Anybody Else have a friend like this

[theoak01]

this girl i know and have liked for a while is really down,she is puking up everything she eat is very depressed and spends 4 hours in the gym doing cardio a day,she wants her ex back who hit her when she wouldnt let him touch her how he wanted and she claims he treated her well,what can i do to help her,i hate seeing friends like this

 

[Freak Show]

If he hit her, I smell a serious ASS KICKIN comin his way, don't YOU?!!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes people can be so blinded by what they call, "love" that only time can heal things. Hopefully, when the smoke clears she will realize how stupid it is for her to want him back. We all act a little irrational at times, especially during relationships. Just be there for her. Most of all LISTEN. Don't say anything just listen. If she starts talkin crazy about how good he was then remind her of all the bad stuff.

 

[Jimsbbc]

i've known girls like that before. They never listen to anything. They will keep going back until they see the light themselves. It sucks and is very frustrating.

 

[theoak01]

if i lived where she did he would be finished,i see her maybe every three months,im talking to her right now and trying to get her to realize how bad he was but she said that one time he went to finger her and she said no and he did it hard and hurt her and she blames herself

 

[Freak Show]

Your not a psychologist Oak! Or are you? Either way, remember, JUST LISTEN. You may not have the answers. Voice your opinion calmly and rationally. Hopefully, this will keep her calm and keep her listening to you when you have something to say instead of blowing you off.

 

[theoak01]

im no psychologist but i think alot like one,mainly due to experiences in life,but im thinking logically and telling it how it is,she is making excuses for him

 

[theoak01]

she is really hung up on him,he got her self esteem way down,he told her that he dont want her cuz she didnt give him what he wants,2 he said she was fat,she was a size 6,and three he claim she put him through alot,

 

[Kryp2o]

Beat her ex b/f to a bloody pulp.

 

[theoak01]

like i said i dont know him since she lives in a diff town and she wont tell me who he is

 

[MP5]

She is at a very vulnerable stage right now. Best thing to do would be to grab a 12 pack of Labatt's Blue, a movie and head over to her house and do some serious pipe work on her. Fragile chicks are a gimme in the ass department. Glad I could help.