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Best way to move on?

Pathetic x a billion. Get over it, you lost and why the hell did you date a single mom??? Very bad choice. Grow up and be a man.
 
There is only one way to move on - acknowledge every single feeling you are experiencing no matter how much they hurt/suck. Then deal with them. Then wait it out. Time is on your side. NOTHING lasts forever....it's impossible.
 
MM,

You just have to live in the hear and now man. Tough to do, but its really your only sane option. Best of luck in moving on dude.
 
This is why women with kids should not introduce their kids to the man they are dating until they know for sure they are getting married...Way to hard on the kids and the man when things don't work out
 
Gymgurl said:
This is why women with kids should not introduce their kids to the man they are dating until they know for sure they are getting married...Way to hard on the kids and the man when things don't work out
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I only "dated" one chick with kids and I was BEYOND careful to never even be at her place when the kids were there. Not just for them, but for me to cause I did not want to get attached to them considering the whole thing was really just a sex type thing.
 
Your a good man Kboo....lol...that is the way to handle those situations....Well I think it is....look at all the women who introduce their kids to 20-30 different men.....bad parenting I think
 
Gymgurl said:
Your a good man Kboo....lol...that is the way to handle those situations....Well I think it is....look at all the women who introduce their kids to 20-30 different men.....bad parenting I think
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Gymgurl is right on with her assessement of these things. It's tough when a guy meets a single mom, or a recently divorced mother etc... You don't want to get too close to her children; however, if you really hit it off with a woman that has children, sooner or later those children may get to know you etc... You don't want that type of bonding unless you'll be there for her and the children etc... Women who bring every "Tom, Dick and Harry" that they date around their children are terrible mothers in my opinion. Gee, I guess, the children will be without that Paternal/Fatherly structure and start to beleive that it's normal for male/female instability and for their Mom to be a whore.
 
Gymgurl for president!

Yeah man, getting involved with a single mother can be a bit difficult for most men. I'm sure it has to suck that you got close to the kids and things did not work out.

How do you move on? Find another girl. A muscular fit guy who loves children, and wants to be a good father should be a hot item for women looking for a long term commitment. Find the right women and start a family of your own bro.
 
Alot of guys have been in the same predicament. It hard to not let yourself get to a higher level with a woman that you're dating etc... who has kids. Ask yourself, if you get serious with her, what role do you want to play with her children?
 
bro, i think this is a huuuuge blessing in disguise
raising someone else's three kiddos?
no no no
 
Broham...

Sorry.

All I can say is be glad they aren't YOUR kids. I know you may feel like they are, and that sucks.

My stupid wife was staying with some dood and had our 16 month old daughter with her. I was going fucking balistic. I was about ready to get a restriaining order against this guy on behalf of my daughter. I was so loosing my mind that by the time I started a real process to do something about it, the relationship was over.

Which brings up the next nightmare... who's next?

My entire wife's family was all over her like stiink on shit about this... she just did what she wanted. I asked her if my daughter was going to start calling him Daddy... she laughed and said "He Loves Kids"... that fucking bitch.. my only response was "First rule of getting the MILF: Tell her you love kids"

How neive and ignorant.
 
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sweet tits.. bino... I wanna actually bitch slap you right now. LOL

tuts, it is complete ignorance on her part no doubt. You didn't say exactly what happened, but I believe I know. And you are feeling things right now that are normal.

I myself was very leary about allowing my kids to meet anyone at all. Thankfully I did find the right guy, and that guy is so awesome with my kids. I was afraid of a relationship not working and my kids getting attached more than I was afraid of me getting attached.

If anything were to destroy our bond right this second, I believe my babies would feel it the most. Though I can now say there isn't a damn thing in this world that could break us apart... I am very optimistic.. ( go figure :rolleyes: LOL )

Hang in there tuts!
 
JH1 said:
Broham...

Sorry.

All I can say is be glad they aren't YOUR kids. I know you may feel like they are, and that sucks.

