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10 months later....

ewww HH farted
 
habitualhealth said:
i did. several times already.
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How did it smell? Eating large amounts of eggs as of late a single fart could clear a room. Congrats on the win never had a doubt you would win your a great Mom.
 
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Smurfy said:
what's the result?
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I was pro se (representing myself) and went up against this attorney......

Richard W. Schiffman, Jr.

Rick Schiffman is a shareholder practicing primarily in the Firm's Family Law Section. He advises clients with respect to matrimonial and family law.

Rick was admitted to the Georgia Bar in 1981. He is Past President of the Family Law Section of the Georgia Trial Lawyers Association. He is a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the Atlanta Bar Association, and a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia. He is President of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Inn of Court and a Fellow and Vice President in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. He is listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and is a member of the State Bar of Georgia.


In his final ruling, the judge said he saw "no proof or reason to share in the concerns of the opposing party and that over the course of the trial he saw nothing short of a very loving and caring mother and overall a beautiful person on the inside and out." He granted me sole physical and joint legal with me having the final say in any unreached agreement. He also increased his child support and ordered he take out a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for mini me in my name. He gets every other weekend visitation and thursday nights to see her.
 
habitualhealth said:
I was pro se (representing myself) and went up against this attorney......

Richard W. Schiffman, Jr.

Rick Schiffman is a shareholder practicing primarily in the Firm's Family Law Section. He advises clients with respect to matrimonial and family law.

Rick was admitted to the Georgia Bar in 1981. He is Past President of the Family Law Section of the Georgia Trial Lawyers Association. He is a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the Atlanta Bar Association, and a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia. He is President of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Inn of Court and a Fellow and Vice President in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. He is listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and is a member of the State Bar of Georgia.


In his final ruling, the judge said he saw "no proof or reason to share in the concerns of the opposing party and that over the course of the trial he saw nothing short of a very loving and caring mother and overall a beautiful person on the inside and out." He granted me sole physical and joint legal with me having the final say in any unreached agreement. He also increased his child support and ordered he take out a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for mini me in my name. He gets every other weekend visitation and thursday nights to see her.
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Okay. Be honest.

Did you diddle the judge?
 
I told you that you would win. The only person that doubted you was yourself... and you succeeded. Time to celebrate a little...
 
beefcake28 said:
I told you that you would win. The only person that doubted you was yourself... and you succeeded. Time to celebrate a little...
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Yeah well it's tough NOT being scared poopless when you're representing yourself in a case like this.

His attorney is very well known and respected as one of the best in atlanta. That's a lil scary for lil ol me.
 
habitualhealth said:
I was pro se (representing myself) and went up against this attorney......

Richard W. Schiffman, Jr.

Rick Schiffman is a shareholder practicing primarily in the Firm's Family Law Section. He advises clients with respect to matrimonial and family law.

Rick was admitted to the Georgia Bar in 1981. He is Past President of the Family Law Section of the Georgia Trial Lawyers Association. He is a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the Atlanta Bar Association, and a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia. He is President of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Inn of Court and a Fellow and Vice President in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. He is listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and is a member of the State Bar of Georgia.


In his final ruling, the judge said he saw "no proof or reason to share in the concerns of the opposing party and that over the course of the trial he saw nothing short of a very loving and caring mother and overall a beautiful person on the inside and out." He granted me sole physical and joint legal with me having the final say in any unreached agreement. He also increased his child support and ordered he take out a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for mini me in my name. He gets every other weekend visitation and thursday nights to see her.
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OOOOHHHHHHHHHH.....

SLAM DUNK HONEY!

I did say a prayer for you!
 
HH proves for the masses that high paid lawyers are useless except for taking your money...

Right on...oh and she must have a big mouth!
 
stilleto said:
WHEW!! you know i'm so happy for you i have tears in my eyes, right?

i'm really glad it worked out. :)
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omg i wish you could've been there. mini me's attorney called me today after the ruling and said she was so overly impressed with how well i did.

i pretty much wanted to :sick: straight for the past two days.

having to come up with and question not only my witnesses but cross examine my ex on stand. :worried:

thanks so much momma.
 
habitualhealth said:
Yeah well it's tough NOT being scared poopless when you're representing yourself in a case like this.

