break up letter

[Yarg!]

hi guys, im gonna break it up with my gf of 4 months. shes a really nice person and shes pretty cute, but shes also 9yrs older than me. the age factor keeps bothering me and im so used to dating girls younger /the same age that i simply cannot get around the fact that shes so much older. shes got a nice place, car, good job, her degree..and im just a starving college kid. and i want to start dating young girls again. so im gonna call it off- thru email, so tell me what you think of this letter:


Dear Katie,


Hey there, I hope that you are doing well. As you know I am currently in Shanghai, and will be traveling throughout Asia till September. I am writing this email after much thought and deliberation, and believe me, I thought it over very much. I feel that it is not fair for you to wait for me to return from vacation without seeing other people. I also feel that I may hold you back in some way froms achieving your long term goals- goals that do not pertain to 20year old college students with crappy part time jobs. I understand that this is key moment in your life in which you are focusing on your career, family, and your future- all of which I cannot help you with. You are an amazing person with a great personality, and you deserve only the best. You deserve someone with a stable career, a degree and the same desire to begin a family. I trust that you will have no problem finding that person. Regardless, I would like to say that the last four months spent with you were truely memorable, and I will definately miss your companionship. You are a beautiful person, inside and out, and I wish you the best of luck in all your future endeavors.

Your friend,

....

 

[crew9]

Phone.....?

 

[ortiz34]

You can't be serious

 

[Bikini Mod]

Actually - he only dated her for 4 months. It's not like they were engaged. A phone call *might* be better but under the circumstances, I dont see much wrong here.

Matter of fact, I think he is actually very sweet about the whole thing.

 

[Longhorn85]

You left the door open, you should slam it shut.

 

[Freddie de Lux]

hi guys, im gonna break it up with my gf of 4 months. shes a really nice person and shes pretty cute, but shes also 9yrs older than me. the age factor keeps bothering me and im so used to dating girls younger /the same age that i simply cannot get around the fact that shes so much older. shes got a nice place, car, good job, her degree..and im just a starving college kid. and i want to start dating young girls again. so im gonna call it off- thru email, so tell me what you think of this letter:


Dear Katie,


Hey there, I hope that you are doing well. As you know I am currently in Shanghai, and will be traveling throughout Asia till September. I am writing this email after much thought and deliberation, and believe me, I thought it over very much. I feel that it is not fair for you to wait for me to return from vacation without seeing other people. I also feel that I may hold you back in some way froms achieving your long term goals- goals that do not pertain to 20year old college students with crappy part time jobs. I understand that this is key moment in your life in which you are focusing on your career, family, and your future- all of which I cannot help you with. You are an amazing person with a great personality, and you deserve only the best. You deserve someone with a stable career, a degree and the same desire to begin a family. I trust that you will have no problem finding that person. Regardless, I would like to say that the last four months spent with you were truely memorable, and I will definately miss your companionship. You are a beautiful person, inside and out, and I wish you the best of luck in all your future endeavors.

Your friend,

....

Darling,

I disagree with the entire letter. Tell her the truth. 20 yo's are capable of that. It will help her a lot more than a letter that reads like she is being dismissed from duty. Re-write thoughtfully with what is in your heart and send it to us. You will come accross as an a-hole, but that too will help her get over you. And chances are that if she wants something serious soon, she was not planning on having it with you.

 

[calveless wonder]

what a crappy horseshit, sugar coated letter.

get to the fuckin point bro.

sound like an SWV and a half there.

be a man and use the phone

 

[heatherrae]

Be a man and tell her in person. Email breakup? Have some class.

 

[cindylou]

just say all that stuff over the phone. She will appreciate it better, and you might be able to remain friends. I had to do it ; you can do it!!!

 

[Longhorn85]

Or you can send the following text message on your cell:

We r done. Nice 2 know u.