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Breasts: A Rant

wend

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You know, we've been talking about breasts in here recently...between the thread about breast augmentation and the one about whether or not women should train chest (I mean, I know there's not supposed to be any such thing as a stupid question, but come on!), I've been thinking about breasts and how they're perceived in society and what they're really for...

Somebody (a so-called man) in the breast augmentation thread even called them "balloons" in one post. We let it slide, but, dang, don't you think that's kinda obnoxious? To come into the women's forum and refer to part of our anatomy in such a way? Hooters, knockers, tatas, titties...I bet between all of us we could think of at least fifty "terms of endearment" for our mammary glands, none of which really seem all that nice.

And Dayna, no offense, but between your avatar and your screen name, what am I supposed to think? That I'm supposed to envy you those? My best friend has some like that, and I'll tell you what, after a frustrating nursing experience (she had to bottle feed because they were so big that her baby couldn't latch on) and her current back problems, I'm afraid I don't envy you your extra-large set.

And Boscoe, forgive me, but in your thread, you accused another lady of not being a lady because "no girl talks like that." Well, I've been thinking about that, too. And you're right. No GIRL talks like that. But plenty of women do.

You know, real men and women know exactly what breasts are for. They're for feeding babies. They're why mammals are so damned successful. We make food for our young. It's really pretty amazing, almost miraculous.

They're also a heckuva lot of fun to play with, but that's secondary.

And on the subject of plastic surgery, I don't mean to not be "supportive" for those who make (or have made) that choice, but I think we need to be honest here. (Or at least I'm going to choose to be.) Plastic surgery is not a casual decision (and shouldn't be made over the course of a pregnancy, but over much more time, waiting to see what your breasts look like after a year or so post partum). It's serious, and can be dangerous (as any surgery can be). You know why they stopped using silicone? Because sometimes the silicone leaks, and some people have severe reactions to it. It can cause autoimmune disorders that can be debilitating and painful. It can mean the end of life in the gym, that's for sure. I'm not sure why they've started using it again...and I really don't understand why any woman would choose to have such a substance put into her body, just to fulfil a media-fed stereotype of the ideal female form. And to cut muscle for the same reason...well, frankly, I think that's nuts. Surgeons aren't gods...they make mistakes. To elect to have such a procedure...well. It's at best foolish...and maybe even crazy.

Well, sorry to squish anyone's toes, but as one of the elders here, I just had to say my piece. Good night, and god bless.
 
I have a response to the part about the decision being made during the coarse of my pregnancy...I had the procedure paid for and scheduled BEFORE my pregnancy but couldn't follow through because I found out I was pregnant. I respect your views on natural breasts, as I'm sure many others do, but you can look at AS in the same light, tanning etc. Though I know these are not as extreme, they are all a part of vanity, and all women posess vanity right? Well, I'm unhappy with a certain aspect of my body and have decided to fix it. I wasn't seeking your approval or anyone elses. I just had a few questions to ask and thought I could do so without being ripped up on the women's board. Guess I was wrong.
 
Boscoe, this wasn't at all intended as a rip. (If I'd wanted to do that, I'd have done it in your thread.)

I'm glad that this isn't a decision that you've rushed into. Clearly, it's a personal one and I respect that. But I also realize that there may be other young women reading here, and I couldn't not say what I felt needed saying.
 
Well, then I'm sorry for what I just posted on the chat board. How young do you have to be to get a pair? I'm 26, is that old enough?
 
I think that plastic surgery is a VERY personal decision. And while I might not opt for it, that doesn't mean others don't have the right to-- particularly if they've done a lot of research prior to the procedure.

Has anyone ever seen the documentary "Breasts"? It's really an interesting one interviewing women of all different ages and races, women with natural and implanted breasts. It's just women talking about the relationship they have with their breasts and I recommend it to anyone. I found it thought provoking and was delighted that it was so honest and not sexualized. :)

As for the reactions of men-- I guess it's the modern focus as a tiny waist was a long time ago. And it's funny what people will say online because I guarantee you they wouldn't be making the same comments in person. To each their own. Mine are sore all the time and I'm looking forward to going off the pill in a couple of months so they stop being so swollen and ouch.
 
lots of misinformation in your post-- "It can mean the end of life in the gym, that's for sure."...so can a car accident!!

geez... if you dont want implants thats your choice but you really dont have a clue about plastic surgery.

& BTW I think Dayna's avatar rocks :)
 
I think our differences, our goals, and our personal decisions are what makes us all special. :)

You can look at anything we do as "not normal". For example, my daily diet is deficient in almost ALL the vitamins and minerals, most notably calcium. Is this healthy? No. But I made a personal decision, based off my goals and what I want out of myself and my life, and chose to eat what I do. And live the life I do. Most fitness professionals and bodybuilders are VERY unhealthy. They train too hard, diet too much, tan too much and often take too many drugs. It is, by nature, a self-obsessed unhealthy life.

I equate this to plastic surgery. It is a CHOICE on what an individual wants for themselves. And far be it from me to judge them for their decisions simply because it is not a path I might choose for myself.

:)
 
FYI Wend - I came VERY close to deleting the 'balloons' thread. It was so offensive to me too. But since nobody complained at the time, I left it alone.

For the future, everyone, if something or someone offends you, annoys you or generally makes you feel uncomfortable - PLEASE let me know. I might not always be able to do something about it, but by God, I'll do what I can. :)
 
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