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You told me that I was helping your mother for my own advantage (I had nothing to gain but being happy to have helped her, the rest of your family, and you during a difficult time). (I even was kind to your thirsty and dirty hammy - because you didn't clean his cage for months and weren't giving him any water). I dropped my plans to go with you to the airport. I even allowed you to stay in my house after she passed just because you were lonely.
Your coffee impulse was definitely poor timing, unnecessary, and messed up the rest of the day and our friendship. I was feeling stomach sick as I explained (my arm meds -for the central nervous system- sometimes cause this in the morning). This is why I was running late, as I explained, but I needed you with me after and instead of going to the doctor with you, you flew off for coffee with my preparation for the sonogram!
You were being unnecessarily demanding and selfish. You often act like an irresponsible child who is unable to take care of himself (I won't go into the details on this one as I am sure you have heard it before from your relatives). You easily could have gotten coffee in the city once I went to my appointment.
You ignored my needs and caused a lot of drama with your tirade. It was like you turned into an evil monster and just yelled whatever irrational insults you could think of. . . . You said that I am a liar and I lied about the times of my appointment. Only I would know the times of my appointments, as I made them, the first was initially 10:30 but I changed it on the train to 11:30, but you told me that my appointments were at 10:45 and 11:15 --- you are not my appointment secretary.
You even told me that I lied about the address of the lab! I have been to that lab several times, I know the address, and if you didn't get it right it was because you were selfishly running to get coffee rather than helping me get prepped and going there with me. You didn't write it down but you did get there rather quickly.
You even were acting weird about my bag, first you left it at the lab, I told you I couldn't carry it, and you told me too bad, I'd have to, even though this would present a hardship for me!! Then you picked it up again from the lab, without informing me, and then dropped it at my house again- without informing me!!
I was a wonderful friend to you when you were needy and often depressed (and not seeking regular help from a psychiatrist who could monitor your mood, energy level, and medication) this was after we stopped dating and before your mom got sick again. Needing a nap after work everyday is not normal, nor is your energy level, or self-absorbtion, and destructive behavior (taking gym drugs, not cleaning up after yourself, smoking and drinking). Not getting appropriate weekly talk therapy with a psychologist and monthly appointments with a psychopharmacologist to better medicate you are also clear signs of your irresponsibility.
I was kind during all of that time, despite your lack of honesty in addressing the severity of your deprssion. And, your not clearly explaining to your family that I broke up with you months before! I reached my limit on being used when you said and did mean things to me and did not apologize. I am only an ex-girlfriend, and am not in a love relationship with you. I spoke to you and e-mailed you regularly, visited you, and totally went out of my way despite how much it hurt my arms because you and your family wanted my help.
I realize now that you do not have compassion for me, nor my arms, schoolwork, my own needs, whether it is a bleeding uterus that has already had 2 surgeries, my feelings, goals, or dreams.
Clearly you can't understand my arm injury so you have decided that I "use my arms to get away with things." It is a rare and complicated injury, but if you cared you would have read my medical records rather than pretending that you are a Board Certified Neurologist. Someone of my age and education doesn't get Workers Comp. uncontested and also Social Security unless they have a very severe problem, in my case what is called "a permanent and total physical disability". This is another sign of your selfishness and ignorance when it comes to trusting me and listening to my needs.
I would like to get my stuff back from your house (I only left them there to help out with your mom again). They are in a purple NIKE bag in your downstairs closet under the stairs). Will you please either mail it or arrange to have someone bring it up for me?? Please let me know when I can expect it and how it will be getting here.
Thanks, Victoria
You told me that I was helping your mother for my own advantage (I had nothing to gain but being happy to have helped her, the rest of your family, and you during a difficult time). (I even was kind to your thirsty and dirty hammy - because you didn't clean his cage for months and weren't giving him any water). I dropped my plans to go with you to the airport. I even allowed you to stay in my house after she passed just because you were lonely.
Your coffee impulse was definitely poor timing, unnecessary, and messed up the rest of the day and our friendship. I was feeling stomach sick as I explained (my arm meds -for the central nervous system- sometimes cause this in the morning). This is why I was running late, as I explained, but I needed you with me after and instead of going to the doctor with you, you flew off for coffee with my preparation for the sonogram!
You were being unnecessarily demanding and selfish. You often act like an irresponsible child who is unable to take care of himself (I won't go into the details on this one as I am sure you have heard it before from your relatives). You easily could have gotten coffee in the city once I went to my appointment.
You ignored my needs and caused a lot of drama with your tirade. It was like you turned into an evil monster and just yelled whatever irrational insults you could think of. . . . You said that I am a liar and I lied about the times of my appointment. Only I would know the times of my appointments, as I made them, the first was initially 10:30 but I changed it on the train to 11:30, but you told me that my appointments were at 10:45 and 11:15 --- you are not my appointment secretary.
You even told me that I lied about the address of the lab! I have been to that lab several times, I know the address, and if you didn't get it right it was because you were selfishly running to get coffee rather than helping me get prepped and going there with me. You didn't write it down but you did get there rather quickly.
You even were acting weird about my bag, first you left it at the lab, I told you I couldn't carry it, and you told me too bad, I'd have to, even though this would present a hardship for me!! Then you picked it up again from the lab, without informing me, and then dropped it at my house again- without informing me!!
I was a wonderful friend to you when you were needy and often depressed (and not seeking regular help from a psychiatrist who could monitor your mood, energy level, and medication) this was after we stopped dating and before your mom got sick again. Needing a nap after work everyday is not normal, nor is your energy level, or self-absorbtion, and destructive behavior (taking gym drugs, not cleaning up after yourself, smoking and drinking). Not getting appropriate weekly talk therapy with a psychologist and monthly appointments with a psychopharmacologist to better medicate you are also clear signs of your irresponsibility.
I was kind during all of that time, despite your lack of honesty in addressing the severity of your deprssion. And, your not clearly explaining to your family that I broke up with you months before! I reached my limit on being used when you said and did mean things to me and did not apologize. I am only an ex-girlfriend, and am not in a love relationship with you. I spoke to you and e-mailed you regularly, visited you, and totally went out of my way despite how much it hurt my arms because you and your family wanted my help.
I realize now that you do not have compassion for me, nor my arms, schoolwork, my own needs, whether it is a bleeding uterus that has already had 2 surgeries, my feelings, goals, or dreams.
Clearly you can't understand my arm injury so you have decided that I "use my arms to get away with things." It is a rare and complicated injury, but if you cared you would have read my medical records rather than pretending that you are a Board Certified Neurologist. Someone of my age and education doesn't get Workers Comp. uncontested and also Social Security unless they have a very severe problem, in my case what is called "a permanent and total physical disability". This is another sign of your selfishness and ignorance when it comes to trusting me and listening to my needs.
I would like to get my stuff back from your house (I only left them there to help out with your mom again). They are in a purple NIKE bag in your downstairs closet under the stairs). Will you please either mail it or arrange to have someone bring it up for me?? Please let me know when I can expect it and how it will be getting here.
Thanks, Victoria