His attorney is very well known and respected as one of the best in atlanta. That's a lil scary for lil ol me.
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Your right... at the same time, I saw some of your evidence/paperwork. When my friend told me that she was having a hard time coming up with advice for you, I knew you had all your bases covered. She knows her shit, and if she couldn't find anything more to advise you on, than I knew that any sensible Judge would rule in your favor. Simple as that. I just talked to her, and she said that she would have been suprised if you would have lost anything. You did an amazing job.

Then again, if I was in your position, I would have been equally worried.
 
habitualhealth said:
omg i wish you could've been there. mini me's attorney called me today after the ruling and said she was so overly impressed with how well i did.

i pretty much wanted to :sick: straight for the past two days.

having to come up with and question not only my witnesses but cross examine my ex on stand. :worried:

thanks so much momma.
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you did great. i'm so proud of you. really.
:heart:
 
habitualhealth said:
Thank you so much. God must've been busy as hell with all the prayer request for me and mini me over the past 48 hours. :D

I'm pretty sure he made his appearance in the courtroom today.
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He did.
 
habitualhealth said:
be COMPLETELY honest with her about EVERYTHING!

start journaling EVERY SINGLE THING. text messages, emails, phone conversations. the GAL will be your best witness. TRUST ME!

i just got off the phone with mine. (now, former GAL) :D
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I had my first meeting with her last week. I just layed it out there... about the past drug use and the fact that the girl just won't quit...

Nothing held back.

I have every email, every text message etc... anytime anything happens I put it on my calendar.

Since I WANT to share custody 50/50, I don't think it's going to be that big of an issue - but the GAL will force her to get clean.

We will both test for drugs in 90 days. So the ex now is faced with the EXACT same decision I put in front of her 8 months ago... only this time, it's not me, it's her child.
 
habitualhealth said:
i started crying when the judge said sole physical custody goes to ms. habitualhealth.


i'll never admit that again.
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how awesome is that???
i was the only child of a single mom for a few years, and even after she remarried, she was still my only real parent...

it was a tough road for her to get there, but the best thing in the world for both of us.

the hardest part of your life is over. the rest- is a piece of cake.













and we all know how much you love cake.
 
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stilleto said:
how awesome is that???
i was the only child of a single mom for a few years, and even after she remarried, she was still my only real parent...

it was a tough road for her to get there, but the best thing in the world for both of us.

the hardest part of your life is over. the rest- is a piece of cake.


and we all know how much you love cake.
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i agree...i can't imagine going through anything harder in my life. i'm so unbelievably relieved it's over.




i'm eating my celebatory cake as we type, biznatch.
 
habitualhealth said:
I was pro se (representing myself) and went up against this attorney......

Richard W. Schiffman, Jr.

Rick Schiffman is a shareholder practicing primarily in the Firm's Family Law Section. He advises clients with respect to matrimonial and family law.

Rick was admitted to the Georgia Bar in 1981. He is Past President of the Family Law Section of the Georgia Trial Lawyers Association. He is a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the Atlanta Bar Association, and a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia. He is President of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Inn of Court and a Fellow and Vice President in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. He is listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and is a member of the State Bar of Georgia.


In his final ruling, the judge said he saw "no proof or reason to share in the concerns of the opposing party and that over the course of the trial he saw nothing short of a very loving and caring mother and overall a beautiful person on the inside and out." He granted me sole physical and joint legal with me having the final say in any unreached agreement. He also increased his child support and ordered he take out a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for mini me in my name. He gets every other weekend visitation and thursday nights to see her.
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That's fabulous@!
 
heatherrae said:
OOOOHHHHHHHHHH.....

SLAM DUNK HONEY!

I did say a prayer for you!
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DITTO THAT! Congrats girl. Get on w/ enjoying life w/ the munchkin as it was meant to be enjoyed!
 
Why did you represent yourself?
 
all the whey said:
Why did you represent yourself?
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I hired an attorney in the beginning and he was the biggest flake. I actually had to file a complaint with the GA Bar against him. It had already cost me $8500 and i had absolutely NOTHING to show for the case. Ended up terminating the contract with the attorney due to being held in contempt of court because he lied and never filed my required documents.

