Are both of your parents still alive?

[delts2]

Lost my father six years ago, my mom is still in good health at sixty. Losing my father was quite tramatic, nothing like watching someone you love die from pneumonia. And I can't imagine what it will be like to see my mom go. Enjoy every moment people, we all think we've got longer than we actually do. Work hard, play hard, juice hard.........and lift hard......lol.


delts2

 

[TxCollegeguy]

for now they both are. Don't really talk much with my father. He's a bit to screwy for me to deal with at this point in my life. I'm not sure if I will ever be able to freely communicate with him

 

[MP5]

Both of mine are still kicking. My dad wuit smoking 2 years ago and my mom quit 2 months ago so maybe they will be around for awhile longer they are both 55.

 

[KrazyK]

Mine both passed away in 1996, my dad in October, and my mom 2 weeks before Christmas. That shit totally had me fucked up for a while.

 

[theoak01]

fortunatly yes,but my grandparents are getting up there and i try not to think of it but its bound to come and i really love them,that i wont handle well

 

[delts2]

Tx, you really should try to make amends with your dad. The relationship my father and I had when I was little wasn't good really. He was a military hardass type, and he was constantly "dogging" me. In a way, alot of it was good, because he did teach me how to defend myself. But he was never good at showing his love. Too macho for that. But as I grew, we buried the hatchet on alot of that crap......especially once I moved out......and on. But I look back now, and there are more things I wished I had said to him, and of course I can't now.

delts2

 

[delts2]

KrazyK, man I'm sorry to hear that bro. What happened? If you care to share it, if not I understand. That's unreal, and I'm sure was nearly unbearable.

delts2

 

[TxCollegeguy]

I have to bring up all the issues with my father, cause he can't seem to get them out himself. He usually just sits on the other end of the phone and doesn't say a word. I still love my dad cause without him I wouldn't be here and I tell him that, and he usually responds back but I just don't respect him for his inability to learn to communicate with those that care for him and for the very bad choices he has made in recent months and over the past year

 

[KrazyK]

KrazyK, man I'm sorry to hear that bro. What happened? If you care to share it, if not I understand. That's unreal, and I'm sure was nearly unbearable.

delts2

My dad died in his sleep, and after that my mom just let herself go, she had breast cancer and hid it from everyone so she could take care of my dad. By the time we found out about it, it was too late and there was nothing they could do for her. It was rough, the only thing that kept me going was knowing that they are both together again in a better place.

 

[theoak01]

your a strong man krazyk,that would be hard shit to handle,stay strong

 

[delts2]

Tx, I hear what you're sayin' bro. KrazyK, your mom sounded like one helluva lady to take care of your father and just give of herself like that.

delts2

 

[bgdaddysmooth]

I lost my mom about 2 years ago. Mother fucking cancer. My dad's had to fight cancer twice already, and 3 out of my 4 grandparents died from/have cancer. Jeez, can't wait until I get it!

 

[The_Ghost]

Both parents are still around, both having battled cancer and my dad heart trouble.

Almost lost my Dad 2 months ago, I thank god that he survived. It was the worst few days of my life.


To those that have lost parents, I feel for you.

 

[WODIN]

Nope.... gone is gone.

 

[vixenbabe]

I am happy to say that I have both parents .

 

[HelmsmaN]

No, my fatrher passed away in January. Here is the post about it.


I am fighting back the tears as I write this.

My father had a massive stroke a week ago. He passed away yesterday 20 minutes after a beautiful sunset. The sky was still pink. He was surrounded by his wife, remaining children, and three nieces. I sat with him during his final hours, touching him, talking to him, and reminiscing with one of my cousins, who was like a sister to him. He went very peacefully. I did not feel his last breath, but after a period of no breathing rhythms I checked for his pulse, and announced to my family that he had finally passed. He was a great man that touched many lives. His legacy lives on. Services are being planned for some time next week. His ashes will be spread on the Pacific Ocean.

Please take a moment to consider the ones you love. You never know when will be the last time that you will be able to hear their voice or touch their warm hand. Give them a call on the phone a.s.a.p. and tell them that you love them, or- give them a special hug and tell them that you love them when you or they arrive home.

Than you for your consideration and prayers.

HelmsmaN

 

[Kakdiesel]

I am happy to say that I have both parents .

Me too! wow we have SOO much in common...wanna sleep together?? LOL J/k J/K/j/k j/k j/k j/k j/k

 

[MP5]

Kartchick, yeah it sucks when your dad calls, I am either still sleeping or you and I are 69ing like we normally do in the morning. Fucking phone...

 

[kat]

Old man died from cancer in 1994. Mom is 59, started working out and dieting after battling breast canser and so far has won.
What is meant to be , will be. Deal with it, take the good and learn from the bad. Move on and become a better person because of your experiences, not despite them.

I can say with all certainty though. Make amends with those you love but cannot live with. The guilt later is not worth it.

 

[BuffRedheadWoman]

Yes they are!

 

[The Varnsen]

Parents and grandparents...