Anyone go through a divorce?

[Lumberg]

Sorry to hear about it dude. As I always say, it's always a sad day when divorce happens cos I didn't promise in front of God and our families to love, honor, and obey expecting it to turn out this way. But it happens and you gotta move on. Get a lawyer, get everything in writing. And learn from the experience!

 

[stevesmi]

I was divorced once too. it turned out okay in the end though we split everything 50/50

I got the house, car, money, jewelry and boat
and she got to keep the kids!

 

[Goldenrod12]

Very sorry to hear it man know its gotta be ruff. Women are evil dawg anythig that can bleed for 7 days and not die you know is evil. But like some said focus on your kid and spend time with him show him lots of love. Hope everything gets better and goes your way

 

[wootoom]

Was the hardest 4 years of my life...kids were involved and it took a lot out of me..it gets better!

 

[ppgfreak]

It's definitely hard to go through. I think I was lucky in mine. She moved out of state with in a month, so it wasn't as hard for me. No kids involved. It was a really rough month. But after that I just got a second job to stay busy. Started training like a ANIMAL!

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[Iwrkout]

Ugh, divorces suck. It'll be hard for the first six months to a year. My ex was very bitter even though he was the one that wanted the divorce initially. Still is bitter but thank God he lives 9 hours away. Just like someone else here said, focus on the gym or your hobbies and your career. Try not to jump immediately into dating, itll be a disaster. Instead take care of yourself first and be there for the kid. It's harder on them in a divorce. Eventually you'll feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you realize life goes on. Enjoy being single and not having to answer to anyone!

 

[jnevin]

Seriously though, every day gets better. It'll only be natural to be hurt and pissed beyond belief at times, but don't let that consume you. Be positive for yourself and your kid and when you look back you'll be happy you were. When your wife starts dating and has some dipshit around your kid, just take it in stride. It's hard to do at first, but you have to realize you'll always be dad and you'll never be replaced. <that one was big for me. Sorry you're going through this.

 

[SpyWizard]

Nice copy paste!

nice contribution right...

 

[pdaddyII]

Ugh, divorces suck. It'll be hard for the first six months to a year. My ex was very bitter even though he was the one that wanted the divorce initially. Still is bitter but thank God he lives 9 hours away. Just like someone else here said, focus on the gym or your hobbies and your career. Try not to jump immediately into dating, itll be a disaster. Instead take care of yourself first and be there for the kid. It's harder on them in a divorce. Eventually you'll feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you realize life goes on. Enjoy being single and not having to answer to anyone!

You should celebrate your freedom by posting noodz

 

[wootoom]

Wait a minute..who the fuck is this?