No, tell him the truth guys!! You have to save the part that says flip-off and glue it back on after ever use. It will not stay sanatized if you don't. I use superglue. Also since you are going to inject you should do that right also. Use a 2" 18 guage needle. Inject in your left ass cheeck close to your asshole for best asorption. Real pros can put it right in their asshole, but you are a beginner so get it close. You can reuse a needle 8-9 times as long as you keep it clean. Good Luck!!