break up letter

[calveless wonder]

People that are nice to spare feelings piss me off.

I'm not saying to be a complete asshole and emphasize only the negative, but don't pussy foot around the real reason. it has nothign to do with her and what she wants. it's what you want, so don't project this whole "you deserve someone with a stable job etc" crap onto her.

if a girl really is a good person but there's no chemistry, then say just that, or whatever the real reason is. no reason to kiss someone's ass to soften the blow

 

[Freddie de Lux]

People that are nice to spare feelings piss me off.

I'm not saying to be a complete asshole and emphasize only the negative, but don't pussy foot around the real reason. it has nothign to do with her and what she wants. it's what you want, so don't project this whole "you deserve someone with a stable job etc" crap onto her.

if a girl really is a good person but there's no chemistry, then say just that, or whatever the real reason is. no reason to kiss someone's ass to soften the blow

Stop it, you're turning me on!

 

[cindylou]

ew not me.

There is no reason to hurt someone if you dont have to.

 

[patsfan1379]

Or you can send the following text message on your cell:

We r done. Nice 2 know u.

I approve this approach.

 

[calveless wonder]

ew not me.

There is no reason to hurt someone if you dont have to.

uh....you're breaking up with someone. chances are they're going to feel rejected anyways. so you lie to them and make them feel artificially good about themselves so it doesn't sting as bad?

Yeah, that takes very high character and alot of integrity.

 

[Freddie de Lux]

uh....you're breaking up with someone. chances are they're going to feel rejected anyways. so you lie to them and make them feel artificially good about themselves so it doesn't sting as bad?

Yeah, that takes very high character and alot of integrity.

Seriously, I think I wanna date you just so you can break up with me. Your approach is so masculine!

 

[blueta2]

HAHAHAHHA....My ex who was 12 yrs younger than me and who I was with for TWO years broke up with me by email.
That got the "never date a young idiot again" out of my system

Trust me, you just did her a HUGE favor.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

"Summer Wind Was Always Our Song"

These break-up songs make sense again
And i really wish they didn't.
Sinatra's singing summer wind
And i'm thinking of the night we met.

Just one last time
Can i hear you say?
"You're my little boy
I never want you to go away"

Where are you?
Please believe in me.
I'm not hanging up the phone
'til i hear you say,

"I love you.
I need you near."
Just give me one last chance
And i'll never let you down again.

Oh and what i wouldn't give
Just to kiss your lips again
To hold your hand next to my heart
And wake up with you in our apartment.

Just one last time
Can i call you my sweetheart?
My best friend
Why do all good things come to an end.

 

[jh1]

wow...

you define 'Spineless'

 

[Bikini Mod]

Hello people...

He is in CHINA on vacation. Where is she? I dont think that a long drawn out and most likely awkward conversatin that will cost a fortune is warranted. And why should he wait till he gets back? Let her be cut loose and SHE can move on.

Not to mention - the only dated for FOUR MONTHS so I don't think it was all that serious. I really dont think a phone call is warranted and the email was totally acceptable as is... he is right. HE AINT what she wants or needs - he is younger and cant (nor does he WANT to) provide her with the stabilty (I am sure she indicated to him) that she would like.

The dude isn't doing a thing wrong IMHO.

But then again, my opinions are like everybody's asshole..... ain't it?