no, i find it easier to just tell them the truth. when i was separated from my wife i wenton a few dates and actually began dating 2 women separatly of course. one for 3 months the other for about 4 months. they all knew i was still married but i was living in an apartment. the only problem they had was my roomate was female but after a little while they understood. juggling women is hard. i did it once when i was 16 and never did it again. you have to keep coming up with excuses of why you cant spend time with one when your with the other. plus i felt bad. so i never did it again.