3some ?

[KBgrl]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

 

[wyst]

KBGirl, you dawg!

LOL

I'd have to say, it's a sticky situation. It certainly could be a disaster. But on the other hand, you might just want to take them at their word. It just depends on how much risk you're willing to take. I'd take it slow and let them make the first move. Since you're all out in the open, maybe tell them that?

Wyst

 

[KBgrl]

who said we were talking about me wyst..

thx !! i know...it could get "sticky" .... well the two people have already informed the third person that they want this to happen!! making the first move is really not the issue....its going to be more like this huge event rather than "unsure" evening. thing is... person numero 3 doesnt want to ruin a freindship OR their potential future as a couple. fuckin people gotta make shit so complicated, lol.

 

[KBgrl]

it could all turn out great or really akward!?!?!?

ok sooo people who have been there and done that speak up!

 

[wyst]

Me! The couple broke up. I was the third person. I ended up going out with the first person for about a year. The second person was really mad, obviously, but the whole thing had been her idea in the first place. It turned out that the first person had serious issues about her relationship with the second person. She, it turns out, was one of those people who can't break up with someone until they have a new person lined up. As you can imagine, history repeats itself ad nauseum, and she hooked up with someone else before we broke up. It was messy. But it was also my first serious relationship with another woman, and I got to experience a hell of a lot in a really short time. First 3some, first bi-experience etc. I don't regret it now, but it was pretty intense and crazy for a while...

Wyst

 

[KBgrl]

OUCH!! thx for input baby!

something to think i about i guess...

hey... it was fun when it happened i bet eh!?!?

 

[tripleV]

GO FOR IT GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KBgrl]

KB, if you have to ask yer prolly not ready for it. YOU have to be able to handle the outcome........so basically you make it a disaster or not.

BTW-me n azia are goin to colorado in 1 days for a lil shindig of the same sort.

hey pauly whats up kid!?!? im just looking out for all the parties here.... dont wont to ruin a friendship and shit ya know.... its not like i dont give a shit... im close with one of the peeps involved . maybe it would be different if nobody knew each other or gave a shit about each other ya know. !?!? hummm..

hey...have a good time and take good care of my baby azia!

 

[wyst]

OUCH!! thx for input baby!

something to think i about i guess...

hey... it was fun when it happened i bet eh!?!?

it was fun and I don't regret it at all. I learned a lot. But I'm not sure I'd do it again, given the opportunity. But hey, for people who can make it work, that's cool with me!

 

[Metal Gear]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

You got to make sure to tell your mate that there will be no emotions involved. Eventhough sometimes it might look like it, it just out of passion. Make him feel comfortable by being with her first and then the other person should get involved into it slowly so he get a first shot at you. Believe me I have plenty of experience when it comes to 3some. Check out my post about 3somes in ths forum.

 

[KBgrl]

ok i must have phrased this question wrong... to clarify and stop beating around the bush.... im the 3rd person... i know i know...big surprise!! im not part of the "ex couple"...

ok so just going to take it as it comes. we all talked tonight and its gettin warm....... i think its going to be awesome!! sooooooooo we'll see.



p.s. if "ur" reading this....i just wanted to hear what some of the eliters thought..... to u baby!

 

[Pamela]

I think some people could handle it and some could not.

It all depends on how emotionally close you are to these people.
If you wanted to try it, I would say try it with 2 others you don't know
very well. And see how you feel about it then.

BTW I've never done it, but this is how I would go about it.

Good Luck~~~ But have fun...~

 

[Bigsatan13]

KB, if you have to ask yer prolly not ready for it. YOU have to be able to handle the outcome........so basically you make it a disaster or not.

BTW-me n azia are goin to colorado in 1 days for a lil shindig of the same sort.

Great advice Pauly, you hit it right on the head! BTW, have fun in Colorado!

 

[AziaReign]

hey pauly whats up kid!?!? im just looking out for all the parties here.... dont wont to ruin a friendship and shit ya know.... its not like i dont give a shit... im close with one of the peeps involved . maybe it would be different if nobody knew each other or gave a shit about each other ya know. !?!? hummm..

hey...have a good time and take good care of my baby azia!

Hello my sweetheart! You know you're always welcome to hang with Pauly and I!!!

 

[Formula]

I don't think I could ever do it with someone I know that well. I rather do it with someone (girl) I really don't give 2 shits about. Like a one time thing and U never see that person again. Try to keep it as safe as possible so no one gets hurt.