My stupid wife was staying with some dood and had our 16 month old daughter with her. I was going fucking balistic. I was about ready to get a restriaining order against this guy on behalf of my daughter. I was so loosing my mind that by the time I started a real process to do something about it, the relationship was over.

Which brings up the next nightmare... who's next?
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wow... I'm sorry sugar
 
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Frisky said:
sweet tits.. bino... I wanna actually bitch slap you right now. LOL

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i would make an exception with you and your brood
but for the most part single peeps don't want partners with kids
just how it is
 
ForemanRules said:
Pathetic x a billion. Get over it, you lost and why the hell did you date a single mom??? Very bad choice. Grow up and be a man.
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dullboy says that you're not a nice person.

sorely lacking in character.

have a nice day weirdo.
 
Gambino said:
i would make an exception with you and your brood
but for the most part single peeps don't want partners with kids
just how it is
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I was kidding...

And I do know that, but I have nice tits... so you would have to make an acception. tee hee

Honestly, I never in a million years thought I would find someone to accept both me and my children. I accepted that the day I said I was done with my marriage and I was really content with it. Its a huge step for anyone to take on a responsibilty like that.
 
Dating or being involved with someone with children doesn't have to be so negative. Shesh. I agree completely that a parent should never bring their child around someone unless there is longevity there. That is something that both people should fully discuss and be in agreeance on prior to bringing that person around the child.

I don't think his question had anything to do with dating or getting involved with someone with children. It was how do you move on from something you love so much it hurts. And for those who would respond with "never allow yourself to get so close it hurts", might as well bail out before it starts. If you can't make yourself completely vulnerable...to the point of possible hurt....then you'll never find what you're REALLY looking for.
 
habitualhealth said:
And for those who would respond with "never allow yourself to get so close it hurts", might as well bail out before it starts. If you can't make yourself completely vulnerable...to the point of possible hurt....then you'll never find what you're REALLY looking for.
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I recently had a friend advise that I never again let someone in close enough that I couldn't just walk away without a second thought. I was like how can you live like that? I'd rather be alone if I am going to be so emotionally shut down.

I guess that's how he rolls... said he had an ex-wife cheat on him and he'd never let himself be in the position I am in now. :whatever:
 
JH1 said:
I recently had a friend advise that I never again let someone in close enough that I couldn't just walk away without a second thought. I was like how can you live like that? I'd rather be alone if I am going to be so emotionally shut down.

I guess that's how he rolls... said he had an ex-wife cheat on him and he'd never let himself be in the position I am in now. :whatever:
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dude that's a cheezy rip off of the movie Heat (de niro, kilmer, pacino)
tell your buddy to think of more original phrases
 
Gambino said:
dude that's a cheezy rip off of the movie Heat (de niro, kilmer, pacino)
tell your buddy to think of more original phrases
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Eh... my words... he phrased it differently. I had no intentions to use their words... I guess that wording ended up being better than the way he put it... which was a long winded explanation of never letting yourself care about someone even though you spend all your time with them.

You're way the fuck off topic bor.
 
JH1 said:
Eh... my words... he phrased it differently. I had no intentions to use their words... I guess that wording ended up being better than the way he put it... which was a long winded explanation of never letting yourself care about someone even though you spend all your time with them.

You're way the fuck off topic bor.
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we are the jaded generation
i have no intentions of getting married anytime soon
and i know a lot of people in my situation
good wages, good social life, why waste it with marriage?
 
JH1 said:
I recently had a friend advise that I never again let someone in close enough that I couldn't just walk away without a second thought. I was like how can you live like that? I'd rather be alone if I am going to be so emotionally shut down.

I guess that's how he rolls... said he had an ex-wife cheat on him and he'd never let himself be in the position I am in now. :whatever:
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Unfortunately, more often than not...the effect, fears, and insecurities of past relationships can sneak in on a present one. I think we've all had that happen.

