daised and i broke up.

[Puc]

sometimes the bathwater becomes so noxious that the baby needs to be discarded, too.

the travails polluted our memory of each other, and the only way to put them behind was to put us behind...

So, now I begin the next phase of life. I begin with a strange emptiness in my kernel, a longing for a love that I may never experience again. But, I have hope that I can, because I still believe in myself. I still believe there is a purpose to my being... there has to be, there is to much irony in this divine comedy for me to accept otherwise...

 

[Crazier]

That sucks bro. But hey... there's LOTS and LOTS of fish. I'm going to quote something I read and posted last night as a favorite bible quote. I don't know or care if you're religious, that's not the point.

'I discovered that a seductive woman is more bitter than death. Her passion is a trap, and her soft hands will bind you. Those who please God will escape from her, but sinners will be caught in her snare.'

Think about the truth behind this. Some people stay with the same girl from a young age. They grow older, and the wife has gone from a cool friend, to a royal cunt. Soon, they are both cheating on each other, and the marriage is only for show and financial reasons. It's no way to live.

Maybe daised just wasn't right for you, nor you right for her.

Sometimes the painful moments are something you have to endure to be truly free.

Hukana matata and the best to you both.
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[Crazier]

Are people not responding because the age difference between you two, or just because my post was so fucking good that no one thought they could add anything to it?

1 reply after 47 views? What's up with that bullshit? Ah well... at least you enjoyed the young bush while you had it, right?


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[LiLady11]

Sorry to hear that Puc... a breakup can be the worst, especially when you that deep down in your heart, its for the best. Been there, and I'm still learning to cope. But like Crazier said, there are many fish in the sea. It's going to be tough, but as long as you believe in yourself the way you say you do, all will be well eventually. Good luck...

 

[Test boy]

1 reply after 47 views? What's up with that bullshit? Ah well... at least you enjoyed the young bush while you had it, right?


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I suspect people were put off by the personal attack on another member. It never impresses anyone. It would be interesting to hear what daised had to say.

 

[HighIntensity]

Puc

you know we talked about this---happened to me in a very similiar situation., Be strong brother, her memory will always be with you. She was young and sometimes they need to go it alone. Your a good guy and just remeber the good times together. This is what I have done, even if I miss my baby from time to time.

pm me anytime

HI

 

[IanStuart]

What's next, a 15 year old ? lol

 

[the People's Champ]

what was the age diff?

 

[havoc]

Good luck, be happy you have experienced such things. you will be just fine. peace puc

 

[WODIN]

Good luck puc. Good luck daised. Smoke a bowl and relax.

 

[Puc]

when we met she was 16 and I was 24. we met at work. now she is nearly 18 and I am 25...

I still don't know her reason for ending things... but I understand the need to put all of the pain behind us.

if by personal attack test boy was referring to my brief fray with mommakin, I think I was misunderstood.

I think Lisa is one of the most self-aware people in this place. I really have nothing against her. it just made me feel like I did when the big boss man came back as Hakeem, and all of the sudden he was from Africa, and everybody knew it but no one said anything... I don't have access to the mod forum so I had no way of knowing it had already been discussed.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

puc, don't worry about it man. she will be sucking somebody else's dick in no time, especially if she goes off to college. time to move on and find another one that will suck yours. it's all good. just give it some time.

 

[the nature boy]

dude you're too young to be in a serious relationship anyway. and she's WAY too young for that. Serious relationships are for people in their 30's.

 

[Peyote Killa]

Hey Puc, I know we don't know each other and all, but this is some sound advice that I like to remind myself of in a situation similar to the one you are in.

"You can never stop loving somebody, you just have to learn to live without them"

I actually heard that from a member on another board, and it always seems to rein true.

Use it, or not, I still hope that you feel ok, and I got this from "Joe Dirt"

"Lifes a garden man, dig it"

 

[daised]

to those of you who eluded to me froliking around from man to another, you show your ignorance. it is better to not say a thing and let people think you are stupid, thatn to open your mouth and prove them correct. please do not respond to things you have no knowledge of.