Give us an update on your situation:
The GF
The gf's kid
The gf's ex
The court situation
Is this dude still fucking with you
The job
More tats?
-GF is great, love my lady...we have our moments but for the most part are agreeable...been living with her for over a year now and things are great...i wasn't gonna get married to her though, cause EF told me it was a bad choice to make...but now that SD is getting married i proly follow suit
-GF's kid is good i guess...5 yr olds almost 6...sweetheart kid, got charisma and he's funny...but he get's frustrated and pisssy easy...hit another kid in school the other day cause he wouldn't listen to what he was saying...i def don't want kids of my own though, happy being a part time pusedo-step dad...i lack patience and have a hard time trying to dumb down my convo to match kids' cognitive abillities...most kids look at me like wtf i don't care about 17th century french naval manuevers or how bismark united the german speaking provinces
-GF's ex is still a dbag...i'm not allowed near the man, he made that a part of the divorce proceedings...not that i have ever gone near him or threatened/menaced him...i can honeslty say when he dies (and he's not long for this world, unhealthy and fat) i will seek out his grave and piss all over it, he's harmed me in ways i don't wanna talk about on here. Occassionaly he comes over to our house (we have a great house btw) to see his son...and i let this slid for a while for the kids sake. I would just leave or step outside to avoid the confrontation. But his continual dickheadish behaviour towards his ex forced my hand...had my lawyer brother draw up a letter saying that he was not welcome at my house under any circumstances and if he comes over i will file tresspassing charges....GF got pissed i did this, but it def worked now dude is wanting to meet me and "works things out" but i will never meet with this manbearpig i've been letting him twist in the wind
-court situation is 50/50 custody every other week...since the dbag has a bullshit disabillity (broken ankle) and claims he cannot work, he got 51% of legal custody which entitles him to CS...his fam is wealthy and he has their support off the books, so he is able to collect 161 a month from my hardworking GF...the man sits on his fat ass, lives in house that his dad bought for cash, drives a new car his dad paid cash for, collects what i believe to be a fraudulent SI claim (they are fighting this currently)...and extorts CS from my lady.
-My job is great, i'm happy to have one and esp one that I enjoy and is professional...been making better and better money every year, not MIplank or wootoom money but climbing and allowing me to live pretty good in this day and age. Been laid off for the last few weeks though i got back right before t-giving and won't be laid off anymore, year round employee which kinda sucks but it will allow me to retire sooner
-major tat plans, gonna fill in more on my chest then start working on a massive back piece that will take a while to finish up...i'd like to do some stomach work but i'm pussying out about the pain, so back first then i'll go from there...i love inking
-3 years this june haven't had a drink...closing in on two years with no tweedage...i'll never drink again but i do miss smoking out...i'm hoping my job title will change so i won't have to be tested but we'll see...sobriety has been a blessing