I've done it. Let fears of my past relationships that hurt me so badly surface in a new relationship. What's crazy, they seem to be more prevalent when your heart becomes more attached to someone. You know, when vulnerability has snuck in on you unexpectedly in a new relationship.....to the point of knowing if you lost that person, it would devastate you. Almost more than the damage from the past relationship caused. :worried:

It's important to be with someone who understands the depths of you. So when this happens, you both know where your hearts lie. Together you can eliminate the fears, doubts, and insecurities at the onsight. I think when you find the right one...they both get it and understand.

Sucks to hear people like your budro rule out love because of something someone who is no longer in their life has done.

Love is crazy. Mo crazy when you find it.






Someone gimme a hug.
 
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Gambino said:
we are the jaded generation
i have no intentions of getting married anytime soon
and i know a lot of people in my situation
good wages, good social life, why waste it with marriage?
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Marriage is not always a waste


But I for one can say that its not about the ceramony, the ring, the dress, the flowers or the damn reception... Its all about how you really feel for that person. Would you feel the same if everything else faded away? Marriage to most now is non other than a social gathering, reception is fun, lots of drinking and dancing and what eludes to be a very happy moment ends up shattering in a few short months.

I'm not sure what the hell I am getting to here, so I'll just shut the hell up. LOL

Bino, would you marry me? We would make beautiful kids with visors. But with my genes, they would actually be able to dead lift. :qt:
 
Gambino said:
we are the jaded generation
i have no intentions of getting married anytime soon
and i know a lot of people in my situation
good wages, good social life, why waste it with marriage?
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Eh... good question. I did it because that was the life I wanted.... I wanted to settle down with my girl, raise our daughter. Not have to chase tail all the time... got sick of going out and being messed up, got sick of worrying about how to pull my next triple action bullshit... I really tortured myself thinking about more living more life more hoes more sexual exploits.

I loved her and could have been alot happier just laughing at all that and settling in with the girl that I truely loved and raised our daughter together. It COULD have been a good life.

Alas... it was a mirage.
 
Frisky said:
Bino, would you marry me? We would make beautiful kids with visors. But with my genes, they would actually be able to dead lift. :qt:
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i'll marry you once your kiddos are old enough to be outta the house
and we'd have to tie those tubes extra tight, I hate reproduction
 
Gambino said:
i'll marry you once your kiddos are old enough to be outta the house
and we'd have to tie those tubes extra tight, I hate reproduction
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Well.. both of them can walk, talk, and bring out the garbage. That means you can sit your fat ass down on the sofa and I can feed you gumbo and massage your feet.

ummmmmmm

sike...... ( gosh, I haven't said that word in forever, makes me feel like a school girl again )

btw, i am pretty well fixed right now, for another 7 years or so actually. and damn, I like it that way! Ok so... when's the damn wedding and where the hell is my ring?
 
Gambino said:
we are the jaded generation
i have no intentions of getting married anytime soon
and i know a lot of people in my situation
good wages, good social life, why waste it with marriage?
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:wavey: count me in that group
 
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
 
manny78 said:
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
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check back with me in ....... hmmmm about 3 years once you are also a father, divorced and no woman wants to give you the time of day because you have a child.

But, I still :heart: ya
 
manny78 said:
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
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I thought the same thing Manny.

Well hell, I got 2 emails about going offshore/international again. Let's hope it is not Iraq lmao.
 
manny78 said:
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
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This proves a point.....why it is such a blessing when you do find someone who adores your child and treats them as if they were their own.

Call me crazy...but when you're TRULY in love with someone...you love everything about them.

I imagine you would know before falling head over heels for them if they have a child. So you're in the clear. :D
 
I was going to say kill yourself, but I believe there is some better advice in here.


LOL @ the single mammy anger. If a guy doesn't want to date a woman with a kid, that's about as easy a way to see that things won't work out as you could ask for.
 
Best way to get over it is to change your way of thinking. Accept the things you can not change and change the things you can. Look at it like it is a new beginning. You never know who you are going to meet next. That is exciting. She may be your soul mate you never know. But at least you know one thing for sure. You get to have new relationship sex again when you meet your new girl.
 
manny78 said:
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
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single moms attack!


