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strongsmartsexy
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Depends on who said it. If it's someone who matters in your life, take it as a compliment. If it isn't WHY CARE?
supersizeme
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i've used those exact words in conjunction as a euphemism for "raging bitch"
is it coming from someone who is the complete opposite of aggressive and outspoken?
is it coming from someone who is the complete opposite of aggressive and outspoken?
supersizeme said:
hmmm..good point....i'm sure people have used similar words to describe me as an asshole. but, i wouldn't have it any other way. if you know your shit, people eventually realize it, and getting along isn't such a problem...they might even come around to appreciating that you are like that
Robert Jan
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Robert Jan
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You know its complimentary and you just wanted to mention you were called this
It spoken to a salesman by the builder I share office space with and it was in relationship to getting the office hardwired with a T1 line with two wireless networks.
The salesman had no idea as to what he was doing and tried to sell something to us that I knew would not work with out building's infrastructure. I had been challenging him on it since December and finally I said - OK go ahead try it your way first.
Two techs later they could get it to work.
Still wouldn't do it my way.
Added a booster and still could get it to work.
Two months of doing it their way and failing they decided to try what I had to say.
3 hours later they had it running.
The salesman finally said - I guess you were right.
Then turned to the builder and says - "she's a real piece work"
The builder said, "yeah, she's aggressive and outspoken."
The salesman had no idea as to what he was doing and tried to sell something to us that I knew would not work with out building's infrastructure. I had been challenging him on it since December and finally I said - OK go ahead try it your way first.
Two techs later they could get it to work.
Still wouldn't do it my way.
Added a booster and still could get it to work.
Two months of doing it their way and failing they decided to try what I had to say.
3 hours later they had it running.
The salesman finally said - I guess you were right.
Then turned to the builder and says - "she's a real piece work"
The builder said, "yeah, she's aggressive and outspoken."
GoldenDelicious
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only in bed. 
the way it was said is a euphemism for "loud, opinionated bitch who happens to be right this time so we cant slag her"
the way it was said is a euphemism for "loud, opinionated bitch who happens to be right this time so we cant slag her"
jackangel said:
It can't be too bad if the builder asks me to help manage his jobs b/c his project manager can't get the subs to do thier jobs in a timely manner.
People pay well to get their job done right the first time. You can't do what I do well by being a mousy, sweet wallflower - you have to speak up to get things done, especially if you're a female working with dozens of men.
So, I'm going to take it as a compliment.
It's not my fault the salesmen doesn't know about what he sells. It is my problem though if I suggest a service to someone and I don't have the resources to get the job done correctly.
PHATchik
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I think you are a very strong female who knows how to get the job done. If that makes you aggressive and outspoken, so be it. Personally, I don't think it really fit in the context of the verbal exchange, but I don't think it was meant as an insult. You have to be aggressive and outspoken if you want to get anywhere in the business world.
GoldenDelicious said:only in bed.
the way it was said is a euphemism for "loud, opinionated bitch who happens to be right this time so we cant slag her"
HAHAHA
Perhaps.
But if you know me well - you also know if I don't know what I'm talking about I keep my mouth closed and ask someone how has a clue.
So, when I fight for something to be done right - I make sure I am right when I tell someone that they way won't work.
Strong men with leadship abilities are considered successful.
Strong women with leadership abilities are just considered lucky bitches.
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King of Pop
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velvett said:and outspoken.
Do you think I should take that comment in complimentary or an insulting way.
I always thought it was Dominatrix and talks dirty. At least that's what those bullwhip scars that you cracked on my ass and the foul language are saying to me.
tee hee jamon
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GoldenDelicious
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velvett said:
ah well we can hope that the tone of their comment was wry rather than spiteful
i disagree with your last comment though; i consider women with leadership abilities attractive
nothing worse than a personality as limp as spaghetti
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jenscats5
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if you were a man you would have been described as knowledgeable.....
they just couldn't stand it that you were right.......
they just couldn't stand it that you were right.......
GoldenDelicious said:ah well we can hope that the tone of their comment was wry rather than spiteful
i disagree with your last comment though; i consider women with leadership abilities attractive
lol
I just did what hate most - a blanket statement.
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