An extensive 10 month litigation is not something one budgets for so i didn't have the money to start all over again.

I knew I knew the case and the facts better than anyone so I did what I had to do.

Trust me, most lawyers are SCUM. (no offense HR)
 
gotmilk said:
She owns Matlock Seasons 1 thru 4 on DVD. Duh
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Ha!

Actually, true story....I'm on the stand.....the opposing attorney's final question to me is "Miss HH, please state for the court what attorney/firm has provided you with all the information necessary to prepare for this trial".

My response: "Actually, Mr. Schiffman, you'll be pleased to know that your firms website provides a plethora of articles (some that he had written), research and an entire breakdown of trial prep. I suppose I should be thanking you." I held up a big file with all of the articles. Check it out.
http://www.dmqlaw.com/CM/Custom/TOCArticles.asp

His attorney: "No further questions your honor".

Without a doubt, the most empowering experience of my life.
 
habitualhealth said:
Ha!

Actually, true story....I'm on the stand.....the opposing attorney's final question to me is "Miss HH, please state for the court what attorney/firm has provided you with all the information necessary to prepare for this trial".

My response: "Actually, Mr. Schiffman, you'll be pleased to know that your firms website provides a plethora of articles (some that he had written), research and an entire breakdown of trial prep. I suppose I should be thanking you." I held up a big file with all of the articles. Check it out.
http://www.dmqlaw.com/CM/Custom/TOCArticles.asp

His attorney: "No further questions your honor".

Without a doubt, the most empowering experience of my life.
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YOU GO GIRL!!!
 
habitualhealth said:
I was pro se (representing myself) and went up against this attorney......

Richard W. Schiffman, Jr.

Rick Schiffman is a shareholder practicing primarily in the Firm's Family Law Section. He advises clients with respect to matrimonial and family law.

Rick was admitted to the Georgia Bar in 1981. He is Past President of the Family Law Section of the Georgia Trial Lawyers Association. He is a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the Atlanta Bar Association, and a member and past President of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia. He is President of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Inn of Court and a Fellow and Vice President in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. He is listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and is a member of the State Bar of Georgia.


In his final ruling, the judge said he saw "no proof or reason to share in the concerns of the opposing party and that over the course of the trial he saw nothing short of a very loving and caring mother and overall a beautiful person on the inside and out." He granted me sole physical and joint legal with me having the final say in any unreached agreement. He also increased his child support and ordered he take out a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for mini me in my name. He gets every other weekend visitation and thursday nights to see her.
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Not only are you VERY SMART and capable but God was with you as you obviously had a judge with his/her head screwed on correctly.

I am so happy for you, you can't imagine.

YEAY YOU AND MINI ME!!!!!!!!! :)
 
congrats I guess, I dont know too much about your situation, but did the father want 50/50 custody? Also what the hell is GAL
 
seaking420 said:
congrats I guess, I dont know too much about your situation, but did the father want 50/50 custody? Also what the hell is GAL
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Cliff notes version.....never married...daughter is almost 6...dad sued me for SOLE physical and legal custody. He wanted ME to have every other weekend visitation.

GAL=guardian ad litem. This is an attorney order by the court for the child(ren) in a case. Their sole purpose is to investigate both sides and find out what is in the best interest of the child.
 
habitualhealth said:
Cliff notes version.....never married...daughter is almost 6...dad sued me for SOLE physical and legal custody. He wanted ME to have every other weekend visitation.

GAL=guardian ad litem. This is an attorney order by the court for the child(ren) in a case. Their sole purpose is to investigate both sides and find out what is in the best interest of the child.
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why do you only post on your threads
 
habitualhealth said:
Cliff notes version.....never married...daughter is almost 6...dad sued me for SOLE physical and legal custody. He wanted ME to have every other weekend visitation.

GAL=guardian ad litem. This is an attorney order by the court for the child(ren) in a case. Their sole purpose is to investigate both sides and find out what is in the best interest of the child.
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I sure hope none of the GAL's are guys! lol
 
habitualhealth said:
Ha!

