Did she know?

[xxman1]

Not telling her doesn't make your relationship a lie, and telling her doesn't make you morally superior to others.

Do what you think is right, either way you could end up screwed. There's no right answer here.

My own opinion - tell her how many other girls you've slept with, how many times you masturbate a week, or about each chick you see at the mall you'd like to nail. There's a line for everything, it's just up to you to decide where yours is.

good one

 

[Trojan Horse]

She was definitely surprised and I undoubtedly fulfilled any dickhead bb stereotypes she may have had-but oh well? I normally go out of my way to not notice the girls that seem to know every guy in the gym. When they try to talk to me, I tell them I don't wanna be a member of their fan club. They hate that-but when I see them out at a bar before the night is over I'll sodomize them while bent over their car in the parking lot. One girl even blew me behind the bar right next to a smelly garbage dumpster. I could barely nut with the smell distracting me. Funny how the less respect I give them the more likely they are to bang me. Even funnier is the guy that bought her flowers and took her out to an $80 dinner the night before and didn't even get a kiss goodnight. Then again, I didn't get a kiss goodnight either. I feel so used and dirty. I need some of that Order Of The Serpentine body scrub stuff-and probably a wood file to scrape the warts off my cock a few days later.

Funny Shit Bro. Good for you by schooling that bitch.

 

[BigCracker]

exactly. look, relationships aren't "cookie-cutter", different things work for different people. i've been in plenty of relationships where the girl wanted to know everything whether she asked me or not. those obviously didn't work FOR ME. i'm also not saying that i hide things that i think she won't like. you treat your spouse with the same respect you think you deserve. if i screw up and she doesn't know about it, then i'll tell her. it's better that way. but you should know your significant other well enough to know what would bother her and what she could care less about. if something happens that would bother her then i don't wait to tell her, but that sort of thing rarely happens. i just happened to be lucky enough to find someone as laid back as i am.

Whatever happened to being a real man and telling her if she doesn't like something about you to hit the fucking road?

Cookie cutter? Sounds more like the pussified male this country's been turning out since chicks started burning their bras 40 yrs ago. The whole beg for forgiveness rather than ask permission thing is both deceitful, and disrespectful.

Why are guys so afraid to be themselves? Likely because they're too pussywhipped and insecure with their ability to be able to find a girl that will accept them as-is. Guys that lead this secret life behind their woman's back are living a lie. Their relationships are a complete facade as well-and will most likely end up another divorce statistic.

Personally I'd rather be alone than have to hide shit from my girl as if she were the vigilant parent constantly monitoring my behavior. I'm a grown man, and no pussy in the world is worth altering my life or personal views on anything. The girls I date respect me more and never have to worry about looking like a fool that dates a guy that's dishonest and sneaky.

If a girl with any amount of self esteem catches you in even 1 lie, it will not be forgotten any time soon. So when prince charming comes along and takes her away from you she'll be able to justify it no problem. Chicks are like monkeys-they don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another. However, she'll let you think you're forgiven until the right opportunity surfaces. Sounds kinda shady on her part huh? What you reap is what you sow.

 

[docchiro08]

Whatever happened to being a real man and telling her if she doesn't like something about you to hit the fucking road?

Cookie cutter? Sounds more like the pussified male this country's been turning out since chicks started burning their bras 40 yrs ago. The whole beg for forgiveness rather than ask permission thing is both deceitful, and disrespectful.

Why are guys so afraid to be themselves? Likely because they're too pussywhipped and insecure with their ability to be able to find a girl that will accept them as-is. Guys that lead this secret life behind their woman's back are living a lie. Their relationships are a complete facade as well-and will most likely end up another divorce statistic.

Personally I'd rather be alone than have to hide shit from my girl as if she were the vigilant parent constantly monitoring my behavior. I'm a grown man, and no pussy in the world is worth altering my life or personal views on anything. The girls I date respect me more and never have to worry about looking like a fool that dates a guy that's dishonest and sneaky.

If a girl with any amount of self esteem catches you in even 1 lie, it will not be forgotten any time soon. So when prince charming comes along and takes her away from you she'll be able to justify it no problem. Chicks are like monkeys-they don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another. However, she'll let you think you're forgiven until the right opportunity surfaces. Sounds kinda shady on her part huh? What you reap is what you sow.

wow buddy. no one said anything about secret lives behind their woman's back. nor did i say anything about running to my woman and begging for forgiveness for anything. i said that if i screw up, nothing big like cheating or anything just the average kind of stuff, then i'll let her know. and of course, if she has a problem with it or starts to dictate my life, then she's not the one for me and i move on. i'm sorry if you think that one thing works for everyone in every relationship. i am VERY respectful of women i date and the woman i'm with now. matter of fact, i've been told by, seriously, EVERY girl that has ever gone out on more than one date with me that i'm the most respectful and have the most manners of any other guy they've dated. if i remember correctly your the one that posted the other day about treating girls like crap, and the worse you treat them the more they want to sleep with you. kuttos to you if that works. another example that not everything works for everyone, but i'm finished defending my point. say what you will.

 

[BigCracker]

wow buddy. no one said anything about secret lives behind their woman's back. nor did i say anything about running to my woman and begging for forgiveness for anything. i said that if i screw up, nothing big like cheating or anything just the average kind of stuff, then i'll let her know. and of course, if she has a problem with it or starts to dictate my life, then she's not the one for me and i move on. i'm sorry if you think that one thing works for everyone in every relationship. i am VERY respectful of women i date and the woman i'm with now. matter of fact, i've been told by, seriously, EVERY girl that has ever gone out on more than one date with me that i'm the most respectful and have the most manners of any other guy they've dated. if i remember correctly your the one that posted the other day about treating girls like crap, and the worse you treat them the more they want to sleep with you. kuttos to you if that works. another example that not everything works for everyone, but i'm finished defending my point. say what you will.

My post wasn't directed towards you specifically. I see nothing wrong with your view on relationships. Some girls like Ryan Seacrest types where others prefer to be treated like shit. However this isn't the topic I'm posting about. I'm talking about the guy that revamps his personality whenever his girl comes around and hides his less sociably acceptable habits(roids) from her like I used to hide my beer drinking from my parents when I was in high school. These are the same guys that fuck strippers at their bachelor party 2 days before they marry the girl of their dreams-basically making his future ex wife look like a fool before the ink is even dry on the marriage license. If lying and deceit is love, let me never be loved.