I agree with you though manny

the joy of having a kid is for it to have your genes.
also, you will have to deal with stuff like the real dad, the kid not respecting you since you aren't his/her real dad, the mom telling you you have no business telling HER kid what to do, supporting a kid that isn't yours, loss of freedom in the relationship from the beginning, etc etc etc etc.
 
mountain muscle said:
LOL, thanks guys.

Strange that a girl I really like, called me this morning. You ladies have some radar or what?
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What did she call you?
 
Frisky said:
check back with me in ....... hmmmm about 3 years once you are also a father, divorced and no woman wants to give you the time of day because you have a child.

But, I still :heart: ya
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LOL

"he deserves better"

As if another man's children mean that the relationship is somehow substandard.

I never had a beef with men that did not want to date me because I had children. Especially because I had four of them AND a crazy ex to boot.

I think one of the funniest emails I ever got was from a man who had four sons saying that he couldnt handle dating a woman with four daughters. That made sense.

In the 6+ years that I had been separated from my children's father they met only two men. The first guy I knew off and on for near 4 years and he BEGGED ME FOR MONTHS to meet my kids. He was a grandfather himself and knew what an important step that was for me. Needless to say that didnt work out. The next man my children met became my husband.

I can not see introducing a receiving line of men or women to your children. If the person you choose for a mate loves you then your children will undoubtedly love him/her.
 
alien amp pharm said:
What did she call you?
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She said" you're no 'aap' " I think I love you. lol.

Holy shit the offshore/international company wants me for the superintendant programme.
3 interviews and a meeting with Director.
Most of you don't know what that means. I could have my very own semi-sub rig. Cross your fingers for me. Game face time.
 
alien amp pharm said:
single moms attack!


I agree with you though manny

the joy of having a kid is for it to have your genes.
also, you will have to deal with stuff like the real dad, the kid not respecting you since you aren't his/her real dad, the mom telling you you have no business telling HER kid what to do, supporting a kid that isn't yours, loss of freedom in the relationship from the beginning, etc etc etc etc.
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You're dumber than I thought. :worried:


I'm with frisky...post up when your wife cheats on you leaving you a single father in the world to find love again, poophead.
 
CO B-man said:
Good luck!
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That would mean you and Scots have a dog sitting job half the year B. I will get a hot tub for the house to temp you both.

Looks like Denmark, Norway or Egypt. North Sea! holy shit. But, I am getting ahead of myself for now.

North Sea is the shit for drilling.
 
habitualhealth said:
You're dumber than I thought. :worried:


I'm with frisky...post up when your wife cheats on you leaving you a single father in the world to find love again, poophead.
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a. I am not getting married
b. Even if I did, my GF does not want kids
c. Neener neener neener
 
mountain muscle said:
That would mean you and Scots have a dog sitting job half the year B. I will get a hot tub for the house to temp you both.

Looks like Denmark, Norway or Egypt. North Sea! holy shit. But, I am getting ahead of myself for now.

North Sea is the shit for drilling.
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One second you were down and the next wheels of change are moving in. If you work in Denmark and Norway you will end up being a stoner. Egypt I would have to visit the new man made Islands they are building in Dubai. Crazy stuff there but really neat.
 
CO B-man said:
One second you were down and the next wheels of change are moving in. If you work in Denmark and Norway you will end up being a stoner. Egypt I would have to visit the new man made Islands they are building in Dubai. Crazy stuff there but really neat.
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LOL, funny how things change? The stoner thing is just not me. I went to Boulder and left it all there. For most of my work now I have hair tests, and it is not worth lighting up ever again. Beside I would most likely be in the middle of the cold, unforgiving ocean, working a spider web of collision courses. One bad hour could cost the lives of about 300 good men. That is a bad day out there.
I will always miss her and the kids. Time to move on though. After I get the kids some xmas presents, courtesy of santa Chris.
 
mountain muscle said:
I will always miss her and the kids. Time to move on though.
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I miss my neice and nephews from my marriage. they always told me I was their favorite Uncle. I used to let them spend the night eat junk food and play video games all night for as long as they could stay up. I had to let them go eventually so I know how that sucks. I miss watching them grow up and their Birthdays and all their accomplishments. But it is for the better to let them go and not confuse them.
 
