the issue you are seeing is women who have relied on attractivenes to get them whatever they are/have, and finally realized it was for how they look, not who they are.
I think the issue at hand is confidence. If an attractive woman is confident in her personna she doesn't need some fool to remind her how beautiful she is - she is always sexy, no matter what. On the other if she has low self-esteem, self-confidence she's an easy target for players - she craves attention, you make her chase you, spill some attention her way and she will fuck you senseless. I love hot girls that are needy - easy lay, just don't hang around too long with them.
Date raped? lol You don`t need that to be insecure.
Yeah I guess "used for sex". Put down. Flaws pointed out all the time. EVERYONE has them. Abusive relationships. Broken home. Divorce. A million things will bring down your self esteem.
Chicks are still human. It does`nt always matter how high their cheekbones are.
I love being the relationship I'm in but it's reassuring to know that I spent a few years being 100% independant and I did fine. I don't have to have someone to baby me and take care of me. Sure I like a hug after a long day and having someone to split bills with, but I'm a tough cookie and can handle whatever life throws at me....with or without a significant other.
Sort of based off what Matt said too-- sure it's nice to get compliments etc on my appearance but what's MUCH better is when I'm approached at school and asked to study with people or tutor them. I think most people underestimate attractive females.
I think that Raina said it right...
There are a lot of "attractive" women out there that have never been in a position when they had to make it on there own. So when the situation does occur they are lost.
Being independent for a few years, and successfully making it through tough situations on your own does give a person more confidence, and also makes them appreciate the life they have worked hard to get.