At what point do you question a new girlfriends past behavior?

[TxLonghorn]

Seriously, just want to know what you guys think.

Are you afraid that she used to be thin? Sorry, couldn't resist.

I think you need to watch Clerks. Some good info on past behavior of girlfriends and general sluttiness.

Aside from that, what are you bothered about? If you are in a 'new' relationship, there will still be plenty of things you really can't ask about. But, if you have been with her for a couple of months, ask away.

If you are seriously thinking about being with somebody for any length of time, you have to FEEL comfortable. And feelings aren't logical, and they aren't right or wrong. So don't apply logic to this. And this feeling is for everything: her family, her cat, her smell, her mannerisms, the number of cocks she has sucked, the number of coochies she's licked, etc.

But, the sooner you find out, the better. Because if you find yourself falling for a girl, and you later find out she is not someone you want to be associated with...that is trouble and pain.

Good luck.

 

[WODIN]

Serious...the past is just that...leave it there. You have now and that is it.

Now..if she sits you down and starts running an old porno she was the head liner in and says..."See that...that's how I want it baby!!!" then you need to take good notes.

 

[rushx79]

dont bother questioning her past. most bitches never change.

amen brother

 

[Champ]

What behavior would make you question what kind of person she is today based on what she did in the past? If she was a stripper and did drugs years ago what would you think about her now? Or if she was in Playboy and did a lot of nude photos in the past also? I know everyone has a past and people can change, but at what point do you say someone has an underlying problem now even though they arent doing what they used to do?

Im back.....remember ....attitudes and perspectives change...people dont! However they do grow up...

Behavior to suggest underlying problem

1) if she fucked you on the first date and says that
"she isnt like this"...or....."I never do this"

2)if she fights with you when you ask simple questions
calmly

3)all strippers have some underlying problem

If she was a stripper and did drugs years ago what would you think about her now?

These are the girls that every guy has a "I fucked a stripper story" about. Stay away. She was stripping for the money, attention and good time. Not becuase she had "a baby at home crying on the floor cause hes hungry".

Playboys are classier but just get fucked by celebrities usually. They can be good, but the same motive that drove them to playboy will drive them to another man behind your back.

GO WITH YOUR INSTICNCT....

 

[Night Fly]

When you decide to tell her about yours. If you don't....then don't worry about hers. People can change (in that area), and who knows...you may just be the one to make her do that...

Good luck!

 

[Slice of Peach2]

When you decide to tell her about yours. If you don't....then don't worry about hers. People can change (in that area), and who knows...you may just be the one to make her do that...

Good luck!

{{{{{{{{{{{Nightfly}}}}}}}}}}}

Amen, sista!!! Amen!!!

 

[Frackal]

I think you need to watch Clerks. Some good info on past behavior of girlfriends and general sluttiness.

"You sucked 37 dicks?!"

 

[KAYNE]

MY PAST WITH THE LADIES IS ONE THAT MOST WOMEN WOULD BE GLAD FOR THEIR MAN TO HAVE. SO I QUESTION IT ALMOST IMMEDIATELY SO I CAN MAKE MY DECISION ON WHAT I WANT TO DO.

KAYNE

 

[Natymike]

 

[-SD-]

Youve got a point, I cant question someone else unless I point the finger at my self.