Are you happily single?

[visions]

I LOVE being single yea the variety is good, but that's not even really what its about for me. I'm have goals and aspirations to be the man I have set out to be, and I wanna get to that place, financially, physically, and mentally by myself without the influence of any significant other who always whether you like it or not plays a significant role in the way you develop as a person.

Now if I do find a girl who I feel is nothing but a positive influence in my life and supports me for who I am and where I'm going then she will be my girl without me even knowing it or having to label it

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Just recently, my now-deceased girlfriend rammed a knife through her skull, and when I was performing her autopsy, I noticed she had attached a note to the blade of the knife. Upon reading it, I realized that she killed herself because of me. I was flattered.

That's what she got for falling in love.

 

[katz]

I am single. I'm so busy w/nursing school and working that I have little time left for anything else.

 

[mattcanning99]

im single and couldnt be happier about it...im too young and immature to get involved with anyone in a serious way...i'll wait at least a few years before i get involved in any serious committment...i have other things to worry about right now, getting my degree, building my life to come...dont need / want a relationship right now.

 

[Pebcak]

Was happily single for the last 5 weeks. That was until I opened the mail box and pulled out 2 wedding invitations. Ugh, I hate weddings to begin with, now I have to figure out who to take. Ick.

Pebcak

 

[wlibbe]

I really miss being able to do whatever I wanted and whoever I wanted.

 

[toga22]

Hmmmm...this is a tough question.

I am happy with my life and the achievements I have made. I am a very strong and stubborn person, and have learned to overcome my worst fears and have also "picked myself up" after the hardest falls, without help from anyone. I am happy with the life I have lived so far, but "while on my journey" I have had many mountains to climb....and so far I have had always found the determination inside of myself to "see the other side."

But there are times that I miss the wisdom, strength, and comfort that a significant other provides. I miss the feeling of making someone smile; the "glazed" over look of lust and happiness that is in the eyes of those that are in love; or the total feeling of calmness, safety, and happiness that overcomes you when laying in each others arms.

Unfortunately, right now, however, I feel that with the hours I work, I would be unable to commit the time and devotion a significant other would deserve. And with that I say, that I guess the saying "everything always has a price", is true.......

~toga

 

[Austin316]

No I am not, but I guess Im inbetween like Pixie...its complicated..Im not happy single right now, I def do not want to be, but Im also not gonna go out looking cuz Im not ready for that emotionally yet

 

[the nature boy]

wow toga, that was very bittersweet.

 

[PinK233]

Yes being single has its advantages at times....I get to concentrate on my goals without having my head in the clouds....but there are times when you want someone to share your dreams with...I'm in no rush to get into a relationship because I want it to be with someone special....and I won't give in until I truly feel in my heart that he is the person for me...so until then I guess I don't mind being single b/c I see it as waiting for something good to come along, all this time alone is well worth it....