A fair, thoughtful, objective conclusion about Stained's fiance

[Dougly]

I welcome suggestions from the board if you all have any.

I wouldn't want to be that far from my children. What if they called you out of the blue saying 'Mommy I need to see you,' or whatever. I have no doubt you'd go, but damn that's a long way. Anyway, best of luck!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Not tring to judge here but.........

I would never, never, never, never, never, ever leave my child and move to another country. Never. Never. Never.

I don't know any of your circumstances, but they must be horrible and dire for you to be leaving your children and moving to another country.

My husbands mother left him and it f**ked him up good. God bless and watch over your children.

Trust me - if your choices were stay and have your children destroyed or leave and let them have a life, you would make that choice in a heartbeat.

I will NEVER EVER drag my children through court and custody battles again. NEVER. You don't know what it is like for them. When I first told my girls that I was going to stop fighting their father for them their first words were, "But mommy, if you give us to daddy you know he will never let us see you again."

I replied, "First of all your daddy loves you and would never do that. Secondly, why should we stress over something like that if it hasn't even happened?"

THEY IMMEDIATELY SAID, "WE WON'T LET THAT HAPPEN MOMMY."

I can go with a clear consciense. They are well cared for and even though I will NEVER have to send their father a dime in support I will STILL SEND MONEY TO SUPPORT THEM. They are my children and I will do whatever necessary to insure that they have everything they need. If they ever decide they want to live with me, then I will be ready for them, but until they are old enough to decide that I WILL NOT LET THEM CHOOSE. I CHOSE FOR THEM - AND THEY WILL STAY WITH THEIR FATHER. PERIOD.

I WILL NEVER EVER LET MY GIRLS GO IN FRONT OF A COURT OR SPEAK TO A SOCIAL WORKER OR FEEL THAT THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LOVE ON OF US OR THE OTHER.

Never...

Everyone can say whatever the fuck they want, but like you said Voodoo Lady - if there was any other way....

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

You know... Ranger and Bikinimom both use CAPS the same way.... I wonder...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bmom.. to be honest, just round up the kids and take them with you. Just haul ass out of here and bring them with you.

There is nothing more important than kids. I am not trying to be a smart ass.. not trying to be mean but really... just ask them if they want to go, if they say yes.. then bring them. Just sneak out in the middle of the night. If not.. or if they want to stay. You will have to deal with this asshole husband just to be with them. That might suck, but would be better than living day after day across the planet earth without seeing them grow... or seeing the pictures they draw.. or whatever it is your kids are into.

that is my advice... that is what I would do. Might sound far fetched.. but I am being for real.

I can't do that.

You don't know how much this hurts me. I feel like every day a little piece of me dies because I was the one who cut their finger nails, I was the one who made their halloween costumes, I was the one who taught them right from wrong, I was the one who was sleep deprived for 10 years nursing, potty-training, teething.... IT WAS ME.

He will never let me go. Don't you see. I can't let my girls suffer like this anymore.

I will NEVER take them from their father. Regardless of how hard he is making things on me, he loves them and does care for them. And if I take them from their father THEY WOULD GROW TO HATE ME.

No, one day it is my sincere hope that they will want to live with me again... If that day comes, then I will be the happiest woman alive.... And if it does not, then I will STILL BE HAPPY because I know that my children will not be caught in hell.

 

[notoriousQQ]

interesting.

too much reality though.

 

[slobberknocker]

WTF! You thought that was funny! FUNCTION slobberknocker (Flame){var Flame=Flame+"?";Say(Flame); if (slobberknocker (Answer)==IS_Midget cock sucker) {Say("Fuck Off");return got_small dick;} else {Say("Your pathetic and say very bad man and etc.");return IS_NOTOK;

And another thing Artificial Intelligence is smarter than you!

Dcup

You're right, I can't compete with that.

 

[Fonz]

I don't think I've laughed so hard in my life........lol

Props to Poink, Frackal, Dballer, and SV.

Fonz

 

[out_at_sea]

Guys, stop twisting the knife...she will never give up!Unfortunately!

 

[Bikini Mod]

You know... Ranger and Bikinimom both use CAPS the same way.... I wonder...

LOL

 

[Bikini Mod]

I don't think I've laughed so hard in my life........lol

Props to Pink, Frackal, Dballer, and SV.

Fonz

It's true... you guys have REALLY turned this into a situation where I can step back and laugh a little. Thank you.

I'll try to remember this whole silly scenario when things get HAIRY for me!