Your K message
"This is great advice but what if you're not sure if it's over? When they say they need time and space? Is that pretty much reason to give up hope?"

Good point. No if there is hope then you have a chance. But if He is going to be away for half the year. probably best to say goodbye. Im no Dr Phil but I have experience in not letting go. It never did any good for me and dragged me down as I dwelled on it. Made me drink until I passed out for a long time so I have one hell of a tollerance for alcohol now. Or I should I made me drink like that because I lacked coping skills. much better now
 
CO B-man said:
I miss my neice and nephews from my marriage. they always told me I was their favorite Uncle. I used to let them spend the night eat junk food and play video games all night for as long as they could stay up. I had to let them go eventually so I know how that sucks. I miss watching them grow up and their Birthdays and all their accomplishments. But it is for the better to let them go and not confuse them.
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I have a GREAT nephew to spoil now. And 2 kids of my cousin's to spoil as well, he just moved here and I think I was assigned babysitting duty. Whatever the Ltcol and his wife want.

The hardest thing for me will be not being able to help them anymore and having to watch someone else try to, whether or not I agree.
 
CO B-man said:
Accept the things you can not change and change the things you can.
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Good advice.

My wife's family apparently has a better grip on this than I though. It pissed/pisses me off how everyone just sat around and didn't try to involve themselves when all this shit started and talk some sense into her... and now their like WTF? I can't beleive this is happening? NO SHIT. You sat around... now they do the same thing today. Sit around. Apparently they realize they cannot change my wife... I thought I could, even though I was the least likely to acheive any real change in her.

I should make a list of things that I cannot change and refer to it everytime I think about one of those items, just so I can tell myself to stop wasting time thinking about it.
 
JH1 said:
Good advice.

My wife's family apparently has a better grip on this than I though. It pissed/pisses me off how everyone just sat around and didn't try to involve themselves when all this shit started and talk some sense into her... and now their like WTF? I can't beleive this is happening? NO SHIT. You sat around... now they do the same thing today. Sit around. Apparently they realize they cannot change my wife... I thought I could, even though I was the least likely to acheive any real change in her.

I should make a list of things that I cannot change and refer to it everytime I think about one of those items, just so I can tell myself to stop wasting time thinking about it.
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JH, I understand.

Fuck it.

Let's go to Mexico and forget and have fun.
 
Just take some time or do like the country song......got a new girl friend....
always worked for me......plus makes you feel much......much better....atleast for awhile.
then find another......till.....you really find one you want
 
Frisky said:
check back with me in ....... hmmmm about 3 years once you are also a father, divorced and no woman wants to give you the time of day because you have a child.

But, I still :heart: ya
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I dont want kids at all. Unless I already my mansion, my Ferrari F430 and a private jet. If having a kid means none of these then fuck it. As I already said, I'm selfish :)
 
JH1 said:
Wingwoman? If you show up, you will be the woman... no wing needed.
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wtf? are you already moving on?
 
Frisky said:
wtf? are you already moving on?
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We're seriously hoping for heartbreak in your life so you can join us in mexico.

Sorry. I know it's sick to wish for the onslaught of disharmony in your life, but it would be immensly helpful to my current situation.

Just sayin.
 
JH1 said:
We're seriously hoping for heartbreak in your life so you can join us in mexico.

Sorry. I know it's sick to wish for the onslaught of disharmony in your life, but it would be immensly helpful to my current situation.

Just sayin.
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So I took all these words and put them in my interpreter.. and what I got from all that bullshit nonsense babble was, I want to take advantage of you if and when your boyfriend dumps you or vise versa... and that would immensly help me really.... really help me to furthur move on to bigger and better boobs... ahem.. I mean things.

So when are we going to mexico?
 
Frisky said:
So I took all these words and put them in my interpreter.. and what I got from all that bullshit nonsense babble was, I want to take advantage of you if and when your boyfriend dumps you or vise versa... and that would immensly help me really.... really help me to furthur move on to bigger and better boobs... ahem.. I mean things.

