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been "friends" with a girl for a while now in graduate school. yes, this is a continuation of a previous post...
well this girl and I have know each other and when we get along we get along great, but we argue and have big fights nearly every other day. the attraction is very obvious, though both of us never like to really admit it though...we do...
well for a long time i gave her mixed signals...and never made a move on her...bc she always said how arrogant and cocky i was and that i was not trustworthy as a bf, ...and that i would cheat on her in a second. our arguments are about missing each others calls, how i dont really care about her and how i dont treat her like a lady. during this entire freindship...she has always complimented me ..nearly every day...sometimes 3 or 4 times a day, she will tell me what a great body she thinks i have and ...how attracted she is to me. i have never really revealed how i felt about her and...last big argument...i made her cry (she claims to have had only one other guy that has ever made her cry)...during this monumental argument she was screaming and sobbing and yelling..."why do you fuck with my head, youre always ...messing with my emotions and ...you confuse and make me totally frustrated...and i will never be good enough for you..."
well ...a few days after that i explained how i felt about her...and said that i only gave her mixed signals bc...i was a little scared about how much i was ...into her and that confused me a bit...
...she responded and said that ...i was the perfect guy for her, looks wise, personality wise (when im not being a dick she said) and that she for a long time has thought that i was the perfect guy for her...and was expecting me to do something. she said ...i dont think i could have made it any more obvious. ...then she continued on and said..."you fucked everything up ****** everything could have been so great...bc you know i hate admitting this but im very attracted to you...but you were too chicken to risk your ego ...for being with me...she said she feels so hurt by me...and confused by me...and will never give another chance..."you fucked up so many times and i know you are the type of guy i could be so attatched to ...and that you could really break my heart"
well for the last week or so i have really been a gentleman...but she has still been very guarded and tries to start arguemtns which i dont fall for...and she says you might be good for one week but...you were such a dick for 4 months ...how am i supposed to forgive you for that?
my friends and people in grad school all assumed taht we have been going out for months...though we havent done anything...and think that its simply that the two of us are egosticial and hate putting ourselves out there for someone that we are very into...lots of people just think its simply her being frustrated that i dont turn around and make a move on her...and that this confusion just casues tension and frustration....lots of people always talk about us and say that the sexual tension is pretty fucking obvious and that we should just get it on and ...stop playing games and worrying about ...stupid shit...we still spend a ton of time together...is she giving me a chance or what even though in anger she said she could never forgive me......etc...have i fucked it up too much?
well this girl and I have know each other and when we get along we get along great, but we argue and have big fights nearly every other day. the attraction is very obvious, though both of us never like to really admit it though...we do...
well for a long time i gave her mixed signals...and never made a move on her...bc she always said how arrogant and cocky i was and that i was not trustworthy as a bf, ...and that i would cheat on her in a second. our arguments are about missing each others calls, how i dont really care about her and how i dont treat her like a lady. during this entire freindship...she has always complimented me ..nearly every day...sometimes 3 or 4 times a day, she will tell me what a great body she thinks i have and ...how attracted she is to me. i have never really revealed how i felt about her and...last big argument...i made her cry (she claims to have had only one other guy that has ever made her cry)...during this monumental argument she was screaming and sobbing and yelling..."why do you fuck with my head, youre always ...messing with my emotions and ...you confuse and make me totally frustrated...and i will never be good enough for you..."
well ...a few days after that i explained how i felt about her...and said that i only gave her mixed signals bc...i was a little scared about how much i was ...into her and that confused me a bit...
...she responded and said that ...i was the perfect guy for her, looks wise, personality wise (when im not being a dick she said) and that she for a long time has thought that i was the perfect guy for her...and was expecting me to do something. she said ...i dont think i could have made it any more obvious. ...then she continued on and said..."you fucked everything up ****** everything could have been so great...bc you know i hate admitting this but im very attracted to you...but you were too chicken to risk your ego ...for being with me...she said she feels so hurt by me...and confused by me...and will never give another chance..."you fucked up so many times and i know you are the type of guy i could be so attatched to ...and that you could really break my heart"
well for the last week or so i have really been a gentleman...but she has still been very guarded and tries to start arguemtns which i dont fall for...and she says you might be good for one week but...you were such a dick for 4 months ...how am i supposed to forgive you for that?
my friends and people in grad school all assumed taht we have been going out for months...though we havent done anything...and think that its simply that the two of us are egosticial and hate putting ourselves out there for someone that we are very into...lots of people just think its simply her being frustrated that i dont turn around and make a move on her...and that this confusion just casues tension and frustration....lots of people always talk about us and say that the sexual tension is pretty fucking obvious and that we should just get it on and ...stop playing games and worrying about ...stupid shit...we still spend a ton of time together...is she giving me a chance or what even though in anger she said she could never forgive me......etc...have i fucked it up too much?
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