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Dating and feeling empty

Austin316

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Long story short, i have dated a total of 9 girls in 4 weeks....all but one was a one date thing, girls 2-4 I ummmmm well fooled around with and lost virginity on # 4 yet of course Im not proud of that, at the time I didn't know if I cared and was confused, but in all it was meaningless and left me feeling kind of empty..every date since then has been more innocent but not developed in the slightest...its frustrating, ud think after 9 girls I would find ONE that I would want to date exclusive, yea Ive met some cool girls, and some complete BITCHES but fuck I dunno in the end right now I just feel empty about it because I dunno I may know a lot more about dating I spose but I have really satisfied nothing in myself as of yet....crap I hope it doesn't take me like 100 tries to just meat that someone I can be in something with..maybe Im picky I dunno a few girls I didn't continue on with soley for the fact that Im not attracted enough physically or mentally, I need a lot of both....ughhhhhh man I wish I didn't wait till I was 20 to start this whole dating thing but fuck oh well
 
hey

better than no dating and feeling empty....did u just suddenly decide to go out and start dating or something :D me wish me knew the womans u did i think



but hey, 9 dates in 1 month and u slept with one. thats 117 in a year sleeping with 13. not a bad statistic i think. ;)
 
Keep meeting them, honestly, it'll probably take about 20 good different girls or so before you find someone that you want to hook up with in a relationship.
 
The net... aol chat is an awesome place to meet women, wish I had it without the rest of aol...also facethejury.com is good.
 
To be honest, in my entire life I've only clicked well with a few girls. It's easy to be attracted to someone, but to really connect with a person -- that's rare.

My advice: don't put so much pressure on yourself. As I've said before (many, many times lol) -- go out; have fun; and don't try to force anything. If you don't enjoy "dating" more than one girl at a time (I don't blame you; it's not something I like either) then don't do it. You can just hang out as friends. That is allowable, you know. :)
 
Frackal said:
The net... aol chat is an awesome place to meet women, wish I had it without the rest of aol...also facethejury.com is good.

why not get a non aol isp and install trillian *www.trillian.com" it is a chat client that has aol, yahoo, msn all in one...

then uninstall that aim crap.
 
Puc will this actually let you on the AOL network to talk to girls that subscribe to AOL??? Not the same thing as AIM??
 
Dating college girls has been a real disappointment. They have no sense of reality and think that after you graduate you have lots of money and everything just works out. As far as being marriage material these girls i've dated are only interested in a Daddy Warbucks Ferrari driving millionaire motherfucker, other guys are just used for sex and discarded.
 
Austin-- the girls you've met thus far haven't been right. No real "clicks" yet with anyone sane. Their loss. You're a sweetheart and any girl lucky enough to have you fall for her will be adored and treated fabulously. I'm sorry you've not found the right one yet, but when you do, she'd better treat you right or she'll have nearly 135 pounds of me to deal with....and you know what a hugely intimidating physical creature I am.
 
Frackal said:
The net... aol chat is an awesome place to meet women, wish I had it without the rest of aol...also facethejury.com is good.

Frack, that's cool for you bro because you really enjoy the art of fucking, whereas Austin seems to want something more (or at least he always says so), which i don't think he fill easily by dating chicks off the net. He needs to get out and meet chicks in the flesh.
 
vinylgroover said:
Austin seems to want something more (or at least he always says so), which i don't think he fill easily by dating chicks off the net. He needs to get out and meet chicks in the flesh.

There's nothing wrong with meeting (chatting) with someone online, swapping pics, then if you like that much, to arrange to
meet in person, only thing is, that attraction @ 1st site thing is
gone, and alot of times, flaws that don't show in pictures are staring you in the face. Networking with girls you know is a little
quicker way, and being that a girl you know is hooking you up,
usually the looks match up a little easier.

Raina, surely you can find a sweet, cutie for this boy can't you?
 
during the school yea its plenty easy to meet girls, but when you work all the fucking time and are exhausted you don't wanna go out and I dunno I just need relazation time come weekends...Ive met a few of those in person, af few on the net..face the jury is great Ive got to tlaking to a few extremely hot IMO girls this way hehe
 
If you feel empty then eat. It'll fill you up.

Your welcome.
 
Austin - how many of these online chics DIDNT sent u naked or semi-naked or sexy pics etc etc and/or DIDNT cyber you or talk about sex or stupid shit like that....its the ones that DONT show u anything and DON’T chat your ears off at night and are NOT on the chat 24/7 are the more stable/normal girls that you may have better luck with....I know for me personally the ones who don’t send me sexy pics and don’t even hint to it nor even ask me are the ones that I tend to be able to have just more than sex with them...the second a girl is talking about sex and sending me topless pics, etc, 99.99999% of the time I know its just going to be sex and nothing more......the rest (not in every case, as there are ALWAYS exceptions) of these online chics are nothing but insecure nut jobs.

