I wouldn't know about the private parties but around here a lot of them rent limos and bar hop. They have stupid games they play with guys and it was a running joke with my friends that I needed to run and hide if a bachelorette party rolled into the bar. Basically, they always came straight to me and expect me to give their soon to be bride friend all kinds of carnal attention on the dance floor. I actually had a few claim to have wished they had met me before their soon to be husband. Of course, it's not much different than married "girls night out" for a lot of chicks; People wonder why I'm so cynical about marriage.Honestly, if I get married again there is no such thing as a girls or guys night out at a raunchy meat market; Nothing but bad things happen.