 

[NY Muscle]

3 somes are done best when the guy and girl are just fuck buddys, friends with benefits, etc. i refuse to believe a loving couple can do this without having at least some fraction of jealousy even if its so minute..i mean what if soemones girl is sukcing soem guys 13inch dick and screams how good it is and shit and how its the biggest/best, etc cock she ever had, yeah thatll make her man feel adequate...sitatuons like that or other ones similar can happen, but im sure the bf or gf keeps it inside and wont tell the other as not to ruin the moment or situation, they just suck it up.



kb...if this ex couple are just fuck buddies it shouldnt me a problem on their end, but ur the 3rd wheel so you are the one who has to be careful.

check ur pm kbgirl

 

[NY Muscle]

now that i think about this again, this could be nothign but a disaster.

personally im gonna guess KB you have some sorta feelings for this guy? however strong they may be, and if you never fooled around with him them do this, they may get stronger...or if you have slept together already, then it wont be that bad but IF you already have feelings they could get stronger..and then if this couple gets back together again, you may be upset, then who knows if he cheats on her with you...i mean you are always gonna be the *other girl* so make sure you are strongf enought o accept that.
and if the guy whom is invlolved in the 3 some is reading this (im assuming hes on elite by that little hint you dropped before) and if you feel im fucking up yoru game plan, pm me man, and ill shut up!! lol i wouldnt wanna fuck your game man!!

 

[FlexBailey]

I think some people could handle it and some could not.

It all depends on how emotionally close you are to these people.
If you wanted to try it, I would say try it with 2 others you don't know
very well. And see how you feel about it then.



Wow, is this the slut central forum?

 

[KBgrl]

NY.. ur soooo fuckin funny!! ur not ruining my game..dont worry. its all good honey. i dont have feelings for the guy at all and im friends with the girl. i barely know the guy which is the way i would like to keep it ya know. i dont want to get to know him too well b/c i figure i know her already so i dont want to get too friendly with him. i would actually like to keep my distance from him as much as i can. the thing is we are all in SUCH different places in our life right now. there is NO CHANCE IN HELL a relationship could ever form b/w anyone other than the ex couple. it just would never happen. i cant get inot further explanation but im positive that nothing would ever come out of it other than that.

Azia... thanks for the offer sexy... keep in touch

NYM.. ur PM was AWESOME!! i dont know if im stupid or what but i neevr thought of that stuff before. im going to do just what u said. i feel so much more comfortable now!! thx baby!

 

[NY Muscle]

NY.. ur soooo fuckin funny!! ur not ruining my game..dont worry. its all good honey. i dont have feelings for the guy at all and im friends with the girl. i barely know the guy which is the way i would like to keep it ya know. i dont want to get to know him too well b/c i figure i know her already so i dont want to get too friendly with him. i would actually like to keep my distance from him as much as i can. the thing is we are all in SUCH different places in our life right now. there is NO CHANCE IN HELL a relationship could ever form b/w anyone other than the ex couple. it just would never happen. i cant get inot further explanation but im positive that nothing would ever come out of it other than that.

Azia... thanks for the offer sexy... keep in touch

NYM.. ur PM was AWESOME!! i dont know if im stupid or what but i neevr thought of that stuff before. im going to do just what u said. i feel so much more comfortable now!! thx baby!

my bad...you said soemthing like *if ur reading this* and put 2 kiss faces, so i assume the guy reads eltite fitness...my bad....what did u mean by that??

and you are welcome on the pm advice...trust me i known some people to have had a 3 some and it fucked them up.

my ex gf told me a story of how her best friends (a female) wanted to surprise her fiance as a wedding present and have my ex gf (this was years b4 i knew her) join them for a 3 some...the bride to be was so pysched and turned on about the idea..it was ALL her idea.....so he gets home, the 2 girls proceed to give him head at the same time....the girl tells my ex to wait 15min while the couple go upstairs and get each other hot, and for her to just walk in the room and join them....well my ex gf walked upstairs to hear the girl SCREAMING at him *how could u let her do that, how could you do that to me*..., so sghe left them....... youd be surprised what could happen....talking about a 3 some and doing it are COMPLETELY different.

 

[Metal Gear]

I agree...

talking and doing it are 2 different things. Me and my girl started out as fuck buddies and then got serious so she kind of accepted me for how I was before we were serious. You just have to set the ground rules beforehand.