By going the onilne route you also arent letting the natural dating events and shit take its NORMAL course..i mean you are learning everything about her via an instant message and/or phone call…by the time you meet, what in God’s name is there to talk about? You will like these girls by theire ONLINE persona, you may HATE the in person..trust me…I know way to many people who agree with me on this….

Like I said the best ones are the ones I outlined above and also are the ones who don’t talk about meeting ASAP…I knew a girl online for 3 yrs…lives 2+hrs from me…talked 1-2 times a week, not long 5-10 min on line at best then that was it…rarely emailed each other….NEVER talked about sex NEVER was sent or sent sexy pics..we had talked about we have to one day meet and then one day she emails me, tells me she would be in my area (but she came to see family not specifically driving a few hours to see me or driving 2+ hours for a booty call)…we met…we hit it off like no other girl I have ever met I my entire life..it was freaky…and she felt the same way…then we started talking every single day after we had a chance to meet and talk A LOT and get to know what each other were all about, we talked about stuff we NEVER had a chance to talk about online…..the funny thing is I had written her off long ago because we both have really busy schedules, but we continued to chat, and then like I said one day she told me she would be in my area… trust me bro I was in your shoes before..sure you/I , was/were fucking super hot, I mean REAL hot chics..but then what? I didn’t even want to look at them let along eb in the same house as them after sex, until I see them again maybe the next weekend…there is no substance , no good conversations, just stupid shit and sex talk…try to weed out the weirdoes and try to get lucky and find a good girl with a brain and is hot, then you will be set.


oh and jilly, I see no problem or have no problem with him finding 9 girls to date in 4 weeks. trust me on this.
 
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING BRO ITS BETTER TO BE REALLY PICKY THEN SETTLE. ALSO THESEDAYS GIRLS ARE WORSE THEN GUYS UNTRUSTWORTHY CHEATERS AND TAKE PLEASURE IN SEEING MEN GROVEL FOR THEIR ATTENTION. I RECENTLY BROKE UP WITH A FIANCEE STRIPPER YOU KNOW THE STORY AND HAD BEEN DATING A BUETIFUL CARING GIRL WITH HER MASTERS DAGREE AND IS ASPIRING TO BECOME A PHYCOLOGIST SHE DOES HER INTERNSHIP NOW FOR SOME REASON I COULD NOT GET INTO DATING HER AND THOUGHT OF MY EX STRIPPER ALL THE TIME AND HAVE BEEN TOTALLY WORRIED ABOUT HER BEING ON DRUGS AND DOING CRAZY SHIT EATING ME UP. WELL ME AND THE GIRL I WAS DATING WANTED A LABEL BECAUSE SHE WAS FALLING FOR ME REALLY BAD LONG STORY SHORT ME AND HER GOT INTO IT AND STOPPED TALKING FOR A FEW DAYS THEN MY EX CALLS ME AND WE START TALKING ABOUT GOING TO A MOVIE AND A WEEKEND BUT SOMETHING IS WRONG SHE IS DIFFRENT DRUGS I THINK OR ITS ME. I MISSED MY NEW GIRL THE ONE THAT REALLY SEEMS TO CARE ABOUT ME, AFTER BEING TREATED LIKE A CHUMP BY MY EX WHEN I WAS TELLING HER I LOVED HER AND WAS WORRIED I REALIZED I COULD LOVE HER I ALWAYS WILL BUT IF SHE DOES'NT CARE ENOUGH FOR HERSELF HOW CAN SHE FOR ME SHE DOES'NT DRUGS CHANGE PEOPLE SO I SAW MY NEW GIRL, AND RELIZED WHAT I WAS MISSING THIS AWESOME PERSON WHO WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR ME AND IS A FREAK IN BED TO LIKE ME, I HAVE NOT THOUGHT ABOUT MY EX FIANCEE AT ALL EXCEPT THAT I FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND THAT IN FOUR YEARS WHEN SHE IS THIRTY SHE'S GONNA REGRET HER WHOLE LIFE. SO I GAVE MY GIRL HER LABEL AND NOW I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HER ITS STRANGE BEFORE I NEVER DID UNTIL I SAW HOW MY EX REALLY ACTED AND I JUST TOLD MYSELF I DON'T EVEN NEED THIS DRAMA AND TO BE TREATED LIKE I AM A JERK FOR TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM AND CARE AND WORRY ABOUT THEM SORRY EVERYONE JUST HAD TO VENT A LITTLE. DON'T WORRY GUYS I STILL DON'T TRUST WOMEN I AM NOT THAT STUPID.
 
well met like 6 online I dunno yea u guys are right but at first I just wanted to go on dates and do whatever ad didn't give a shit about meeting anyone I could be with I didn't care and wasn't really believing Id find someone like that anyways...I dunno after 9 though its getting a lil old and shit....thing is with girls in person is I don't know how to break ice..If I know a girl is attracted to me I can talk there ear off, make them laugh, its soo easy and natural but that not knowing shit stops me..when school starts I plan on ditching this whole thing and using school....I just don't have time to go out either
 
dude... you are only supposed to take like one or two clomid perday.

slow down.
 
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