It's on the peninsula between San Francisco and San Jose,
but much closer to San Jose/Cupertino.
Pluses: Great climate, never hot, never cold, beautiful forests, athletic people, abundant foreign restraunts
short drive from Pacific Ocean, Sant Cruz,San Francisco
medium drive North to Redwoods, East to mountains, South to Monterrey
one of the most beautiful places to live in the world!
Minuses: VERY expensive housing, one of the most expensive housing markets anywhere.
Ask for a 30% raise minimum.
You might consider going there for several years just to experience it, and not look at it as "forever".