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SoreArms
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My parents are planning on selling their current home and most likely moving out of state to Arizona. I have two younger (adult) brothers and one younger sister (12 years old ) that still live at home.
One of my bros (24) has lived on his own for 3-4 years, he lived with his ex gf for a couple of years, then they broke up and he lived on his own for about 1 year. He then decided he wanted to go back to school (which was a real good decision), so he moved back to my parents house. He's currently going to Devry for accounting and is also working part (3/4) time.
My other brother (22) has always lived at home, just transfered to Long Beach State and works part time.
Both of then are going to stay here in L.A. when my parents move, my sister is too young so she'll go with them.
One of my fears is that they'll be pressed for money to pay rent, and they'll wind up dropping out of school, or taking less classes to work full time. I've talked to both of them and told them that if they had trouble finding living accomodations I would be willing to move out with either or both of them and take the biggest burden of the rent to allow them to keep their current school and work schedule.
I currently have a roomate, we've been living in the same place for 5 years now. I don't want to be a dick and just skip out on him if I need to move out with my bros. I'd like to give him a heads up because I'd like the same courtesy if it was the other way around.
So here's the dilema:
If I tell him whats going, he's most likely going to either start looking for another place or another roomate (as any half brained person would do). The problem for me is that if my brothers don't wind up needing my help and my roomate went ahead and made other arrangements, I'd be totally assed out and would then need to find a place of my own.
So that's my dilema, any suggestions?
One of my bros (24) has lived on his own for 3-4 years, he lived with his ex gf for a couple of years, then they broke up and he lived on his own for about 1 year. He then decided he wanted to go back to school (which was a real good decision), so he moved back to my parents house. He's currently going to Devry for accounting and is also working part (3/4) time.
My other brother (22) has always lived at home, just transfered to Long Beach State and works part time.
Both of then are going to stay here in L.A. when my parents move, my sister is too young so she'll go with them.
One of my fears is that they'll be pressed for money to pay rent, and they'll wind up dropping out of school, or taking less classes to work full time. I've talked to both of them and told them that if they had trouble finding living accomodations I would be willing to move out with either or both of them and take the biggest burden of the rent to allow them to keep their current school and work schedule.
I currently have a roomate, we've been living in the same place for 5 years now. I don't want to be a dick and just skip out on him if I need to move out with my bros. I'd like to give him a heads up because I'd like the same courtesy if it was the other way around.
So here's the dilema:
If I tell him whats going, he's most likely going to either start looking for another place or another roomate (as any half brained person would do). The problem for me is that if my brothers don't wind up needing my help and my roomate went ahead and made other arrangements, I'd be totally assed out and would then need to find a place of my own.
So that's my dilema, any suggestions?
