Anatomically north of where the lips meet is the clitoral hood, kind of the female equivalent of the male foreskin, which covers the clitoris. The degree to which the clitoris is covered will vary from woman to woman, but with arousal, the clit will swell with blood and poke out.
Take your finger out of her pussy (ideally covered with her own natural lubrication) while fingering her, and run it up to just past where the lips meet. Gently rub the little bump you find there. She'll be calling you the Clit Commander.
Don't sweat your lack of experience, even guys who've been around the block can't find it sometimes.
Anatomically north of where the lips meet is the clitoral hood, kind of the female equivalent of the male foreskin, which covers the clitoris. The degree to which the clitoris is covered will vary from woman to woman, but with arousal, the clit will swell with blood and poke out.
Take your finger out of her pussy (ideally covered with her own natural lubrication) while fingering her, and run it up to just past where the lips meet. Gently rub the little bump you find there. She'll be calling you the Clit Commander.
Don't sweat your lack of experience, even guys who've been around the block can't find it sometimes.
HAHA, seriously sometimes you gotta spell it out. No matter how much porn I looked at or articles I read I never got it, until I was told exactly where it was. Damn, I was a dork.
Oh yea tempest, if you are gonna lick, that's what you lick ... not her vagina.