 

[SoCAmuscle]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

This will be a disaster! Mark my words...

 

[SteelWeaver]

KB - go for it. Just go for it. Hell, what have you got to lose? You're young and beautiful - just go have fun!

You only live once, you know.

 

[SteelWeaver]

But a few ground rules/action monitors, set while you're all still sober and dry, wouldn't go astray.

 

[Formula]

A 3 some is best done with people you don't know and don't give a shit about. NO B/F or G/F needs to be involved it'll just fuck up your relationship.

 

[Raina]

I think that would have the potential to get messy. The only 3somes I've had were with all girls. It was SO great. We were all best friends. We'd get manicures done, borrow each others' clothes, and fuck around. I'm not sure if anything is much more heavenly than being with 2 women. It's funny but none of us got jealous about the others hooking up with guys-- but if another girl came into the picture, we would get pretty catty.

I couldn't handle having a 3some with my bf and someone else. I know myself well enough to know that I'd flip out if someone touched him. I've always told him that I didn't care if he messed around with guys but that mostly pisses him off because he wouldn't do that (I think that's kind of closed minded but it's his call). If I was single I would be up for a male/female 3some but only if the other couple I weren't close. It would have to be me as person #3 because I couldn't handle sharing my bf. I suppose it's not an issue though as I'm single and don't cheat.

If you think that there's any chance that things will get messy emotionally and you'll end up hurt or somehow damaging a relationship that means something to you, it's not worth it IMO. Friendships and romantic relationships hold infinitely more value to me than any sexual adventure ever will....though those adventures can be damn fun....

 

[KBgrl]

Steel. thx baby!! you KNOW i would wait for u but i dont know how long i can wait sexy ..... we WILL have our day im sure

Raina... how are u doll?? i havent talked to u in a while honey. drop me a PM when u get a minute and let me know how ur doing with "everything"
p.s thx for the adivce!

 

[Hengst]

threesomes are tricky and loaded with potential land mines. I found they only work if all three partners do NOT have any emotional ties to each other.......sex as sport. The moment one partner has "feelings" for another, regardless of what is said prior, then the whole experience can be hurtful to some one. And that, my friend, is not the goal.

 

[PhiKap_09]

i guess it depends on how the couple feel about allowing another party to enter their circle. if the couple plans to get back together in the future, they may want to consider if they will be comfortable w/doing it and if this would bring them closer to one another or make them happy.

 

[w8lfter]

KB hunny all I gotta say is .....MEEOOWWW! ...if things don't pan out for ya'll, you know you can always join us

 

[Pitboss]

KB hunny all I gotta say is .....MEEOOWWW! ...if things don't pan out for ya'll, you know you can always join us

W8.... purring away are we

 

[w8lfter]

W8.... purring away are we

Damn, I thought I was pretty much hidden over here Leave it to you to find my single post in like 4 months! LMAO

 

[Pitboss]

Damn, I thought I was pretty much hidden over here Leave it to you to find my single post in like 4 months! LMAO

Would you expect anything less from me

 

[superman71]

dman i just want a threesome my girlfriend is ready and willing just cant seem to find another girl,tried some adult sites but things never seem to work out anyone know of any good site to meet someone on ,my girl really wants to try another women and i want to try too!!!!

 

[guards]

I have found threesomes to always turn into a pain in the ass!!!!


Beware at all costs!!!


IMO the only way for a 3some to work is if it is between 3 complete strangers that will never come into contact with each other again.....than emotions are taken OUT of the equation.


good luck

 

[KBgrl]

KB hunny all I gotta say is .....MEEOOWWW! ...if things don't pan out for ya'll, you know you can always join us

omg...what a GREAT surprise to see uuuuuuu here!! damn... i may just take u up on that offer. u know how i feel about u

 

[rainman]

Well your kinda ambiguous as to whether this 3some is two guys and a girl or two girls and a guy. But I can say as a guy If it were two other girls I would definetly take the chance. I think the situation has full potential to be a sticky one but I'd do it because thats a once in a lifetime kinda chance.

 

[KBgrl]

Well your kinda ambiguous as to whether this 3some is two guys and a girl or two girls and a guy. But I can say as a guy If it were two other girls I would definetly take the chance. I think the situation has full potential to be a sticky one but I'd do it because thats a once in a lifetime kinda chance.

its 2grls and a guy