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A screwed up relationship.

big4life

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I would like others to give their opinion on this relationship. It involves a husband and wife who work at the same company as me. During the past 18 months it was known by almost everyone, husband included, that she was seeing another married man who worked with her. This man's wife, we'll call her wife#2, caught them together and sent her husband packing. Meanwhile wife#1 went back to her husband. She also kept seeing the other guy on the side. During the last four months she has moved out of her husband's house, into the boyfriend's place, back to the husband for another try, back to the boyfriend, and now she is back with her husband.

People at work talk about how screwed up she is, but I look at the whole group as screwed up. Taking someone back once is one thing, but to have them leave and come back three times inside of six months is something else.

As for background, they are all in their 40's and the husband is in his 50's. There are no kids involved.

So what is your opinion on this relationship.

Before you ask, yes I do work at a place worse than a soap opera, but it does provide a look into people's dark side.
 
after your wife has been tagged repeatedly by another shmoe, I'd say the marriage is done for, at least in spirit...
 
The kicker in this whole mess, is that the other man was one of the husband's best friends.

At first I felt bad for the husband and wife because at one time we were good friends, but now I have lost respect for both of them.
 
That sounds like a lot of drama but I would not call it a relationship. I don't see how you could do that to someone you love.
 
why u lose respect for husband 1? he's getting screwed hard!

he should move all his funds now, divorce the bitch, screw his 'friend' over ANY way he can and then marry a thai bride, or hook up with someone



that bitch is so not worth it....i REALLY stress about spending the rest of my life with a grade A ho-bag or neurotic menstrual bleed like that
 
danielson said:
that bitch is so not worth it....i REALLY stress about spending the rest of my life with a grade A ho-bag or neurotic menstrual bleed like that

everyone falls for the neurotic/ho-bag at least once...once is all you need :evil:
 
danielson said:
why u lose respect for husband 1? he's getting screwed hard!

he should move all his funds now, divorce the bitch, screw his 'friend' over ANY way he can and then marry a thai bride, or hook up with someone


I lost respect for him because he keeps taking her back. Love might be blind, but when you've been hit with a baseball bat a couple times you should learn your lesson.
 
big4life said:
I lost respect for him because he keeps taking her back. Love might be blind, but when you've been hit with a baseball bat a couple times you should learn your lesson.
Trust me.... I've seen it before - don't criticise your former friend until you've tried to help him out of his mess - that's what friends are for IMHO.
 
Mandinka2 said:
Trust me.... I've seen it before - don't criticise your former friend until you've tried to help him out of his mess - that's what friends are for IMHO.


No thanks, I got involved in this mess when it first started almost two years ago and I got burned. Now I am letting them make fools out of each other. And they are doing a great job of it. :insane:
 
All trust has been broken. Perhaps I could take someone back after they strayed once. PERHAPS. It's doubtful though. However, to repeatedly take someone back since she can't make up her mind, is rediculous. She's got it made. She can go back and forth, depending on what her mood is, and they will both welcome her back with open arms. I don't know what is more pathetic...the situation or the two men.
 
That's fucked up on all sides. The husband who keeps taking his straying wife back sounds like he enabling her behavior as with an alcoholic.....
 
starfish said:
That sounds like a lot of drama but I would not call it a relationship. I don't see how you could do that to someone you love.


It isn't really a relationship anymore. I'm not sure what you would call it though.
 
PHATchik said:
All trust has been broken. Perhaps I could take someone back after they strayed once. PERHAPS. It's doubtful though. However, to repeatedly take someone back since she can't make up her mind, is rediculous. She's got it made. She can go back and forth, depending on what her mood is, and they will both welcome her back with open arms. I don't know what is more pathetic...the situation or the two men.



the two men.....they are allowing this shit to happen.
 
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