next night, I was walking down the strip and met some chic from texas and ended up going to the Monte Carlo for the night. It was the most unusual two night of my life. I'm going back in Nov.

Texas, huh? get a name? You think she might be intersted in a "vunerable" guy?

 

[i-Supplements]

Two bi chicks? Like...at the same time?

Oh yeah! One was Milato and the other was blonde. the Milato had the most perfect boobies...ever. They singled me out, that was the strange thing. I was just standing there, and the next thing you know, these two chics were all up on me. It was a big blur for next few hours. It was a blast!

 

[slickdadd]

Oh yeah! One was Milato and the other was blonde. the Milato had the most perfect boobies...ever. They singled me out, that was the strange thing. I was just standing there, and the next thing you know, these two chics were all up on me. It was a big blur for next few hours. It was a blast!

I hate you

 

[i-Supplements]

I hate you

Shit like that has seem to be happening to me the last few months. It's rough.

 

[BradG]

I don't think I'll ever get a divorce


... I can't even get past a 4th date.

Don't stress over it man. Relationships are always best when they come along naturally (and unexpected).

 

[alien amp pharm]

Don't stress over it man. Relationships are always best when they come along naturally (and unexpected).

Are you hitting on me? If so then you are right, this was unexpected.




Seriously though, I agree. I'll just keep playing the field and go with the flow.
Being single isn't so bad anyways is it.

 

[Gambino]

keep your head up Brad...it seems as if you have the right mentality

 

[BradG]

Are you hitting on me? If so then you are right, this was unexpected.




Seriously though, I agree. I'll just keep playing the field and go with the flow.
Being single isn't so bad anyways is it.

Nah being single is cool. The bad part is being single and always looking for someone. That can get very frustrating and depressing.

 

[awittyusername]

I don't think I'll ever get a divorce


... I can't even get past a 4th date.

Of course, you will never get a divorce. Even if you do get married it won't be official, bc your "virgin" wife won't let you consummate the marriage.

 

[wootoom]

i hate this thread i just got married. sorry to hear about the divorce bro. theres plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[BradG]

i hate this thread i just got married. sorry to hear about the divorce bro. theres plenty of fish in the sea.

I'm sorry. good luck on your marriage. Marrriage is truly a wonderful thing.

 

[awittyusername]

I'm sorry. good luck on your marriage. Marrriage is truly a wonderful thing.

..................for me to poop on

 

[Forge]

Yep. For those that did know or even didn't, my divorce became final this past Monday. What I'm wondering now is for those of you who have been through something like this what did you do to get back into the swing of things? I've never been much of a social animal. I do enjoy the bar, of course that could all just be the alcohol... Anyway, do you have any recommendations or words of wisdom?

I'm going through a divorce right now after a 5 year marriage. I haven't really gotten "back into the swing of things" yet, though I have been on a few dates. Nothing serious though, I haven't had sex since July when the wife cut me off. I'm not much of a social animal either.

Velvett's advice is good; just relax and spend time doing things you like to keep yourself busy. Sitting at home alone doing nothing is the worst thing you can do, trust me, all you'll do is reflect on the ex and become sad missing her. It takes time, bro.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Of course, you will never get a divorce. Even if you do get married it won't be official, bc your "virgin" wife won't let you consummate the marriage.

Hahaha, sad but true.