Arabian said:
If you find a lady that you are interested in ,how shoud you proceed.
1st date: flowers , dinner let her kiss you and thank her for the evening?
Should you call them the next day or what?
Take it from there to keep mystery romance in the equation leading up to the big night (first sexual encounter)?
ok, let me break it down for you.
its pretty obvious why you are encountering the women you have been encountering in the past.
you're setting a horrible tone. the dinners, the flowers.
That's not a good first date IMHO, ever. why? Because you set the tone that you're a provider first, not a lover. It's a magnet for gold diggers. i've never had a good outcome when taking out a girl to dinner on the first date. they always try to hold back the punani and make me a relationship type/their bitch. no matter what. get them sexually interested in you first, relationship can develop from there if you wish to. You lose all your power doing this
2nd of all, flowers on a first date are not genuine. it's a subtle manipulation that most men don't even realize. They think they're being "nice", but they're not. you're trying to win her approval via gifts. make her earn it.
take a step back...do something fun and silly on a first date, or just meet up for drinks somewhere. get to know that person without breaking the bank.
dinner can come later
far as calling, it doesn't really matter. maybe you send them a little text or whatever. as long as you're not up there ass. if you had a genuinely good time, theres no problem with calling the next day. but it had to have been real, otherwise you're blowing smoke up their ass and look like a needy vag
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