So when are we going to mexico?
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JH you are on your own, she has beat me up 2 times so far.
 
mountain muscle said:
JH you are on your own, she has beat me up 2 times so far.
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gosh I love dreams.... I am such a bad ass in dreams.

You wanna know what seriously screws up my EF persona? When I talk to that person on the phone or meet them. Then they are like... wtf... she not hard core, hell.. you can't even barely hear her, she sounds like the chick in driving miss daisy or something.

But ahhhhh.,.. that is all part of my scheme. That is how I lure them in and then Beat the living hell out of them because they are not expecting this sweet southern chick to be so violent...

wtf, wait...

never mind, I kinda got carried away... rough day at work



So ahem... Jh1, when are you and I going to mexico?
 
Frisky said:
gosh I love dreams.... I am such a bad ass in dreams.

You wanna know what seriously screws up my EF persona? When I talk to that person on the phone or meet them. Then they are like... wtf... she not hard core, hell.. you can't even barely hear her, she sounds like the chick in driving miss daisy or something.

But ahhhhh.,.. that is all part of my scheme. That is how I lure them in and then Beat the living hell out of them because they are not expecting this sweet southern chick to be so violent...

wtf, wait...

never mind, I kinda got carried away... rough day at work



So ahem... Jh1, when are you and I going to mexico?
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Damnit that is my Mexico drinking buddy.
 
mountain muscle said:
JH you are on your own, she has beat me up 2 times so far.
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I have that way about me... men leave by attrition... I never cockblock.. they just end up giving up...

I am left with mad bitches... :p



Friskers - I am waiting on word from HH on where we are all meeting up. I am ready to go.

Wait... I have my daugther tonight. Lets hit the road at first light.
 
JH1 said:
I have that way about me... men leave by attrition... I never cockblock.. they just end up giving up...

I am left with mad bitches... :p



Friskers - I am waiting on word from HH on where we are all meeting up. I am ready to go.

Wait... I have my daugther tonight. Lets hit the road at first light.
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The 'crack' of dawn tuts... But seriously, you believe you can handle both me and HH? Do we have to work shifts? Because I really don't like shift work, I hate shift work, and I hate waiting.
 
Frisky said:
The 'crack' of dawn tuts... But seriously, you believe you can handle both me and HH? Do we have to work shifts? Because I really don't like shift work, I hate shift work, and I hate waiting.
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How the fuck did Jh end up with my meatup girls? I want the latinas anyway.
 
mountain muscle said:
How the fuck did Jh end up with my meatup girls? I want the latinas anyway.
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It is a sympathy meet up... you see he is now the leader of the soppingwetvagina's and it is my duty to make sure every sopping wet vagina has some peace and also has a dry towel.
 
Frisky said:
It is a sympathy meet up... you see he is now the leader of the soppingwetvagina's and it is my duty to make sure every sopping wet vagina has some peace and also has a dry towel.
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You can't have my worm now.
 
Frisky said:
It is a sympathy meet up... you see he is now the leader of the soppingwetvagina's and it is my duty to make sure every sopping wet vagina has some peace and also has a dry towel.
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Sympathy? :worried:

I had the first symathy lay in my life a few weeks ago... guess I might as well get used to it.

As far as me being the leader now... I've always led this rag-tag group. However, this is as close to a 'MEMBER' I have ever been.
 
Frisky said:
gosh I love dreams.... I am such a bad ass in dreams.

You wanna know what seriously screws up my EF persona? When I talk to that person on the phone or meet them. Then they are like... wtf... she not hard core, hell.. you can't even barely hear her, she sounds like the chick in driving miss daisy or something.

