As May pointed out, Bull69 and I are a couple. We are both on here everyday and it isn't a problem for us. Before I joined Elite, I read some of the postings and his PM. This is how I found out about him sleeping with May1010. There is quite a history there, but everything is fine now. In fact, May and I are friends now. I wanted to tell you that I understand how your husband feels. If you are not familiar with the boards and the way that people talk to each other, it might look like there is something going on when nothing really is. Bull explained this to me when I first talked to him about it. The explicit stuff about him and May is what caused the problem, not the regular stuff that people talk about every day. Plus, your husband may feel somewhat left out because you are doing something that he isn't a part of and doesn't understand.
If you feel comfortable, try to explain this to him. Let him read the boards so he can see how everyone talks to each other. If you don't want him to see something, delete it and keep it private. I think that if you talk to him, it will be fine.