cant get my girls past out of my mind...

[doubles1]

alrite here is my scenario...ive been with my girl for 3 months now...i love her more than anything i ever have and this is the girl i will most likely marry... i have had a more permisquous (sp) past than she has by far and she told me that be4 she met me last semester ....and only slept with one dude..i had slept with 4...but the thoguht of another guy doin her or her kissing or holdin another dude makes me wanna cringe....even though this is all in the past be4 i met her...


she would never ever cheat or go out with another dude behind my back but im just soo protective and dont want other dudes steppin on my territory....what can i do to alleviate my anxiety and feelings of this


thanks for any input...


dubz.1.

 

[Dougly]

You're doomed!

 

[Jay Sean Juggy D]

I would start experimenting with LSD !

 

[doubles1]

come on im serious.

 

[PBR]

the past is gone.....how old are you bro????

 

[nothinbutapeanut]

she told me that be4 she met me last semester ....and only slept with one dude..i had slept with 4...

dubz.1.

you slept with 4 dudes? dude, ur gay.

 

[AAP]

Re: Re: cant get my girls past out of my mind...

you slept with 4 dudes? dude, ur gay.

You ass. You beat me to it.



Either lose the insecurities or lose the girl. You can't have both.

 

[jenscats5]

Get over it dude.....your "insecurities" about something that is in her past & none of your business is the fastest way to end your relationship

 

[NJjuice22]

bro..im not sure what your stressing about..her having sex with someone before you...or you not wanting other dudes kicking it to her or messing with her??

for the first...get that shit out of your head..if she is being honest , a girl that slept with 1 dude before you is one hell of a find, unless your dating 16 yr olds, you are not gona find many virgins nowadays, just know she loves you now .

for the second....dont stress other guys looking at her and shit, take it as a compliment, dont get me wrong, if someone disrepects, fuck that fool up, but other wise guys are gonna be guys, just have confidence in yourself and know she is feeling you.


With a subject like this bro, its really something you will learn to cope with over time..at first i was super jealous and said something to every guy that looked at my girl and i even threatened and attacked her ex..but now that im 23 im growing up and realizing that its just not healthy to be stressing shit like that, it will drive you nuts. ..i hope that helped

 

[Optimus B]

1 - how dyou know that you're going to marry her after 3 months?

2 - she can't change her past so heed AAPs input.