A ? for the married.

[biggersbetter]

I'm assuming this was directed towards me, so please allow me to retort. First of all 99% of marriages are a total joke. Lying, infidelity, and leading a secret life behind your spouse's back are all too common. How many guys do you know that cheat on their wives? And if a married/commited guy is so fugly that he's incapable of getting laid elsewhere, that doesn't count as monogomy in my book. Most guys are only as faithful as their options. Just because I don't want to settle down with someone that I need to hide my bad habits from doesn't mean I'm incapable of finding someone to be with long term. I simply refuse to pretend that I'm someone that I'm not for anyone. Why should I end up a part of our rising 60% divorce rate statistic? Unlike most guys, if I have to hide anything, or if I can't act a certain way when my woman is around, I'd rather be sentenced to a life of loneliness and internet porn. Some guys are so insecure they'll completely become a different person to keep their steady supply of ass around. Ex. "Honey, I'm natural, not like those steeeer-oid gorillas on espn. I love you and the kids too much to put my health on the line. Can I massage your back???" 20 minutes later this guy's at work banging his secretary on his desk-before working out he slams 1500mgs of sustanon. IMNSHO that's not a marriage-it's a legally binding contract that will affect you until your children are 18 and nothing more. I'm not knocking anybody for living their life with a social mask on 24/7. I just think it's difficult to remain in a honest, healthy, relationship with someone if you're going to hide your gear use from them for the sake of keeping the peace. Who knows? Maybe your old lady is banging the mailman and she hides it from you for the sake of keeping the peace in your relationship? Betrayal comes in many forms-a needle in your ass? or another guy's cock in your old lady's ass? Lying is lying. Lying by omission is lying too. I'm sure there are girls out there that won't care about your roid use-but it's been my experience that after a few yrs the lifestyle will inevitably become an issue.

Bravo to that...How can you argue with Honesty?

good luck bro...if tyou want it i'msure that you'll find it.
BB

 

[genetic freak]

Maybe the thread should have been called "How many of us take steroids and are honest with our wives/husbands?"

 

[LT3]

bros i think, and this is just my opinion, if you dont tell ure girl/wife about your gear use, or anything else for that reason, then you're making a mistake. because like BC said lying is lying, regardless of what. another thing is that, if you tell your wife/girl about it and she flips out and leaves you, then you were with the wrong girl to begin with. personally i have no problem telling her, and the people around me, fam and close friends, accept it. so i dont have to worry about "o whos gonna find out". IMO if you have to hide your gear in the house of you your wife and kids then you got some problems. ones business is ones businsess, and this is just my opinion but like BC said before lying is lying, whether its gear or sex.

 

[temetrepo]

I respect everyone's opinion here, from the married to the single. I have to say that in my case my wife was aware and informed about it. There were no lies, as a matter of fact we both learned a lot from this experience. Personally I can not consieve why a person would marry and yet go around their wife's back and do things which at the end will prove deadly for the marriage.

If this is your approach to marriage, then something is wrong. I guess is a matter of principles and priorities....


Regards.

 

[LT3]

I respect everyone's opinion here, from the married to the single. I have to say that in my case my wife was aware and informed about it. There were no lies, as a matter of fact we both learned a lot from this experience. Personally I can not consieve why a person would marry and yet go around their wife's back and do things which at the end will prove deadly for the marriage.

If this is your approach to marriage, then something is wrong. I guess is a matter of principles and priorities....


Regards.

I agree with all points. Remember bros gear is as bad as you make it out to be. i speak about the subject as if its taking protein powder and thats how the people around me see it. because i make it normal, they perceive it as normal. But if you go around hiding it taking it secretly, then what are people gonna think. Negative, because of the things that you are associating with it. most of the time the girl or fam or friends wont get mad at the thing that you are hiding, instead the get mad at the fact that you are hiding it.

 

[bicepts101]

i told my girl from day one what i do. we now live together and she does most of my injections. she get mad when i dont let her do it cause she thinks she does it better.

 

[LT3]

i told my girl from day one what i do. we now live together and she does most of my injections. she get mad when i dont let her do it cause she thinks she does it better.

LOL, ye its weird eh. every girl that i know wants to do my injections. i guess they think it strengthens the relationsship or something. LOL.

 

[Ulter]

All my wives and gf's have learned all about AS because I school them. It's the only way to exist together.

 

[bicepts101]

LOL, ye its weird eh. every girl that i know wants to do my injections. i guess they think it strengthens the relationsship or something. LOL.

LOL yeah maybe they feel its some kind of bonding idk. she is getting good though. the only injects i do now are quads and bis

 

[big49ersfan]

k i have been on one cycle a bulker put on like 2olbs my misses kinda knew but as i was eating everything in sight 34/ 7 plus i had a tub of superdrol and creo on the tab next to my bed etc and so she kinda believed me that i was still natural

i dont know if she really did but didnt push too hard

im extremely interested in this post as i dont know if i should or shouldnt tell my misses (girl friend not wife but of 3 years).

im doing a nother cyle after the new year a cutter it may be obvious she may pretend not to realise if you get me

basically i decided not to tell her i regret it and i now i feel like if i do i do tell her i have lied all ready so what the hell il carry on lying

im confused should i or should i tell her.

My mum will never ever know nuff sad my mates and my brother (he injects me) they say i should watch my health but that is it. but my misses is deeply agaist drugs or anyknid i tried to broach the subject with her she started to cry and sya i would thing a lot less of you if you did

what should i do??