Actually, true story....I'm on the stand.....the opposing attorney's final question to me is "Miss HH, please state for the court what attorney/firm has provided you with all the information necessary to prepare for this trial".

My response: "Actually, Mr. Schiffman, you'll be pleased to know that your firms website provides a plethora of articles (some that he had written), research and an entire breakdown of trial prep. I suppose I should be thanking you." I held up a big file with all of the articles. Check it out.
http://www.dmqlaw.com/CM/Custom/TOCArticles.asp

His attorney: "No further questions your honor".

Without a doubt, the most empowering experience of my life.
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:lmao:

I bet he changes his website now. He got pwnd on that one...lol.
 
Cliff notes version.....never married...daughter is almost 6...dad sued me for SOLE physical and legal custody. He wanted ME to have every other weekend visitation.

GAL=guardian ad litem. This is an attorney order by the court for the child(ren) in a case. Their sole purpose is to investigate both sides and find out what is in the best interest of the child.
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Not trying to give you a hard time, but I think if both parents want custody and both are good loving parents, it should be 50/50
 
seaking420 said:
Not trying to give you a hard time, but I think if both parents want custody and both are good loving parents, it should be 50/50
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Her father's job has required and continues to require a lot of travel. Among other major defining factors that aren't necessary to post up....the GAL, psychologist, and more importantly, the judge saw the facts and ins/outs of the situation and ruled accordingly.
 
habitualhealth said:
everytime i look to see other threads...they all seem to be a youngguns thread....


i know better than to click on them.



besides, my threads entertain me.
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Remember this, I am here to entertain.
 
Her father's job has required and continues to require a lot of travel. Among other major defining factors that aren't necessary to post up....the GAL, psychologist, and more importantly, the judge saw the facts and ins/outs of the situation and ruled accordingly.
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ok. I figured something was up if he wanted full custody and you actually got full custody. I still think 50/50 is the way to go, but everycase is different. Anyways congrats................now that this is all over and you need to unwind, we should fuck!
 
habitualhealth said:
it's FINALLY OVER!!!


i've been in trial the past two days regarding the custody litigation over mini me.


feels good to exhale again. :worried:
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10 FRIGGIN MONTHS???

Holy SHIT Batman!!!
 
It takes some huge balls to represent yourself in court

...so no wonder it came so easily for you.
 
jack_schitt said:
10 FRIGGIN MONTHS???

Holy SHIT Batman!!!
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No shit!

It took less time for her to get knocked up, and spit the kid out.
 
alien amp pharm said:
It takes some huge balls to represent yourself in court

...so no wonder it came so easily for you.
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dude, i was so nervous...i don't know if it was pee or sweat running down my leg. :worried:

but i never let them see me sweat. (pee?)


i was scared sheetless walking in there. i had to hold on the to podium (did i spell that right?) so no one would see me shaking.

by day two, i had ulcers lining the inside of my bottom lip. :(












....and yes, my balls are bigger than yours.
 
jack_schitt said:
10 FRIGGIN MONTHS???

Holy SHIT Batman!!!
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Ten months of hell for ANY loving parent, especially difficult for a mother. Imagine that length of time multiplied by 7 with no end in sight.

Good for HH. She is a loving, dedicated and more than generous, very selfless parent to even co-parent with this douche. I am not posting from gut feelings but my hubby and I have talked to Ms HH at length and were made privy to several documents from all parties concerned. She busted her ASS to defend her daughter and her right to mother and the officials involved DID do their jobs as well. But in the end, it was purely a beneficial situation for THE CHILD ALONE because of ONE THING:

THE WISDOM OF THE JUDGE.

I am truly happy for you. Now perhaps you and your baby will be free to be all that you ever wanted to be... heck maybe even surpass the dreams that you haven't even had yet! :rose:
 
mightymouse69 said:
I didn't know Judge Judy was back on the circuit?
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I would give my eyeteeth for the ability to present my case before her but I have ZERO control over who I appear in front of.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Ten months of hell for ANY loving parent, especially difficult for a mother. Imagine that length of time multiplied by 7 with no end in sight.