So ahem... Jh1, when are you and I going to mexico?
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sooooo true.

first time i talked to her on the phone i was like WTFUG?!!! you actually sound like a lady instead of a man on the boards. :p

i :heart: you.
 
habitualhealth said:
You're dumber than I thought. :worried:


I'm with frisky...post up when your wife cheats on you leaving you a single father in the world to find love again, poophead.
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Naaaaaaaaaaaaaah he aint dumb. He is just from Tennessee. ;)

I think it's so funny how all of these boneheads go on and on about another man's children as if they were somehow "substandard" human beings just because that child didnt come from THEIR loins. LOL

Odd I dont see the men who have been married or who have children themselves having this same viewpoint. I wonder why that is.

And MM - good for you about the job offer. Hope it goes well.

As to how to get over someone - whether that person had children or not, you just do it. Focus on what positive experiences you gained from having known them and chalk it up to life experience. :")
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Naaaaaaaaaaaaaah he aint dumb. He is just from Tennessee. ;)

I think it's so funny how all of these boneheads go on and on about another man's children as if they were somehow "substandard" human beings just because that child didnt come from THEIR loins. LOL

Odd I dont see the men who have been married or who have children themselves having this same viewpoint. I wonder why that is.

And MM - good for you about the job offer. Hope it goes well.

As to how to get over someone - whether that person had children or not, you just do it. Focus on what positive experiences you gained from having known them and chalk it up to life experience. :")
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You said aint...you from tennessee too? :p

It's waaaaaaaayyyy easier to say "just do it"....than to actually just do it. :( There's got to be a healing process that takes place. Otherwise you end up bitter and ornery like stilleto. :worried:
 
habitualhealth said:
You said aint...you from tennessee too? :p

It's waaaaaaaayyyy easier to say "just do it"....than to actually just do it. :( There's got to be a healing process that takes place. Otherwise you end up bitter and ornery like stilleto. :worried:
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Nope - Ahm from Joisey... but dont hold it against me, not my fault my mom delivered me in the US. hehehehee

Most difficult things in life are easier said than done. But even the longest journey begins with the first step.... Take time to find out who YOU are. I think this is one of the best ways to move on. Focus on YOU.
 
manny78 said:
No way I'd touch a single mom. Why bother with these problems when you can have better ? Maybe I'm selfish but I just cant feel anything for a kid that doesnt share my blood.
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Manny I am shocked at you Mr.....Just because someone is mom does not mean she is dirt...Don't forget someone had to knock her up.... :qt:
 
Geez,

I need tons of help with this. My ex still lives with me and we're both moving to Denver at the same time. We've been spending almost every waking second together, she keeps saying that she's mentally separated from me, but her non verbal communication keeps saying otherwise. It wasnt my idea to split, so every mixed signal just mindfucks me more. Last night she wanted to just lay on the couch with me all night and watch DVDs but I told her no to try and make some weak attempt at guarding my heart against further sabatoge... needless to say, that doesnt help the heartache. I really wish we could either reconcile or just make a clean split but that's not going to happen until a couple weeks after the move.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
Geez,

I need tons of help with this. My ex still lives with me and we're both moving to Denver at the same time. We've been spending almost every waking second together, she keeps saying that she's mentally separated from me, but her non verbal communication keeps saying otherwise. It wasnt my idea to split, so every mixed signal just mindfucks me more. Last night she wanted to just lay on the couch with me all night and watch DVDs but I told her no to try and make some weak attempt at guarding my heart against further sabatoge... needless to say, that doesnt help the heartache. I really wish we could either reconcile or just make a clean split but that's not going to happen until a couple weeks after the move.
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uh, no offense, but either shit or get off the pot.

so, you are pretty much saying, you either want HER to make things better with you, or you want HER to dump you. you're happy just going along for the ride then.

you either need to get in her hostile little face, tell her its over, find your own place, and bring back some non-diseased girl who is better looking than she is, or you need to get back together with her.

giver her an ultimatum or get the fuck out. you should be the one in control here, not her.
 
habitualhealth said:
You said aint...you from tennessee too? :p

It's waaaaaaaayyyy easier to say "just do it"....than to actually just do it. :( There's got to be a healing process that takes place. Otherwise you end up bitter and ornery like stilleto. :worried:
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bitch, i ain't bitter.

bitch.


btw, you're a bitch.

i love you.










bitch.
 
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