am i getting signals here?? (girl stuff)

[Yarg!]

this girl- old friend from way back. we ran into each other again, so i start talking . shes going on and on about previous relationships, school, home life, etc etc. then she goes i wish guys would understand me more, etc etc- at this point shes talking more than i am. i get around to asking her if she was single and she goes, no but im hating it. my boyfriend hasnt called in days, hes always aaway, *sigh. so im like how long have u guys been going out? shes like "5 months.. but i think this is a waste". she starts asking if im single and stuff too. i tell her yeah. she seems really interested in my ambitions and my working out, my guitar playing etc etc. she laughs at everything i say. and she keeps going on and on about how her boyfriend neglects her. does she want me to make a move or something? i dont get it. shes also mentioned she thinks im good looking she wanted to hang out. does she want to hook up? should i move in? eh ?eh?

 

[Lestat]

Re: am i getting signals here??

stay away bro.. if she cheats on her BF to get with you.. she'll cheat on you down the road.

if you are just in it for the sex, go for it.

 

[slat1]

If you are hanging out flat our ask her what ever you want! Things get real interesting in those situations!

 

[Lestat]

funny how everyone in this thread is blacke dou

 

[seizer]

If you are hanging out flat our ask her what ever you want! Things get real interesting in those situations!

LOL

My old man always tells me to do that. He's like, "Be straight up with the ho, tell her you dont want to talk, you just, bang bang bang"

 

[jack sparrow]

Any time a woman downplays her man like that, the door of opportunity is off its hinges bro. Its almost too easy.

 

[n0th1ng]

She wants your cawk.

 

[monstermmf]

Don't date the bitch, I'll tell ya that much from experience.. Use it as a couple of fuck buddy sessions and get out while your ahead!

 

[mrhoon]

Any time a woman downplays her man like that, the door of opportunity is off its hinges bro. Its almost too easy.

She wants your cawk.

As they say...Nuff said.

 

[Whiskey]

Get'r done Willy!!

Whiskey

 

[awittyusername]

Has anyone ever met a woman that didn't bad mouth their bf or husband?? My friend and I were talking aobut this the other day.

1. She is just looking for attention and for you to say "You deserve better....I would never do that to you" (same shit you pussys say here)

2. She is instinctively looking to move up the ladder.

Either way....When she starts bad mouthing him...Say "thats not to bad"...and "Maybe he does this because you show him no respect and bad mouth him."

 

[HiDnGoD]

i dont get it. shes also mentioned she thinks im good looking she wanted to hang out. does she want to hook up? should i move in? eh ?eh?

Meeting for coffee once or twice would be OK, but that should be it.
I would probably tell her, "If you & your B.F. ever break up, I'd like to get together, But I won't come between ya."
It's not real macho like some of the guys on here would act, but it's the right thing to do.

 

[Island Son]

definitely looking for attention
but even if she's attracted doesn't mean she'll do anything about it
depends on why you broke up but if you haven't stayed in contact, keep the ex the ex and stay away from the drama

 

[ziggyziggy]

Re: am i getting signals here??

stay away bro.. if she cheats on her BF to get with you.. she'll cheat on you down the road.

if you are just in it for the sex, go for it.

Waht he said.

Zig

 

[Daisy_Girl]

Has anyone ever met a woman that didn't bad mouth their bf or husband??

I don't bad mouth mine. He is the best, and I tell him all the time.

But I agree with everyone here - she is opening the the door for you to make your move. But it all depends on if you are into getting involved with such a messed up situation.

 

[Yarg!]

yes! a female's opinion! its goooooooooold. i will make my move! thanks.

 

[Island Son]

 

[nycgirl]

yes! a female's opinion! its goooooooooold. i will make my move! thanks.

Since you value a female's opinion, here is another one. Making a move on a woman that is playing victim is too easy and lame. Also, if the signals are not clear, she may just be using you as a "friend" for talk only (i.e., don't look for something that isn't there).

Are there no single & available women in your area? Do you just want sex? Do you want to date her again? If drama gets you off, then go for it. Otherwise, leave it alone. If you are still interested, wait until this relationship is officially "over" (meaning not the day she calls you after dumping him - give it time).

 

[spongebob]

a couple of things to try.

first pull her hair and see how she acts.

second, take her comb.

if she giggles on the first one and starts to reach for her comb while rubbing on you then your in dude.

 

[Yarg!]

Since you value a female's opinion, here is another one. Making a move on a woman that is playing victim is too easy and lame. Also, if the signals are not clear, she may just be using you as a "friend" for talk only (i.e., don't look for something that isn't there).

Are there no single & available women in your area? Do you just want sex? Do you want to date her again? If drama gets you off, then go for it. Otherwise, leave it alone. If you are still interested, wait until this relationship is officially "over" (meaning not the day she calls you after dumping him - give it time).

1 out of 2 is good enough for me!

 

[HiDnGoD]

a couple of things to try.
First pull her hair and see how she acts.
second, take her comb.
if she giggles on the first one and starts to reach for her comb while rubbing on you then your in dude.

LOL, foreplay is different everywhere you go.

 

[awittyusername]

yes! a female's opinion! its goooooooooold. i will make my move! thanks.

Bro, never take relationship advice from a woman. Boys back me up

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Bro, never take relationship advice from a woman. Boys back me up

Back up near the bottom-

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=406752&highlight=subconscious+women

 

[Island Son]

Bro, never take relationship advice from a woman. Boys back me up

and a close second is "never believe her friend is really pretty"

 

[GrandMaster]

Has anyone ever met a woman that didn't bad mouth their bf or husband?? My friend and I were talking aobut this the other day.

1. She is just looking for attention and for you to say "You deserve better....I would never do that to you" (same shit you pussys say here)

2. She is instinctively looking to move up the ladder.

Either way....When she starts bad mouthing him...Say "thats not to bad"...and "Maybe he does this because you show him no respect and bad mouth him."

__________________

Meeting for coffee once or twice would be OK, but that should be it.
I would probably tell her, "If you & your B.F. ever break up, I'd like to get together, But I won't come between ya."
It's not real macho like some of the guys on here would act, but it's the right thing to do.

agreed!

 

[bigmann245]

its a tough situation. im a sucker for woman who are hurt. not using them i just get sucked in with helping them. then i become dr phil. "hows that working for ya?" but i find a lot of woman appreciate when i help them and not try and get in their pants. if it happens then great but like daisy said, it tends to be a messy situation. most of the woman i helped through were insecure about themselves. i should start charging them huh? lol... good luck bro.

 

[GrandMaster]

there can never be peace.
i dont understand y this happens. cant ppl break up and then go their own ways???
rather then going and fucking around, and then breaking up??
like wtf, i cant stand that stupid shit
my advice is to set her straight if she wants your cock, make her re-assure you that her and her b/f arent together.
but maybe thats not your style. its all about dignity and respect for others.

or some would disagree and say its all about a peice of ass, which i agree, but not someone elses peice of ass

 

[Forge]

this girl- old friend from way back. we ran into each other again, so i start talking ...
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she laughs at everything i say. and she keeps going on and on about how her boyfriend neglects her. does she want me to make a move or something? i dont get it. shes also mentioned she thinks im good looking she wanted to hang out. does she want to hook up? should i move in? eh ?eh?

Sounds like she is looking for someone to make her feel better about herself, as her current BF isn't stirring her emotions enough. If you just want a sex friend, go for it. If you want more than that, make sure she has dumped her BF first, make her commit to being with you. Her guy could be a jerk loser, or she might just be the "get bored fast" type and looking for something new, in which case you may be the next guy she leaves for something else. Good luck.