Good for HH. She is a loving, dedicated and more than generous, very selfless parent to even co-parent with this douche. I am not posting from gut feelings but my hubby and I have talked to Ms HH at length and were made privy to several documents from all parties concerned. She busted her ASS to defend her daughter and her right to mother and the officials involved DID do their jobs as well. But in the end, it was purely a beneficial situation for THE CHILD ALONE because of ONE THING:

THE WISDOM OF THE JUDGE.

I am truly happy for you. Now perhaps you and your baby will be free to be all that you ever wanted to be... heck maybe even surpass the dreams that you haven't even had yet! :rose:
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Agreed on all points. It truly was the most trying time of my life. Regardless of how awesome and confident you are in yourself as a parent...the mere threat of someone taking her away is almost unbearable.

I've been wound so tight for the past 10 months.

And yes, it's nice to know I can move forward in my career and my endeavors without worrying about every little thing I do.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I would give my eyeteeth for the ability to present my case before her but I have ZERO control over who I appear in front of.
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Hire HH? She may give you a discount while she is still 1-0?
 
mightymouse69 said:
Hire HH? She may give you a discount while she is still 1-0?
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AT this point, even though Ms HH is waaaaaaaaaay beyond effective and capable, she is a beautiful woman who is herself a fitness model - the very reason that the judge from hell has taken my children from me four times in 3+ years. Because NO MODEL could EVER be a good mother.... hell, dont you know that they are all whores that would drop their skivies if the price is right... Selfish whores that only care about themselves. NONE of them could EVER be good mothers.

So I will have to pass. LOL
 
habitualhealth said:
haha. and exactly what purpose will this serve?


"neener neener i beat you!"???


how much money will you give me? :evil:
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Pretty sure he's already seen it anyways...
 
jh1 said:
Pretty sure he's already seen it anyways...
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i wasn't sure if gotmilk was suggesting sending bc he HADNT seen it or just for pure gloating purposes.

Yeah, all the pics came out in court. While I was on the stand the schmuck would say, "miss HH, isn't it true these are pictures of you?" he'd hand me a few dozen of my modeling pics......my response, "oh yes, that's definitely me" and smile at him.


I really wanted to ask him how many times he's checked out the pics since he got involved in the case.
 
habitualhealth said:
i wasn't sure if gotmilk was suggesting sending bc he HADNT seen it or just for pure gloating purposes.

Yeah, all the pics came out in court. While I was on the stand the schmuck would say, "miss HH, isn't it true these are pictures of you?" he'd hand me a few dozen of my modeling pics......my response, "oh yes, that's definitely me" and smile at him.


I really wanted to ask him how many times he's checked out the pics since he got involved in the case.
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Did he have your really fat "before" pic in my gallery section?
 
habitualhealth said:
oddly enough, (feel the sarcasm oozin') he didn't.


i mean seriously, what's he going to say..."your honor, miss habitualhealth wasn't so habituallyhealthy here. she's a bad mom because she was a cow".
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are you trying to say that...that...fat people are PEOPLE?
 
habitualhealth said:
oddly enough, (feel the sarcasm oozin') he didn't.


i mean seriously, what's he going to say..."your honor, miss habitualhealth wasn't so habituallyhealthy here. she's a bad mom because she was a cow".
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Yes. Ms HabituallyFat only recently pulled her shit together (no pun yur hun'a) and therefore we request the courts band her from all visitation to both mini-me and the local dunkin donuts.
 
gotmilk said:
Yes. Ms HabituallyFat only recently pulled her shit together (no pun yur hun'a) and therefore we request the courts band her from all visitation to both mini-me and the local dunkin donuts.
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LOL
 
gotmilk said:
Yes. Ms HabituallyFat only recently pulled her shit together (no pun yur hun'a) and therefore we request the courts band her from all visitation to both mini-me and the local dunkin donuts.
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:lmao:

a restraining order from the dunkin donuts.
 
congrats, way to go girl, I can only imagine how big of a boost that would be to one's confidence to beat some high priced attorney.

Whiskey
 
I couldn't even imagine going through that...I hear of horror stories all the time. I was lucky enough that we split on somewhat decent terms and agreed to everything.
I bet he is really beating himself right now...you won cusody over your daughter and look at you now...lol
 
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