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Are you shy?

um no.
 
i have been accused of being aloof though.
 
Sometimes but not usually.

I used to be until i got to college and figured out that I'd miss out on a lot if I didn't open up more.
 
I was at an event yesterday and someone told me that she was shy. I couldn't figure out why. When asked, she mentioned that she's afraid that people will reject her. I thought to myself, who the fuck cares?

So, I thought I'd post the question here.
 
Sometimes I just don't feel like being around other people. I don't come off as shy then. I apparently come off as very aloof. But sometimes I get dragged out with people I can't stand and I have time enjoying myself when I want to hit everyone there with my car.
 
at times, I used to be very shy but got over that in college, it depends on my mood bc I can be very quiet or very loud or inbetween
 
I just hate my husband's coworkers with an undying passion. But I go and try to be nice. Everyone's always drunk. The women are really fake with me. The guys all try to grope me. I hate it.
 
Raina said:
I just hate my husband's coworkers with an undying passion. But I go and try to be nice. Everyone's always drunk. The women are really fake with me. The guys all try to grope me. I hate it.
WTF? Where does your husband work to have people like that? If anyone tried anything at the company event, its lawsuit time in a big way.
 
Yeah but it's construction so it's kind of a different deal. Lots of stuff that goes on there wouldn't fly in an office setting.
 
It depends on the situation and the people I'm with. At work or business functions - No. But in other social situations, I can be shy. The right person can bring me out of my shell. However, if I am around people that aren't shy, then I will open up. Also, I'm more shy around women then men.
 
Raina said:
Same! They make me nervous. I've been backstabbed by so many females I have a really hard time trusting them. Most of them are mean to me until they know me a little.
Yep, women are evil bitches. Men just say Pfft..whatever.

;)
 
I've never had a guy friend or an ex boyfriend ever hurt me nearly as much as some of my "best girlfriends" have. I'm close to my sister, my sister in law, and a couple of other women. But 99% of the time I'm one of the boys. My husband and brother in law always say I'm one of the boys.
 
Raina said:
Same! They make me nervous. I've been backstabbed by so many females I have a really hard time trusting them. Most of them are mean to me until they know me a little.

OMG, me too. I have very unique opinions about things. So, they make me nervous too. Also, I was a tomboy and I hung out with my Dad a lot when I was young. So, I'm not comfortable being part of some "sorority" circle and dealing with all things that comes with it (does that make sense?)

I don't have a problem trusting them. I have a hard time finding females that are similar to me.
 
Yes.

Why? That's a silly question. Who knows... I'm shy because I'm introverted.
 
buffer1 said:
Klu blush,I find that hard to beleive with hammy around,lol
lol
i know.....earlier he was making fun of me talking, and it makes me nervous when ppl make fun of my accent so it gets worse :worried:

but if hed been making fun of someone else i woulda been dying laughing lol
 
yes Im shy sometimes,depends on who it is,I guess I just dont have the best self confidence,and mild social anxiety kicks my ass sometimes,so without a drink or two,to calm the nerves Im not all that ouytgoing unless the people make me feel comfortable
 
SoKlueles said:
it makes me nervous when ppl make fun of my accent so it gets worse :worried:
What kind of accent?

I have always been shy due to parental & peer self esteem issues when I was a kid. Now I tend to be initially shy, but I open up a lot faster. Read a lot of self help books & realized everyone else is just as fucked up as I am, therefore I'm normal. It's the ones who don't feel they're fucked up that really need help, LOL
 
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I probably come across as shy because I tend to not talk very much unless I know people pretty well. I am also very introverted so I almost never talk about myself so a lot of times I just stand in the corner and don't talk.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
EnderJE said:
And if so, why?
im shy around everyone.

most people are all shakey and weird around girls, but me its around people who are new to me...boy or girl until i get used to you im shy and scared as hell

once im close enough to someone to be able to tell them to shut the fuck up and still be tight with them, i stop being shy
 
RADAR said:
Yes! at times i blush also!


RADAR
i blush all the time, and my eyes get real red...although the redness might be alergies, im not entirely sure since sometimes they get red and itch for no reason
 
Never actually verbally spoke long enough to find out. I'd lean towards yes.
Why? Cuz I'm deep down, trying to hide the emotional drive of dragging that person in front of me to a dark reach of the woods, crucifing them to the ground, and eatting them alive.
 
SoKlueles said:
im a shy person
and i blush sooo easy and i hate it
ditto
Mr. dB said:
Yes.

Why? That's a silly question. Who knows... I'm shy because I'm introverted.
me too probably, whatever that means.

although iv been feeling lonely as shit lately


wnt2bBeast said:
im a little shy
but im also a quiet person..if i dont have anything to say i dont rather than make up so bullshit small talk :)
exactly the same with me.

Scotsman said:
I probably come across as shy because I tend to not talk very much unless I know people pretty well. I am also very introverted so I almost never talk about myself so a lot of times I just stand in the corner and don't talk.

Cheers,
Scotsman

exactly the same here.


____wow this is the first thread where i didnt reply to each post individually
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
Never actually verbally spoke long enough to find out. I'd lean towards yes.
Why? Cuz I'm deep down, trying to hide the emotional drive of dragging that person in front of me to a dark reach of the woods, crucifing them to the ground, and eatting them alive.
Man, that's great. You slay me!
Just joking man....................wait................noooooooo.....................
'silence reigns except for the viscous sound of a body settling & purging life'
 
Officially diagnosed with social anxiety here. It's funny how I've stripped in front of a crowd of women on several occasions and have been in Playgirl, yet when it comes to actually "talking" to a woman, I'm at a loss for words.
 
hidngod said:
Man, that's great. You slay me!
Just joking man....................wait................noooooooo.....................
'silence reigns except for the viscous sound of a body settling & purging life'
:rose:
 
I used to be one shy little bitch. Now typically people think I talk too much or am perfectly talkative. It has a lot to do with confidence though. I didn't used to be too confident way back when, but now I basically love myself. I'm pretty fantastic.
 
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